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India Willoughby - recent escalations on social media

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BlueLegume · 16/10/2026 15:35

India Willoughby - can we take a moment an address the increasing hysteria and vile comments on their social media - X in particular.

In the past 24 hours he has slated Nick Wallis, JKR, Helen Joyce, Maya Forstater this list goes on.

It really feels at this stage that a close one to India should stage an intervention.

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nicepotoftea · Yesterday 15:20

KittyWilkinson · Yesterday 15:15

I can recommend him an excellent book to take those scowls away.
Shape Your Self by Martina Navratilova - Hachette Australia

I recommend the Netflix documentary 'Chris & Martina the final set' for the potted history of everything Martina has achieved. (Also worth watching Chris Evert's story too!)

Lots of archive footage. I lived through it all, but was too young in the 70s to really understand.

Truly an icon.

BlueLegume · Yesterday 15:19

Where is the transphobia? A phobia is an irrational fear of something which in reality poses little threat. Men who say they are women first and foremost are lying and secondly refuse to respect our personal boundaries around single sex spaces.

Additionally my comments on this thread are a concern that IW is in a bad place with threats re the refusal of treatment should he become unwell are clearly asking if he needs help and support and if he has some. It cannot be that everyone in his orbit is fully onboard that he is a woman. I assume he has a prostate. That is a man thing. If he experiences prostate issues that is a male condition.

He wants to be put on female ward. Boundary crossed.

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WallaceinAnderland · Yesterday 15:10

TransParentlyAnnoyed · Yesterday 15:07

A trans woman reacting to transphobia does not need an intervention.

When you are part of a minority and see people attacking that minority - usually for profit, and to further careers built on the same - you're going to react. It's night follows day stuff.

Nah, he's always been like this. He's just horrible about women. Probably stems from envy and low self esteem, which you can understand, but doesn't excuse it.

TransParentlyAnnoyed · Yesterday 15:07

A trans woman reacting to transphobia does not need an intervention.

When you are part of a minority and see people attacking that minority - usually for profit, and to further careers built on the same - you're going to react. It's night follows day stuff.

Datun · Yesterday 15:00

What I really liked about that CBB episode was the way the women got his measure immediately.

They could see that he was attention seeking and said come on let's just forget all about it. They were trying to deprive him of his supply, and it made him even more angry.

It was a lesson in archetypal male dominance. And when that one woman tried to appease him, he wasn't having any of it. Because he didn't want appeasement, he wanted to keep ranting at women.

And didn't work anyway, because far from being cowed, Amanda Barrie was clearly absolutely fricking fuming.

WallaceinAnderland · Yesterday 14:49

Irl he's hunched and wizened and always has a scowl on his face.

I've noticed that he has always hunched so that he doesn't stand head and shoulders above the women. This would play havoc with your back. He definitely doesn't look like a 30 year old woman!

India Willoughby - recent escalations on social media
Iwantanothergo · Yesterday 13:08

Margaritaaahhh · Yesterday 12:45

He lives very close to me. I see him out and about quite a lot. Irl he's hunched and wizened and always has a scowl on his face. He looks like a septuagenarian Chucky permanently stuck in a wind tunnel.

His attacks on women for looking 'old' and 'ugly' are, frankly, astonishing.

Very interesting! About a week ago he posted something about thinking he looks as if he’s in his thirties. It was probably deliberate rage-bait, but I can’t imagine many women would write that.

It's probably also deliberate rage-bait when he calls middle-aged women "biddies" or says non-Barbie-looking women like Martina Navratilova look like men, but it still infuriates me. I’m afraid I find it hard to have any sympathy with him or concern for him because he is so unnecessarily unpleasant to others.

Boiledbeetle · Yesterday 13:03

cuckoolodger · Yesterday 12:01

Yeah this is totally a thing that happened. Because it’s well known that the paramedics will check with the gp before trying to save your life 🤷🏼‍♀️😂🤡

If he was really serious he would have contacted his local NHS ambulance trust to try and arrange for the Special Patients Notes Team to put a marker on his 999/patient transport services file informing those attending his address/him that he has requested no admittance to hospital and would prefer to be left to die instead.

