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I manage a food bank. AMA

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Wetherforks · 06/01/2024 19:07

I manage and run a food bank in a UK city. It's Saturday night and I'm bored. Happy to try and answer if anyone has any questions!

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Cornishbelle · 06/01/2024 21:04

Do you ever have adhoc helpers? I'm thinking in particular my 11 year old son would love to help out for an hour or so with me also there, but not sure if there has to be a vetting process or minimum age requirement

Wetherforks · 06/01/2024 21:10

BlowDryRat · 06/01/2024 19:57

I stopped giving to our local food bank when I found out it has £500k in the bank. TBH I felt that my generosity was being taken advantage of, but am I wrong and that's normal?

That sounds unusual. But there could be good reasons for that - grants can come in a odd times of the year and you have to budget accordingly and keep money in reserve. And some grants are for specific things such as energy costs, capital costs for example. We don't always get a say in how money is spent, even when there is clear need in a particular area. 🙂

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Nsky62 · 06/01/2024 21:13

Happy to give £10 to my local food bank, via direct debit, and sometimes add tea/coffee or shower gel.
Do object to pressure by ads

Wetherforks · 06/01/2024 21:17

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 06/01/2024 20:25

I had a thread about this a while ago, but because I don't want to it wrong, I'll ask you as well.

I seem to have collected at least 20 of the little conditioner tubes that come in the hair colour boxes. I never use them and they just pile up, but I am reluctant to donate because it's clear that they were part of a kit.

Can I donate those?

Best to ask your local foodbank 🙂

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Wetherforks · 06/01/2024 21:20

WhoIsnt · 06/01/2024 20:27

Is it insulting to donate packets of things that are useful but are not fully sealed/brand new boxes -

e.g. a pack of 4 individual bars of soap, tried one and found I'm allergic - is it insulting to give the remaining three (unused) since they're in an opened packet?

Ditto tampons. Have a few 'opened' boxes of tampons, where I've taken out one or two, but have no need for the rest, where obviously all are individually wrapped and unused. Is this kind of thing useful or really is it only appropriate to actively go and purchase new boxes of things?

Not necessarily, and we'd usually split multipacks anyway - as long as they're individually wrapped. But again, check with your local foodbank!

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Atethehalloweenchocs · 06/01/2024 21:27

I like to give nice quality items, sometimes luxury items as I'd like people to have a treat. I sometimes worry that they get 'cherry picked' by people who help out. Does this happen?

I worked as a volunteer at our local food bank until mortgage payment increases meant I had to pick up extra shifts at work and no longer had time. Everyone who worked there was scrupulous about everything donated going to the people it was designed for. The only exception is when we got donations from a local food producer who would send lorry loads of product at times - think jams, specialist biscuits and chutneys - and we would be swimming in it to the point it could be hard to store it all. And the most I saw is a few people taking a jar of jam with much encouragement from our manager when everyone coming to the food bank had been given multiple jars, packet, etc.

There was one paid employee - the manager - who worked at least twice as many hours as she was paid for. The rest were all volunteers, many of whom we would eligible to use the food bank themselves. I guess many of us would hear stories about cherry picking may go on in charity shops, but in the food banks I know, it is absolutely rigorous and above board.

BillStickersWillBeProsocuted · 06/01/2024 21:32

Is it better to give items or donate money directly to a food bank?

I've thought before if I give money it means they can buy what is most needed, but also it feels like pushing more admin down the line! If you get money donations do you get a delivery from a supermarket or would be more likely to go to say general/running costs rather than items to be given out?

Wetherforks · 06/01/2024 21:33

@TellMeItsNotTrue and @onestepfromgrace We are so fortunate in that we have good links with Citizens Advice and a couple of volunteers who are trained in benefits advice as well. And I keep an updated list of other services that can help immediately, including things like olio and local places that are doing meals or kids clubs in the holidays for example. Always glad to hear about anything available that can be signposted.

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TheGirlWithGlassFeet · 06/01/2024 21:36

If donating something like coffee is it better to get one big jar that can be split or do you not split and prefer more smaller jars?

Tatumm · 06/01/2024 21:37

Thank you for helping people. 🙏🏽

What is the single biggest factor that drives families to needing your service at the moment? Is it something like debt, or illness preventing someone working?

What is one thing that the next government could do, in your opinion, to reduce the number of families needing your service?

What do you predict will happen in 2024? Will the numbers of households struggling to cope with the cost of living continue to rise?

Is there a danger that demand for your service will outstrip the supply of food? What would you do if this happened?

Whatsthestorynow · 06/01/2024 21:37

Thank you for doing what you do OP! How did you come to manage a food bank?

EmpressSoleil · 06/01/2024 21:38

I hadn't thought about coffee but you're right, it is expensive now. Something for me to consider next time.

