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India Willoughby - recent escalations on social media

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BlueLegume · 16/10/2026 15:35

India Willoughby - can we take a moment an address the increasing hysteria and vile comments on their social media - X in particular.

In the past 24 hours he has slated Nick Wallis, JKR, Helen Joyce, Maya Forstater this list goes on.

It really feels at this stage that a close one to India should stage an intervention.

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Shedmistress · 16/10/2026 17:31

A bit like Robin Moira White the mumsnet stalker saying that this is a 'Rosa Parks moment'.

This is the guy that didnt take any voice coaching or throat shaving so that he could keep his deep intimidating voice.

Tears0fTheMushroom · 16/10/2026 17:30

EdinaTheConfessor · 16/10/2026 17:10

“Almost delusional”? There is no almost about it. He refers to himself as a biological female and thinks he has a cervix.

I always wonder about this assertion. Does he know what a cervix is? Does he believe he has a womb too?
Made me howl when Lammy asserted that transwomen could "grow" a cervix. Er... grow it where? Just randomly? Is it just sort of waving about in there wondering what it's for? 😂

nufe · 16/10/2026 17:29

India always seems very lonely and sad online. Does India have friends or family?

BlueLegume · 16/10/2026 17:26

Still think he needs help. There is definitely something wrong about the way he has escalated his venom.

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Veilsofmorning · 16/10/2026 17:24

EdinaTheConfessor · 16/10/2026 17:10

“Almost delusional”? There is no almost about it. He refers to himself as a biological female and thinks he has a cervix.

Well, I’d be happy for him to have the experience of my last cervical smear….. so, I’ll send on my next appointment- not to mention breast X-rays - but perhaps not, he might be weird enough to enjoy it all

Tears0fTheMushroom · 16/10/2026 17:23

BlueLegume · 16/10/2026 16:30

I won’t be vile towards IW. I genuinely see that’s easy but this is a prime example of us all going along with the trans delusion to ‘be kind’ and inclusive. Eventually the delusion is too much to handle. When the torchlight of reality is shone on it the reality is that it is a house of cards and it is collapsing.

IW is one person - this is happening across all parts of society. Whatever our views I do not wish harm on trans people/gender non conforming people, any people.

If this was anyone in the media or our lives we should or would be trying to support them. I do hope he has someone maybe a therapist or friend who can check in with the increasing hostility he is showing towards anything and everything.

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They would not and have not shown you and other women the same courtesy. Preferring instead to use their trans privilege - which is basically male privilege on steroids - to rain down bile and hatred on women who only wanted their rights. Death and rape threats are common. Sicking the police on anyone who dared question the orthodoxy of trans ideology. Getting women fired for misgendering... I could go on. I'm afraid I have no sympathy at all for these men. They hate us.

I still have a vivid memory of IW screaming at and intimidating an 80 year old Amanda Barrie on Big Brother for accidentally referring to this MAN as he. Knowing he would be backed up in his disgusting behaviour. Imagine any other man who wasn’t trans identified getting away with that?
So no, I don't care about him now that the lie he depended on to abuse and humiliate women is crumbling.

Maybe it's because I'm Gen X. FAFO.

But if you think he (and other TRAs are suddenly behaving badly because they're at the Find Out stage, just look back at their past behaviour. They ALWAYS behaved exactly the same. Even when they were getting everything their own way.

Screamingabdabz · 16/10/2026 17:17

Ime women get far more mellow and supportive of each other as they grow older. And men tend to grow bitter, more entrenched, self absorbed and opinionated.

Not everyone of course, just my random observation as I go through life.

EdinaTheConfessor · 16/10/2026 17:10

BlueLegume · 16/10/2026 15:50

To be honest I only saw it because he responded with an atrocious message to Maya Forstater on a Times radio piece.

I get it. He rode the wave of being popular and accepted when he first started to present as a female. He has since descended into a very dark almost delusional space with little regard to who he insults or common sense re the JKR situation by thoroughly disregarding any positive things she does for women. All ranty ‘anti trans’.

Genuinely hope he has people trying to help him see he is not helping himself at all.

“Almost delusional”? There is no almost about it. He refers to himself as a biological female and thinks he has a cervix.

BlueLegume · 16/10/2026 17:08

Hopefully someone in his friendship group will be strong enough to intervene. Personal views aside it is very sad to see a person who purports to be happy being so distressed.

What I do not get is why he doesn’t set up a proper way to express things rather than what can only be described as shouty abusive rants.

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TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 16/10/2026 17:03

He's a performance, he's increasingly irrelevant because the fad has passed and the world is moving on, like a lot of washed up has-beens he's blaming the world for all his woes. He's by nature a vulgar, malevolent, spiteful person and behind the performance is always the self.

Sad Times.

AIiswatchingyou · 16/10/2026 16:30

You know with unhappy small children - if they can't get positive attention, they'll go for negative.

