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India Willoughby - recent escalations on social media

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BlueLegume · 16/10/2026 15:35

India Willoughby - can we take a moment an address the increasing hysteria and vile comments on their social media - X in particular.

In the past 24 hours he has slated Nick Wallis, JKR, Helen Joyce, Maya Forstater this list goes on.

It really feels at this stage that a close one to India should stage an intervention.

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TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · Yesterday 11:16

It's not surprising that any 'trans' is struggling with the recent clarifications, they're all suffering from untreated mental health issues, they're not emotionally capable of accepting reality.

But I also can't help feeling that some are just grifters, and are just playing the role of a lifetime, putting on an Oscar winning performance of 'victim'.

Thingybob · Yesterday 11:05

BlueLegume · Yesterday 09:54

Just read IW has said he has written to the GP stipulating he will not go to hospital and if he dies so be it. This is a threat but also a worry if he is not understanding that no treatment has been withdrawn from any trans person.

I do hope someone is helping him.

I think that's rather an empty threat as GPs don't usually turn up at your door and cart anyone off to hospital other than in the case of a severe mental health crisis.

But yes I agree with you that IW seems to be falling apart as do several other trans people who seem to be seriously struggling with the changing landscape the UK.

One such example www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1x7nd6p/i_cant_handle_how_hateful_ive_become/ and there are many more.

The answer isn't to row back but someone needs to be checking up on these trans identified people and putting in big bucks for as much mental health support as they need.

MrPrettyDamnCosmic · Yesterday 10:44

What is he doing for income? The gigs on Loose Women etc have dried up now that the novelty has worn off & his true personality is displayed daily on Twitter. He is too young for his pension. Let's hope he made hay while the trans shone.

NoDrums · Yesterday 10:42

Tears0fTheMushroom · 16/10/2026 17:23

They would not and have not shown you and other women the same courtesy. Preferring instead to use their trans privilege - which is basically male privilege on steroids - to rain down bile and hatred on women who only wanted their rights. Death and rape threats are common. Sicking the police on anyone who dared question the orthodoxy of trans ideology. Getting women fired for misgendering... I could go on. I'm afraid I have no sympathy at all for these men. They hate us.

I still have a vivid memory of IW screaming at and intimidating an 80 year old Amanda Barrie on Big Brother for accidentally referring to this MAN as he. Knowing he would be backed up in his disgusting behaviour. Imagine any other man who wasn’t trans identified getting away with that?
So no, I don't care about him now that the lie he depended on to abuse and humiliate women is crumbling.

Maybe it's because I'm Gen X. FAFO.

But if you think he (and other TRAs are suddenly behaving badly because they're at the Find Out stage, just look back at their past behaviour. They ALWAYS behaved exactly the same. Even when they were getting everything their own way.

Brilliant post. I feel exactly the same. All this ‘kindness’ from mainly women is in large part what gave trans-identified men their power in the first place. Suicidal empathy.

Iwantanothergo · Yesterday 10:28

spannasaurus · Yesterday 10:27

Right Side Of History

Ah, thanks.

spannasaurus · Yesterday 10:27

Iwantanothergo · Yesterday 10:24

"RSOH"?

Right Side Of History

Iwantanothergo · Yesterday 10:24

WallaceinAnderland · 16/10/2026 22:38

The 'RSOH' India WIlloughby's views on immigration:

When asked her opinion on the situation, India exclaimed, "Thank God for Nigel Farage! I’ll say it. The fact the French are escorting them over is awful. We’ve got Brexit and we’re leaving the EU."

Sharing her thoughts on what should be done in light of the growing numbers, "We should take control. I think it’s £100million we’ve spent on this problem. I’d go down the Trump route.

"Why not have a nice spikey barbed wire fence somewhere on the channel? Instead of using the English channel, they should use the legal channel."

"RSOH"?

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · Yesterday 10:20

So if he’s knocked down in the road, he’d like to just be left lying there?

Yes. But then watch for the "NHS refused to send an ambulance or treat me because I am trans. This is somehow also the fault of JKR, who also presumably arranged for me to be ran over" narrative start.

RareGoalsVerge · Yesterday 10:20

Iwantanothergo · Yesterday 09:56

So if he’s knocked down in the road, he’d like to just be left lying there?

I don’t think he believes treatment has been withdrawn from any trans people - he just wants to only be treated on a women's ward to validate his conviction that he’s a woman.

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Yes it's a bit of an odd reaction, given that the NHS guidelines will put trans-identifting people almost at the top of the queue for the lovely single-occupant side rooms (I think second only to those whose infectious diseases make them a clinical risk to others) it's a bit of an over-reaction. Most urgent treatment areas of hospitals are mixed sex anyway - A&E, ICU, post-surgical recovery and observation are all mixed sex. General wards are a mixture of single sex, mixed sex when needed, sometimes a modern ward is built with multiple bay areas and each individual bay is single sex but there are male and female bays as well as single-occupancy side rooms clustered together as a ward. IW could recieve first class care and treatment without ever having to be in a non-mixed-sex area but would literally rather die than receive any treatment that doesn't uphold IW's intrinsically female soul by putting IW in the midst of a group of women and pretending it's a single-sex area.