Are you able to signpost people for help? As in, sometimes people are using food banks as they're not claiming everything they're entitled to. So maybe somewhere like citizens advice can help them? Do you give them any advice on that?

How do you feel about your job? I imagine it's sometimes very sad but you can feel that you're making a difference to people's lives.

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 06/01/2024 21:38

Do you want donations of baby food pouches?

Wetherforks · 06/01/2024 21:39

DuesToTheDirt · 06/01/2024 20:47

There was a thread a little while ago about a food bank user who threw much of what she'd taken from the food bank in the bin. Most replies said it was none of the OPs business, and the woman could do what she wanted with the food.

As someone providing this service, what is your take on that? Would you be upset?

It's always better to simply return food if it's not going to be used, because someone else can make use of it. I guess in principle I agree though, that it's none of my business what people do with food once it's given. I've developed quite thick skin and don't tend to get upset or offended -everyone has their own stuff going on, it's not for me to judge!

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EmpressSoleil · 06/01/2024 21:39

Oh just saw my question was answered, ignore me! Haha

Theblackdogagain · 06/01/2024 21:40

We have a local foodbank and I've done a few shifts at the supermarket asking for donations. I'm surprised by how many people a) assume I'm paid and b) don't think about what they donate. Fuel poverty is real so yes anything that can be warmed up quickly is good.
The sad thing is the amount of people who take against us being there and the abuse from those who have prejudice against foodbanks. There is at least one supermarket location I won't do anymore.

Wetherforks · 06/01/2024 21:44

caringcarer · 06/01/2024 20:51

Do you accept fresh fruit? I ask because I have apple and um trees. They all come at once I use a few, freeze a few, give some to neighbours but still have lots left.

Check with your food bank, it might be just on certain days or when they can distribute it immediately. Sometimes it's a no, because there's just not the storage facilities available or it can't be used quick enough. But 💯 ask, because faces light up when there's fresh fruit and vegetables available - honestly, it's the thing people get most excited about!

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Charlize43 · 06/01/2024 21:46

Do you have seafood?

I'd like to make a Bouillabaisse but seafood is so expensive.

Whatsthestorynow · 06/01/2024 21:46

@Theblackdogagain, how awful that people give you abuse. I can’t imagine why people would act like that. Saying that when I collected for charity I did get called scum! (not chugging just standing on the street with a tin).

Wetherforks · 06/01/2024 21:48

Bleachedshark · 06/01/2024 20:58

Do service users get to pick what they want and is it ok to be ‘fussy’? I have a family with allergies / intolerances/ ARFID/ ASD so worry that I’ll be seen as a fussy user when it’s actually really hard and I don’t want to take anything I know we won’t eat

Other foodbanks may be different but our food parcels are prepacked, we do allow one or two swaps though. Asking for multiple changes might cause an eyebrow raise though - we have to be fair to everyone. If you explain about allergies/special needs, we try to accommodate. And have allergy specific food parcels anyway.

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aliasname · 06/01/2024 21:55

I’d like to volunteer, but I’m not a people person. I’m a librarian, so I have skills in organising, planning etc Do you have volunteer roles in a warehouse or is your place quite small so everything is done on site?

MILTOBE · 06/01/2024 21:57

In my nearest Asda, there's a trolley at the entrance where shoppers can put things for the food bank. There isn't a member of staff nearby. Do you think anything put there gets stolen? I always take things directly to the food bank because of that.

Also Morrisons used to bag up items for the foodbank and put the cost on a label on the bag - I found that really useful, to pick up a bag whenever I was in there. They don't seem to do that now - do you know why?

DragonMama3 · 06/01/2024 21:57

sunshineandshowers40 · 06/01/2024 19:12

Do you get an influx of obvious Christmas food regifts at this time of year? Are they wanted or do you prefer people to stick to the lists on the local food bank website?

if hungry - anything is better than nothing

LessonsLearnedInLife · 06/01/2024 21:58

Wetherforks · 06/01/2024 19:16

It's independent. And no referral system either, you can just turn up. It's a great ethos, although comes with its own challenges as you can probably imagine.

How do you manage suspected abuse of your service? I’m asking as our independent larder/foodbank have put a restriction of using it twice a week due to some people abusing it.

Wetherforks · 06/01/2024 21:59

Cornishbelle · 06/01/2024 21:04

Do you ever have adhoc helpers? I'm thinking in particular my 11 year old son would love to help out for an hour or so with me also there, but not sure if there has to be a vetting process or minimum age requirement

Check rules with your local. We do get ad hoc volunteers, usually doing packing or behind the scenes stuff rather than client facing. Often service users ask to volunteer for a shift or two as a way of giving back, which is lovely.

I'd caution that it's not always an appropriate environment for a child though - and (not getting at you personally) it may seem like a good learning opportunity or a feel good thing, but our clients are real people with real lives, they aren't a tourist attraction. Respect is everything

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