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Iceland AMA

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Puffinshop · 15/06/2024 17:15

I'm a naturalised Icelandic citizen, born and raised in England and living in the capital area of Iceland for over a decade. Fluent Icelandic speaker, mother of Icelandic children.

Can't offer a native Icelandic perspective but if you have any questions about Iceland please feel free Grin

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Puffinshop · 15/06/2024 17:49

PithyLion · 15/06/2024 17:29

what is the most beautiful bird that lives there, Tell us something about the language, what language do your children speak at home and at school, are you afraid of volcanoes

I love the golden plovers, the oystercatchers and the Arctic terns especially. The summer birds.

The language is beautiful and endlessly fascinating to me. It has four cases and three genders, so adjectives and nouns have many different forms as well as verbs of course. On the other hand, the spelling is very standardised, much easier than English. It has three special characters not used in English: æ, þ, ð as well as accents etc.

My kids speak Icelandic with DP, English with me, and mostly English amongst themselves, Icelandic at school.

I am not at all afraid of volcanoes. But then I do not live where one could get our house! Nobody has been directly killed by a volcano in Iceland in recorded history.

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Puffinshop · 15/06/2024 17:51

PithyLion · 15/06/2024 17:30

how do you keep beating England at football?

Haha 😄 I don't know - I do know football training is bloody intense for Icelandic children so it must produce some good players, but also I think people underestimate Iceland and assume it'll be a walkover.

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quivers · 15/06/2024 17:53

What is the latest news for the people of Grindavik? Do you think they will ever be able to live in the town again?

Puffinshop · 15/06/2024 17:54

Wren77 · 15/06/2024 17:30

Are the northern lights really only colourful through a camera lens as we discovered when they were visible here a few weeks ago? They were just a vague greyish streak in the sky to the naked eye!

They are always more colourful through a lens. So some weak lights may look green on a photo but only white/grey to the naked eye. However, it is very common to see green and I have seen purples and pinks occasionally.

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PithyLion · 15/06/2024 17:54

Puffinshop · 15/06/2024 17:51

Haha 😄 I don't know - I do know football training is bloody intense for Icelandic children so it must produce some good players, but also I think people underestimate Iceland and assume it'll be a walkover.

I dont think anyone underestimates individual icelandic athletes, it is just with having such a tiny population to choose from, assuming most dont play football anyway, and taking out the too young and the too old.... we assume that we have a much much greater choice of players to put in the team - 50 times more choice, at least, really. That is why we expect to win!

PithyLion · 15/06/2024 17:55

can you tell us some icelandic words please? There is nothing on duolingo, I have just looked

StJulian2023 · 15/06/2024 17:56

Just popping on to say we had the most wonderful week in Iceland at end May - stayed in Reykjavik and Vik and saw as many sights as we could. Spectacular country, lovely people

LeaveTheClocksAlone · 15/06/2024 18:08

Hi OP

I would like to visit Reykjavik as a solo female traveller. I presume it's very safe to do so?

I prefer dark nights and don't like hot weather. I would like to see the Northern Lights via a tour and I would also love to go whale watching.

What month do you feel would be most suitable for me? Ideally not when it's crowded if that's realistic...

Thank you x

Madcats · 15/06/2024 18:09

I had a fab holiday in Iceland one Easter many years ago. It's a gorgeous country.

How many months is it dark for and how do people cope? Do you have special daylight bulbs in homes and schools?

Conversely, in Summer do you have lots of midges in Reykjavik?

ElleneAsanto · 15/06/2024 18:09

I holidayed in Iceland back in the 1990´s and loved it (I’m an outdoorsy person). Do you still have the naming system that your surname is your father’s first name plus “…son” for a boy or “…dottir” for a girl? So for example, if you’re married to a man named Thor Ralfson, your children’s surnames would be Thorsson or Thorsdottir? It must be hard keeping track of family relationships.

Puffinshop · 15/06/2024 18:19

PithyLion · 15/06/2024 17:31

how old are your children? what is the education system like? are you married to an icelander? do people have cats?

9 and almost 7.

Preschool is almost universal from 2 - 6, but not compulsory. School starts the autumn of the year you turn 6 and is compulsory for 10 years. Then you can go to upper secondary for three years (used to be four until very recently) and university after that. Most kids go to a state university which has no tuition fees but private universities are available.

So my kids are in early primary still and my personal is not much!

No, we're not married but have been together over a decade and it's just laziness really. We intend to get married at some point.

Yes, cats are common pets.

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Puffinshop · 15/06/2024 18:31

BingoMarieHeeler · 15/06/2024 17:33

What do you do with your kids - days out etc - must-dos for visiting families (kids under 10)? Many thanks!

We go swimming, cycling, to the library. Sometimes hiking or day trips. Just normal stuff.

It's not a country that's got anything that special that's aimed specifically at kids (the pools are amazing though!) but they'll enjoy it if they're outdoorsy and adventurous. There are some good museums with things that kids will like but nothing purely child focused. Árbæjarsafn is cool!

