Pancakes - funnily enough, I was talking to a lady last week who had a DS in a similar position to your DD and asked very similar questions!
Losing my sight had no impact on my ability to read as a child. I was and am a massive bookworm and read all the time. I'd recommend making sure she reads in good light and gets regular eye tests.
The only time I had a problem with eye strain is around exam time and long hours of revising. A long way off for your DD by the sounds of it, but I was allowed an extra 10 mins in my finals at uni for a short break. In some ways that was a pain, because I'd lose steam when writing an essay but ultimately was beneficial!
I was able to learn to drive without any problem, but didn't feel confident. I think that was more psychological, than to do with ability though.
At the end of the day, your DD will know no different and will amaze you with all the stuff she just gets on with! Any other questions, just let me know!