Am loving this thread.
I have 2 dcs, a 14 yr old dd and a 4 yr old ds. I rode when I was younger (skivvied for rides at local riding school from being 10, typical ponymad girl with limited parental support) and eventually had my own.
Bought dd a pony when she was 2, then an another when she was 8, paid for weekly lessons etc. Despite doing everything right she is a very nervous rider. Just breaking in a baby highland that was for me as she had more or less given up and she is desperate to ride her. Been getting on during the backing process, asking to ride, not wanting to get off, wanting to move to the next level etc etc.
Do you think some people and ponies just click? And there is a special connection?
Ds who is only 4 has just inherited dds outgrown section A who could be quirky to ride. Nothing nasty just more reactive than a kids pony should be. With ds he is a different pony. Proper riding school lr pony quiet. Stands stock still for a bath for him. Will stand for hours being titivated with. Follows him around like a dog when he is leading him around.
Do you think horses and ponies pick people? And will try harder for some than others?
Baby highland has been very straightforward and honest to do so far, but can be a madam for some people to deal with. Lr pony has always been quirky which is why dd didnt bond with him but him and ds are amazing.
Have you ever 'given' a ride to someone else because the horse preferred someone else? Or picked a ride up because it didn't gel with its current jockey?
I can see it happening on a small, private scale but I imagine when the stakes are a 500k Olympic potential it stings a bit more.