Seems to apply here.

BlueLegume · 16/10/2026 16:30

I won’t be vile towards IW. I genuinely see that’s easy but this is a prime example of us all going along with the trans delusion to ‘be kind’ and inclusive. Eventually the delusion is too much to handle. When the torchlight of reality is shone on it the reality is that it is a house of cards and it is collapsing.

IW is one person - this is happening across all parts of society. Whatever our views I do not wish harm on trans people/gender non conforming people, any people.

If this was anyone in the media or our lives we should or would be trying to support them. I do hope he has someone maybe a therapist or friend who can check in with the increasing hostility he is showing towards anything and everything.

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AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 16/10/2026 16:27

Choppingwoodcarryingwater · 16/10/2026 16:20

Meh, I think they’re amusingly poignant.

https://x.com/IndiaWilloughby/status/2110871233135005710?s=20

Also totally not the point but he tried to insult Martina Navratilova by saying she had "blokey muscles and a tennis bat".

Sorry but wtf is a "tennis bat"? Surely even non tennis fans know they play with a bloody racquet. Whatever IW has been pumping himself with over the last few decades its certainly seems to have addled his brain.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 16/10/2026 16:26

...and also "tennis bat"😆

just seen that

Tallisker · 16/10/2026 16:25

Is he going to cry in a car again?

Boiledbeetle · 16/10/2026 16:23

Choppingwoodcarryingwater · 16/10/2026 16:20

Meh, I think they’re amusingly poignant.

https://x.com/IndiaWilloughby/status/2110871233135005710?s=20

Someone has to I suppose.

Unfortunately you seem to have drawn the short straw.

💐

GreyskySexRealistsky · 16/10/2026 16:23

Amusingly poignant? That tweet barely makes sense and he lets himself down even further by calling Martina N "thick". As I said, attention seeking.

Iwantanothergo · 16/10/2026 16:22

He is absolutely vile and deluded. Thinks he is now a "biological woman".

His insults are like those of an unpleasant, not very bright teenage boy, e.g. making fun of people's names. He is only interested in externals - to him, womanhood is all about what you look like. If women just look like ordinary middle-aged women, he can’t bear it and insults their looks.

He's always going on about leaving the country because he thinks it’s so awful. I just wish he would.

Choppingwoodcarryingwater · 16/10/2026 16:20

BlueLegume · 16/10/2026 15:35

India Willoughby - can we take a moment an address the increasing hysteria and vile comments on their social media - X in particular.

In the past 24 hours he has slated Nick Wallis, JKR, Helen Joyce, Maya Forstater this list goes on.

It really feels at this stage that a close one to India should stage an intervention.

Meh, I think they’re amusingly poignant.

https://x.com/IndiaWilloughby/status/2110871233135005710?s=20

India Willoughby (@IndiaWilloughby) on X

Is it because there are now more trans women in the world than c!s women, and we are stealing it? But I guess by Wednesday we’ll be back to being a tiny minority not worth recognising. Good job you had blokey muscles and a tennis bat, because you se...

https://x.com/IndiaWilloughby/status/2110871233135005710?s=20

Boiledbeetle · 16/10/2026 16:19

Fallstar · 16/10/2026 16:18

He blocked me a long time ago so thankfully I don't see anything he posts unless someone screenshots it.

I'm blocked. I have to use my secret account to see his. Not that I do!

Fallstar · 16/10/2026 16:18

He blocked me a long time ago so thankfully I don't see anything he posts unless someone screenshots it.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 16/10/2026 16:15

Reality setting in, yes totally. Aside from his extreme unpleasantness, does he not realise that the media is always searching for someone younger, more attractive, more charismatic, more relevant? It was only ever a matter of time. Perhaps women in the media are more prepared for this stage of life?

I fully expect this thread to get deleted BTW once IW gets wind of it.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 16/10/2026 16:15

India I am a real woman because I wear make up and watch Love Island Willoughby talking utter bollocks and being a complete dick to other people?

Are you sure you've got the right person OP? Because that really doesn't sound like them!

AIiswatchingyou · 16/10/2026 16:08

I'm not surprised this is happening to IW, likely others.

They were given something they wanted, they valued and they thought they would always have it. This thing (validation and the ability to make people do and say what they wanted) made them feel powerful and special, boosting their self esteem.

Now reality is setting in for them as well as everyone else - and the reality of their ageing body (which is tough for all of us to cope with) which has maybe not lived up to expectations along with possible side effects from medication may be making life difficult.

Add to that the mental challenge of no longer having others constantly validating you and how that feels. Maybe the reason you were so unhappy with your body in the first place is no longer able to be suppressed or distracted from. You actually have to face it.

It's quite sad really. :(

KittyWilkinson · 16/10/2026 16:05

Not on my Christmas card list.
Hopefully, one day soon, the plod will examine his devices for content and malicious communications.

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