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I’m a personal trainer AMA

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PThelp · 11/08/2025 16:17

Hello, I’ve got a few hours spare and happy to answer and exercise/ health/ fitness related questions 😊

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PThelp · 12/08/2025 15:16

Rallentanda · 12/08/2025 10:14

I am a late-diagnosed menopausal ADHD-er. All my life I've found I love <whatever kind of exercise> for three weeks, then I lapse. There's no point in trying to make it a habit. "Just do it" doesn't work. Do you have any suggestions for people like me?

Invest financially with a trainer, that works for a lot of people. Set a really cool goal to work towards- hand stands? Running a 5k? Being able to do a full press up? Something to keep you interested.

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PThelp · 12/08/2025 15:19

lilylulus · 12/08/2025 13:18

oh thanks for this!

40s, tall and slim but torso is becoming more and more flabby and "wrinkly" - it's like the elasticity of my skin has given up! What's the best exercise?

And my underarms - I can see dimply skin forming, assuming it's cellulite (and one side is worse than the other!), how do I tone them?

Tummy is normal sadly, it happens to the best of us.

Arms- get stronger and build some muscle. Press ups, rows of all sorts, bicep curls, over head press...

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JohnnyMcGrathSaysFuckOff · 12/08/2025 16:10

PThelp · 12/08/2025 14:56

Honestly, I'm not that knowledgable in jump training. What are your goals? Are you looking for more power in something in particular or mainly for bone health for instance?

As a progression I would be looking to start some single leg work with the jumping, but it would depending on you and your goals.

Thanks so much!

So yeah, more power and athleticism really.

I have noticed since I started doing jump training that I can get up hills much faster when running and without feeling much fatigue. My quads and glutes in particular feel more powerful and "solid". So looking to progress that really!

herbaceous · 12/08/2025 17:11

Hi

I am a reluctant gym-goer, as find it almost unbearably tedious and mildly embarrassing. I never get any better, and get no high from exercising, so motivation is a struggle.

However, lifting heavy weights seems to be the best 'bang for buck', and I don't want to die yet, so persevere.

PTs always talk about 'goals'. But I never really know what they mean. Live longer? Look marginally less repellent? Or is it more 'bench 60kg'. I may be more motivated if I had a goal, but don't know what it should be and when I get there!

PThelp · 12/08/2025 18:20

GlastoNinja · 12/08/2025 08:52

I have another one; why when you’re planking do fitness instructors make you do it on your forearms. It’s really uncomfortable in my shoulders as they feel like they’re in the wrong position for me but hands easier.

Just tell them no, do it on your hands or ask them to give you feedback on your form as you may not be doing it correctly.

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PThelp · 12/08/2025 20:17

UnintentionalArcher · 11/08/2025 19:13

@PThelp Do you think exercise classes can ever be detrimental to sustainable progress? I think they can be great as part of a fitness routine but what I mean by this is if they aren’t sufficiently targeted (as opposed to working with a PT) and encourage you to go ‘all out’ then do you think they can actually be a barrier to building strength and fitness sustainably? To give an example, I’m generally fit (swim and run frequently, plus weight train a couple of times a week supplemented by a couple of classes) but my weakness is definitely some of the stuff targeted by functional training-type classes, specifically jump-based exercises (plyometrics?). Because I’m used to pushing myself, and the class instructors are quite ‘hardcore’, I will go for it, but I find these exercises (like box jumps) so relatively difficult that I often wonder if this approach is the best for sustainable progress. Would I be better not to push myself so hard, e.g. do fewer reps or go slower, and build more over time? Also, do you have general tips for building agility sustainably (often, I think, a neglected part of fitness routines). Thanks

I think you’ve hit the nail on the head, with regards to the plyometrics it sounds like what is being asked of you is too much and it needs to be regressed appropriately for you to make progress. If you keep trying to do something that you just can’t do, you won’t master it, will lose confidence and potentially hurt yourself.

I would recommend a couple of sessions with a PT with the goal in mind to work on agility. It’s v difficult to give you advice specifically as I can’t see where you are now and it could be wrong for you.

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PThelp · 12/08/2025 20:18

JohnnyMcGrathSaysFuckOff · 12/08/2025 16:10

Thanks so much!

So yeah, more power and athleticism really.

I have noticed since I started doing jump training that I can get up hills much faster when running and without feeling much fatigue. My quads and glutes in particular feel more powerful and "solid". So looking to progress that really!

Broad jumps would be good for you, double and then working up to single leg, 4-5 in a row. Really good for running development.

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HelloGreen · 12/08/2025 20:23

Another one with bad knees here. Or one knee anyway. Would some kind of support bandage help? And if so what kind do you recommend?

PThelp · 12/08/2025 20:24

herbaceous · 12/08/2025 17:11

Hi

I am a reluctant gym-goer, as find it almost unbearably tedious and mildly embarrassing. I never get any better, and get no high from exercising, so motivation is a struggle.

However, lifting heavy weights seems to be the best 'bang for buck', and I don't want to die yet, so persevere.

PTs always talk about 'goals'. But I never really know what they mean. Live longer? Look marginally less repellent? Or is it more 'bench 60kg'. I may be more motivated if I had a goal, but don't know what it should be and when I get there!

Hello, good question.

People have all sorts of goals, personally I find performance related goals the most motivating. For me I use those to keep me engaged, but I’m doing it my long term physical and mental health (and aesthetics as well if I’m totally honest).

I’ll give you a few goals that could potentially work for you- or have a think of your own.