Bet he hasn't though.

quantumbutterfly · Yesterday 13:01

nufe · Yesterday 12:46

that’s just the most hideous, toxic, entitled behaviour. It’s shocking. Zero self awareness. 100 percent toxic.

I wonder if they would react to a woman the way they did to him. They're mostly non-confrontational, a lot of caution in their responses.
I have more sympathy for his ex-wife and child.

BlueLegume · Yesterday 12:50

Still think he does need some help. His rants are bordering on manic now. He is not helping convince anyone that trans is in any way healthy.

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BiologicalRobot · Yesterday 12:47

Men like IW are the main reason why women do not want men of any kind in their SSS. We need protecting from their particular type of hatred.

nufe · Yesterday 12:46

MalcolmTent · Yesterday 11:56

India on CBB

that’s just the most hideous, toxic, entitled behaviour. It’s shocking. Zero self awareness. 100 percent toxic.

Margaritaaahhh · Yesterday 12:46

MalcolmTent · Yesterday 11:47

I'm sure this didn't happen, but what a crazy thing to post.

I'm quite certain this 'letter' will be conveniently lost the next time he fancies a bit more cosmetic surgery.

Margaritaaahhh · Yesterday 12:45

He lives very close to me. I see him out and about quite a lot. Irl he's hunched and wizened and always has a scowl on his face. He looks like a septuagenarian Chucky permanently stuck in a wind tunnel.

His attacks on women for looking 'old' and 'ugly' are, frankly, astonishing.

BiologicallyNebulous · Yesterday 12:13

spannasaurus · 16/10/2026 22:04

Peacocks don't lay eggs

Thank fuck you told me that before I made a tit of myself at the customer service desk 🙏 💐😆

Weeellokthen · Yesterday 12:11

Did I just read about IW inviting themselves onto AM show to show him their cervix 😮wtaf 😂

cuckoolodger · Yesterday 12:01

MalcolmTent · Yesterday 11:47

I'm sure this didn't happen, but what a crazy thing to post.

Yeah this is totally a thing that happened. Because it’s well known that the paramedics will check with the gp before trying to save your life 🤷🏼‍♀️😂🤡

TidyDancer · Yesterday 11:48

He actually one of the more worrying men with a trans belief system. I’m not sure if he’s delusional or dangerous. Probably a combination of both tbh. I think he genuinely believes the majority see him as a woman which is very obviously untrue.

I also remember the aggression towards Amanda Barrie which in hindsight was a foreshadowing of his online behaviour in the future towards others.

That aside, his posts are concerning enough that I do hope he has some real life support in place because it’s clear he’s struggling.

MalcolmTent · Yesterday 11:47

I'm sure this didn't happen, but what a crazy thing to post.

India Willoughby - recent escalations on social media
cherryicecreamisnice · Yesterday 11:40

When non GCs ask if I actually know anyone trans, the response is ‘yes, many, and every single one is a desperate attention seeker’

sohard · Yesterday 11:36

MalcolmTent · Yesterday 11:25

He's always insulting women for being 'old' and 'masculine'.

He's a 61 year old man!

He’s absolutely delusional. He thinks he looks like a woman in her thirties!! 😂😂😂

MalcolmTent · Yesterday 11:34

Honestly I think he demonstrates a lot of bitterness and self hatred. I agree, he needs help and support.

MalcolmTent · Yesterday 11:25

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 16/10/2026 16:27

Also totally not the point but he tried to insult Martina Navratilova by saying she had "blokey muscles and a tennis bat".

Sorry but wtf is a "tennis bat"? Surely even non tennis fans know they play with a bloody racquet. Whatever IW has been pumping himself with over the last few decades its certainly seems to have addled his brain.

He's always insulting women for being 'old' and 'masculine'.

He's a 61 year old man!