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So banning the Burka - freeing women from opression or taking away free choice...?

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Portoeufino · 09/04/2010 20:23

I read that in Belgium there is a draft bill to ban burkas and also the niqab.

As they put it " There is nothing in Islam or the Koran about the burka. It has become an institution of intimidation and is a sign of submission of women. A civilized society cannot accept the imprisonment of women."

They then talk of "matters of public safety" - is that implying that if you wear a burka is it therefore likely you might have it stuffed with explosives? Or if you cover your face, then there are security issues connected with that?

I have to admit I am very ignorant about all this. DO women only wear this clothing because they are opressed? Do they choose to? What happens if it is banned? Are women freed, or will they end up forbidden from leaving the house?

I am very interested to learn and understand more about this.

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dittany · 11/04/2010 00:08

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Portofino · 11/04/2010 00:06

dittany ffs. I said numerous times that this thread was about discussing clothing! If you want to discuss child sex abuse, then start your own thread!

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Portofino · 11/04/2010 00:04

Yes. Well surely the right to wear a burqa or not IS a feminist issue? When the govt wants to legislate against it and all...

dittany · 11/04/2010 00:04

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MillyR · 11/04/2010 00:01

Portofino, why have you put this thread in the feminism section? Are you specifically seeking feminist perspective on this issue?

umayma · 11/04/2010 00:01

MrsPixie

Most children who wear headscarf, just wear it occasionaly, so they get a bit used to it.

some wear it just in school, like a uniform,

some, just when they go to mosque or for Qur'an lessons.

Portofino · 10/04/2010 23:56

dittany - please go away and hide this thread. You are bringing all you anti-male, anti-religion stuff into a place that it does not belong. I want to LEARN about people's views not be bombarded with the insistance that all men are perverts.

dittany · 10/04/2010 23:55

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MillyR · 10/04/2010 23:49

MrsPixie, not all Muslim girls wear the headscarf because of modesty or religion - some just wear it as a fashion accessory or to generally look nice.

LadyBiscuit · 10/04/2010 23:49

Just to add to my post - I would never support banning any kind of clothing that someone chooses to wear in their personal life BUT having said that I suppose it goes along with banning hoodies. I still don't like it. Freedom of choice should rule and if you don't want to engage with the world then that's your prerogative. I do think it's really sad though

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Portofino · 10/04/2010 23:48

MillyR, I didn't mean the thread to be a critique of Islam, though it seems to have turned out that way .

I was more interested in the view that the govt is convinced it is doing the RIGHT thing by banning certain things and that I wanted to understand more about it from a female perspective.

MrsPixie · 10/04/2010 23:46

Hopefully someone will answer soon, I see many many young girls covered in this way where I live and am always v curious as to what the actual reasoning is behind it. I don't know any Muslims well so don't feel comfortable asking.

umayma · 10/04/2010 23:45

young girls don't need to wear headscarves but some parents feel like they should get their children used to it before they reach puberty. Some children just wear it going to mosque, some wear it like part of their uniform.

i know people will find it strange but my daughter whose 3, she thinks its normal to be out in a scarf because she has never seen me outside without one.

when i put my my scarf on, they always say 'are we going out?'

umayma · 10/04/2010 23:45

young girls don't need to wear headscarves but some parents feel like they should get their children used to it before they reach puberty. Some children just wear it going to mosque, some wear it like part of their uniform.

i know people will find it strange but my daughter whose 3, she thinks its normal to be out in a scarf because she has never seen me outside without one.

when i put my my scarf on, they always say 'are we going out?'

Portofino · 10/04/2010 23:43

Dittany - all I said is start your own thread!

Portofino · 10/04/2010 23:42

That is a good question MrsP. I don't see that here. School aged dcs never wear headscarves.

dittany · 10/04/2010 23:42

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LadyBiscuit · 10/04/2010 23:41

I live in NW London. I see women in burkhas fairly frequently, at least once a week. I saw one today in the Science Museum. I am not remotely interested in whether they are to do with religion or not - to me, a burkha says 'fuck off, I don't want to talk to you' so I don't bother.

MrsPixie · 10/04/2010 23:40

Can anyone answer a genuine question I have about very young girls (4-5) in headscarves. Why would they need to wear them and cover in modesty if they were pre-pubescent?

Portofino · 10/04/2010 23:40

Again, this thread is not about child abuse. If you believe that Muslims force their pubescent children to have sex start your own thread!

umayma · 10/04/2010 23:38

i apologise for going off topic many times, i've got a bad habit of that!

MillyR · 10/04/2010 23:36

Portofino, I think your thread invites a critique of Islam. This is a feminist topic and so you are asking feminists to say whether or not they think that wearing the burka is oppressive. There can only really be a range of ways of looking at that.

Does it restrict what women can physically do?
Does it restrict women's ability to express themselves?
Does it have an impact on women's health?
Is it symbolic of oppression due to its links with laws in other countries?
Is it symbolic of oppression because it is connected to religious beliefs about gender inequality?

Well, the answer to the first three is yes, but it would also be yes if we were talking about certain western clothes. So the area of debate has to be about its symbolic meaning, and that neccessarily involves talking about the extent to which Islam is oppressive to women in Western societies. We also have to ask who this primarily has an impact on - the women who wear it? Muslim women who don't wear it? Non-Muslim women? Women who are from communities that are predominantly Islamic but who themselves are not Muslim?

I don't think you can address this topic without discussing the range of attitudes to women in Islam.

I don't personally think that it should be banned, but then I am not in a position to make that judgement, because I haven't been raised in a Muslim culture and so I have no idea what is involved in making the decision to wear or not wear certain items of religious clothing.

Portofino · 10/04/2010 23:36

eh, not ONE of those comments relates to child abuse. Well maybe the comments about 12/13 yos IN THE UK having babies, where I remember the comment was that unfortunately THEY might have subject to abuse. That is sad, but it was talking about Western children......