  • Run a 5/10k without stopping
(from there you could aim to beat your times, enter races, go further etc)
  • be able to do a full pull up/ press up and then to 10 reps
  • deadlift/ squat your own body weight
  • Be able to crow/ handstand/ headstand
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PThelp · 12/08/2025 20:25

HelloGreen · 12/08/2025 20:23

Another one with bad knees here. Or one knee anyway. Would some kind of support bandage help? And if so what kind do you recommend?

No, I wouldn’t recommend it. Getting your glutes, quads, hamstrings and calves strong would what I would recommend. Also see a physio if you haven’t already.

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gamerchick · 12/08/2025 20:40

What in weightlifting would you recommend avoiding in someone with a scoliosis?

Ddakji · 12/08/2025 22:28

PThelp · 12/08/2025 15:08

Yes, you can get some wooden mini paralette bars to help, they help take pressure off the wrists,

Also, I would prioritise over time getting your wrists stronger over time, persevering with the floor exercises. It takes a good while, but is worth it.

Thank you!

Rallentanda · 13/08/2025 09:49

PThelp · 12/08/2025 15:16

Invest financially with a trainer, that works for a lot of people. Set a really cool goal to work towards- hand stands? Running a 5k? Being able to do a full press up? Something to keep you interested.

Thanks for the reply! Long-term goals don't do anything for ADHDers (generalising a bit there but our brains aren't set up to value rewards in that way) but very very short term goals might, so I'll think up a few. It would have to be something like 'by the end of the week I will..' 😆

JohnnyMcGrathSaysFuckOff · 13/08/2025 10:44

PThelp · 12/08/2025 20:18

Broad jumps would be good for you, double and then working up to single leg, 4-5 in a row. Really good for running development.

Thanks OP 💖

herbaceous · 13/08/2025 12:31

I have an actual training question, other than 'waaah, why do I hate it so much...'

I have tennis elbow in my right arm, making bicep curls painful. What other arm exercises will exercise that area?

Beachtastic · 13/08/2025 14:40

Thanks for the thread, OP.

I was once very fit (cycled 35 miles a day on hills against strong coastal winds) and found gym sessions and running an absolute breeze.

Fast forward to now, mid-60s and have been WFH for 20-odd years. When I started self-employment I thought I'd keep up the exercise, but guess what, laziness took over instead (or rather, I prioritised work deadlines).

Having seen my parents' decline into helplessness, I'm determined to make more effort going forward, so that I can hang onto whatever strength and mobility is available to me.

I read about the inevitable decline of muscle mass as we age, but would like to hope that with plenty of walking, gradually easing into a bit of gentle running, a few Pilates/yoga sessions weekly, and a couple of weights sessions I should still be able to achieve some fitness goals. I'd also like to lose about 15 kg.

I have finally stopped berating myself for not making the progress I once did. This is obviously going to be a slow process. I just wonder what you think it's realistic to expect? Does muscle return if we try hard enough (without overdoing it)?!? Even when you start off pretty much from scratch again at an older age?

PThelp · 13/08/2025 19:13

gamerchick · 12/08/2025 20:40

What in weightlifting would you recommend avoiding in someone with a scoliosis?

You don’t need to avoid anything unless it causes you specific issues. I have a mild/ moderate scoliosis and it doesn’t impact me at all. I would say it’s important not to try to ‘correct’ anything, as that is where you may run into issues.

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PThelp · 13/08/2025 19:16

Beachtastic · 13/08/2025 14:40

Thanks for the thread, OP.

I was once very fit (cycled 35 miles a day on hills against strong coastal winds) and found gym sessions and running an absolute breeze.

Fast forward to now, mid-60s and have been WFH for 20-odd years. When I started self-employment I thought I'd keep up the exercise, but guess what, laziness took over instead (or rather, I prioritised work deadlines).

Having seen my parents' decline into helplessness, I'm determined to make more effort going forward, so that I can hang onto whatever strength and mobility is available to me.

I read about the inevitable decline of muscle mass as we age, but would like to hope that with plenty of walking, gradually easing into a bit of gentle running, a few Pilates/yoga sessions weekly, and a couple of weights sessions I should still be able to achieve some fitness goals. I'd also like to lose about 15 kg.

I have finally stopped berating myself for not making the progress I once did. This is obviously going to be a slow process. I just wonder what you think it's realistic to expect? Does muscle return if we try hard enough (without overdoing it)?!? Even when you start off pretty much from scratch again at an older age?

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Hello!

I think it will be brilliant for you to get back into exercise. Genuinely it is never too late. There are studies showing that resistance training improved strength and muscle mass for people in their 90’s- so you will do absolutely fine!

Listen to your body, not too much at once. I would prioritise walking, strength training and either yoga or Pilates to start with and go from there.

Good luck!

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PThelp · 13/08/2025 19:17

herbaceous · 13/08/2025 12:31

I have an actual training question, other than 'waaah, why do I hate it so much...'

I have tennis elbow in my right arm, making bicep curls painful. What other arm exercises will exercise that area?

I would see a physio and seek advice. Anything that involves the flexing and extension of the elbow could make it worse initially, you probably want to start looking at strengthening your wrists and forearms to start with rather than targeting biceps.

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PistachioTiramisuLimoncello · 14/08/2025 09:05

After going to the gym for a few months now I can totally see more definition in my arms and legs - how do I let my period belly and boobs know it’s time to get on board?!

bloodredfeaturewall · 14/08/2025 09:35

is there a fitness test/strength test you do with clients that we could do at home?

JohnnyMcGrathSaysFuckOff · 31/08/2025 19:29

Hi @PThelp just wanted to say per your advice, I mixed broad jumps into my conditioning circuits last week and I think they're really going to work for me 👍🏻 thanks a lot!

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