I don't have anything particularly helpful to say about the current 20/30somethings but I can see why staying put with one's parents after Uni is becoming more and more appealing. If M&D are in agreement about a peppercorn rent, it might just be the only reasonable way to afford to live in the South East, have any type of social life, pay back student loans and put some money aside for a deposit somewhere down the line.
I think living in Greater London gives one a distorted view of reality. There are a lot of youngish and older people living in enviously smart dwellings who have had major help by rich parents or grandparents. It is sadly not the reality for the majority of young or even middle-aged ones.
We have a three-bedroom house but in a not very nice area, but only really could afford that because DW was a real saver and lived in places with peppercorn rents (essentially) until 30s. I had had a share in property, but sadly not in areas that had up-and-come so never made any money on mine. We have had no help whatsoever from relatives despite PILs living in a property worth £1M.
I slightly disagree, Mumzy - I think there is more social mixing than you might think in London not out of choice but out of necessity. I think it is only those working in high-paid City jobs who can afford the gated developments or to live in middle-class enclaves like Crouch End/Clapham etc... You might just find that in the run down council estates are many privately owned properties, homes to the less-well off graduates of this world.
What I think is crazy though is house-price inflation in some parts of London. One of those properties in Chelsea that was recently on the market for £8,500,000 was bought in the 1980s for £140,000 - yes a lot for that era but not the equivalent of its value in current terms.
A lot of people's escalation up the property ladder has historically been down to inheritance and luck. I am not sure with elderly care provision eating into inheritance pots that this is going to happen to the same extent in the future...
I think it is increasingly going to be the case that families will follow other cultures' models of living several generations to a property.
Our parents' generation lived through what was effectively a halcyon age with affordable housing even in the South East/London, moves funded by generous relocation/promotion packages from their employers (even in the Public Sector) and decent pension pots. I do not think that any of us or our children will be in the same fortunate position unless we come from very monied backgrounds.
There needs to be some sort of major overhaul of the whole housing system. The start would be to impose rent ceilings even in London. I don't really know why if Councils can charge a fair rent, the landlords can't be forced to charge a maximum of 20% over the official fair rent value. We have crazy situations where council-owned properties charge £90 a week rent, but others living in equivalent properties in the same locale, paying to private landlords, are forking out three times that p/w.