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Puffinshop · 15/06/2024 18:41

PithyLion · 15/06/2024 17:33

what is the parliamentary system like? What is the government like? Is there separate national and local government, or is it all the same? As I think the population of iceland is roughly the same as a single local council area in Uk.

There's a parliament and a president and local municipalities. The president is mostly a figurehead but has some powers (can call for referenda for example). Municipalities do handle local stuff. Obviously Reykjavík is by far the biggest municipality so Mayor of Reykjavík is a big deal.

There's a lot of cronyism and politicians almost NEVER resign no matter how much they have disgraced themselves. They just stay quiet for a bit and it blows over 🙄

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MaryMaryVeryContrary · 15/06/2024 18:45

Interesting thread thanks OP. What’s a typical meal in your house?

Puffinshop · 15/06/2024 18:45

PithyLion · 15/06/2024 17:34

what is the ethnic mix? Do people know each other? Is there an issue with finding people to date who you are not closely related to? Is there a lot of genetic disease? is this something people are concious of?

Unsurprisingly it's overwhelmingly, though not exclusively, white. It's about 10% immigrant though. Poles are the largest immigrant group.

Yes, it's common to find some kind of connection with people you meet. No, it's not an issue finding non relatives to date. Icelanders are generally a healthy population and 350,000 is quite enough to prevent inbreeding issues 😄

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Puffinshop · 15/06/2024 18:51

HoHoHoliday · 15/06/2024 17:35

How long did it take you to become fluent? And were you able to achieve that before living there, or did you move there before learning the language?
I am 1.5 years into learning, but struggling as have no opportunity to actually speak it except within the lessons.

I was capable of communicating well a year or so after moving here but obviously have improved a lot since then in terms of vocabulary and fluency. I did a Master's degree in Icelandic my second year of living here, so I was at a reasonable standard. I had studied independently before moving here for about 2 years though, reading novels and doing the Icelandic Online course from UI.

It is a lot easier to progress once you live here, but you need a good accent to stop them switching to English right away.

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Puffinshop · 15/06/2024 18:53

Littletreefrog · 15/06/2024 17:36

We are staying in Rejkavik for New Years, I've hears about the community bonfires. As tourists can we turn up at these or are they really just for the local communities?

Yes, you can turn up, it's fine. A lot of tourists attend these days. I go to the twelfth night bonfire usually and it has got a lot busier in recent years.

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Puffinshop · 15/06/2024 18:54

PithyLion · 15/06/2024 17:36

what temperature is it there now? Thank you for this thread, I am very interested

17°! It's boiling! I am chilling in the garden 😎

Not a typical summer's day by any means.

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Puffinshop · 15/06/2024 18:54

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 15/06/2024 17:38

What time of year would you recommend visiting for someone who wouldn't like it either dark all the time or light all the time - and doesn't like the cold ?

August or September.

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Puffinshop · 15/06/2024 18:56

Longlazyday · 15/06/2024 17:40

Is there an ex-Pat community of Brits?

Kind of. There's a FB group where we talk about sausages, biscuits and teabags.

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Puffinshop · 15/06/2024 19:04

OccasionalHope · 15/06/2024 17:45

Did you have to abandon your surname in favour of a patronymic and does it sound odd being based on presumably an English name?

No, I still have my surname. It's my name, I wouldn't give it up unless I had to. A patronymic doesn't make sense for me because neither I nor my father is native Icelandic.

It's a long time since you had to take an Icelandic name to become a citizen! Some foreign women take on their husband's patronymic but in all honesty I think it's silly because the names have such a literal meaning. They are not sons, never mind their FIL's son.

My children don't have my surname though. They have patronymics.

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Puffinshop · 15/06/2024 19:17

PithyLion · 15/06/2024 17:49

does everybody speak english? Iceland is an English name in itself. Is there another name for the country?

Most people speak good English, but not everyone by any means. A lot of people don't speak it as well as they think iyswim (in a professional context, not conversational). Some people are not confident with English, it's not that rare but it is the exception.

Iceland in Icelandic is Ísland, pronounced eese-lahnd. A poetic name for the country is Frón (frone) and it's colloquially often called klakinn or skerið (the ice cube or the skerry).

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BingoMarieHeeler · 15/06/2024 19:22

Puffinshop · 15/06/2024 18:54

17°! It's boiling! I am chilling in the garden 😎

Not a typical summer's day by any means.

I’m in Italy and it was 11 today 🤣

Puffinshop · 15/06/2024 19:26

quivers · 15/06/2024 17:53

What is the latest news for the people of Grindavik? Do you think they will ever be able to live in the town again?

Personally I think not. Some people have been living there when allowed. No families really. The community is scattered. I think mostly people are moving on with the assumption that they won't return.

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Puffinshop · 15/06/2024 19:43

PithyLion · 15/06/2024 17:55

can you tell us some icelandic words please? There is nothing on duolingo, I have just looked

A fun word is rannsaka which mean to research but is a cognate of ransack.

There are loads of fun cognates like that and a lot of links with English that makes it fun to learn.

I like skafrenningur which means swirling snow that's been blown up from the ground by the wind.

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