Iwantanothergo · Yesterday 09:56

BlueLegume · Yesterday 09:54

Just read IW has said he has written to the GP stipulating he will not go to hospital and if he dies so be it. This is a threat but also a worry if he is not understanding that no treatment has been withdrawn from any trans person.

I do hope someone is helping him.

So if he’s knocked down in the road, he’d like to just be left lying there?

I don’t think he believes treatment has been withdrawn from any trans people - he just wants to only be treated on a women's ward to validate his conviction that he’s a woman.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · Yesterday 09:56

Also this must be one of the few times AI is correct. Bet that does India's head in.

India Willoughby - recent escalations on social media
BlueLegume · Yesterday 09:54

Just read IW has said he has written to the GP stipulating he will not go to hospital and if he dies so be it. This is a threat but also a worry if he is not understanding that no treatment has been withdrawn from any trans person.

I do hope someone is helping him.

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AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · Yesterday 09:53

Shedmistress · 16/10/2026 17:53

Yes it was either to go onto the radio or the TV. I think it was the radio.

I remember that too but it was one of those things that is so batshit crazy I wasn't entirely sure I hadn't dreamt it. But nope!

India Willoughby - recent escalations on social media
MrPrettyDamnCosmic · Yesterday 07:55

Onelittledog · 16/10/2026 21:26

He went to the same school as me

It must be nice for the school having such a famous Old Boy Girl.

quantumbutterfly · Yesterday 07:20

Boiledbeetle · 16/10/2026 17:36

Bit poignant to see Anne Widdecombe in that clip.

quixote9 · Yesterday 06:56

Tallisker · Yesterday 00:27

He’s way past menopause age, isn’t he? Isn’t he in his sixties?

61, says Wikipedia

Tallisker · Yesterday 00:27

He’s way past menopause age, isn’t he? Isn’t he in his sixties?

Instructions · 16/10/2026 22:57

India is a very spiteful person

I do enjoy watching the "notice me JKR!!! NOTICE ME!!! PAY ATTENTION!!!" tantrums every so often though

He makes me wonder, when a TIM reaches the age of menopause, do the hormones they take get changed?

HoppityBun · 16/10/2026 22:52

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 16/10/2026 16:27

Also totally not the point but he tried to insult Martina Navratilova by saying she had "blokey muscles and a tennis bat".

Sorry but wtf is a "tennis bat"? Surely even non tennis fans know they play with a bloody racquet. Whatever IW has been pumping himself with over the last few decades its certainly seems to have addled his brain.

I’m not sure I can unpack all the mutual contradictions in a man who pretends to be a woman and who then criticises a woman for having strong muscles.

KittyWilkinson · 16/10/2026 22:48

Journalism was never his strength really.

WallaceinAnderland · 16/10/2026 22:38

The 'RSOH' India WIlloughby's views on immigration:

When asked her opinion on the situation, India exclaimed, "Thank God for Nigel Farage! I’ll say it. The fact the French are escorting them over is awful. We’ve got Brexit and we’re leaving the EU."

Sharing her thoughts on what should be done in light of the growing numbers, "We should take control. I think it’s £100million we’ve spent on this problem. I’d go down the Trump route.

"Why not have a nice spikey barbed wire fence somewhere on the channel? Instead of using the English channel, they should use the legal channel."

Turneresque · 16/10/2026 22:29

AIiswatchingyou · 16/10/2026 16:08

I'm not surprised this is happening to IW, likely others.

They were given something they wanted, they valued and they thought they would always have it. This thing (validation and the ability to make people do and say what they wanted) made them feel powerful and special, boosting their self esteem.

Now reality is setting in for them as well as everyone else - and the reality of their ageing body (which is tough for all of us to cope with) which has maybe not lived up to expectations along with possible side effects from medication may be making life difficult.

Add to that the mental challenge of no longer having others constantly validating you and how that feels. Maybe the reason you were so unhappy with your body in the first place is no longer able to be suppressed or distracted from. You actually have to face it.

It's quite sad really. :(

This

RedTrek · 16/10/2026 22:27

spannasaurus · 16/10/2026 22:04

Peacocks don't lay eggs

This is so exclusionary. Some peacocks lay eggs. Some peahens have big colourful tail feathers.

The best way to refer to them is egg-bearing pea fowl and blue-tailed pea fowl. This is much less confusing and will help everyone feel welcome x

CassOle · 16/10/2026 22:08

Surely TERFs eat Cockatrice eggs?

KittyWilkinson · 16/10/2026 22:06

spannasaurus · 16/10/2026 22:04

Peacocks don't lay eggs

A prime example of Windy confusing cocks for hens.