Teacher upset with my child questioning about trans child

Ehich of these stock images of 4 year olds are male and wt yrar olfs are male and which ate female?iThere is no way of telling.
I dont buy your daighter or anyone else was confused
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A 4 yesr old boy looks like a 4 year old girl if they are styled the same

How dare I what? Suggest that sexual attraction of any kind is not an appropriate thing for a child to be contemplating - and worse if an adult is seeking to encourage them in this?

Why are you offended - do you believe that it IS appropriate for 5yo children to be considering whom they would like to have sex with?

How dare you.

Insinuating the parents of this child, or of any transgender child is insulting and why do you actually care? How is it affecting your life?

I can see from my notifications that the TERFS have rounded on me. Predicable! Why don’t you all go out and actually meet some trans people? You might realise that they’re human beings.

Why are you using misogynistic slurs about women you disagree with? Can’t you express yourself without it? I get that your arguments aren’t particularly good, but it’s quite telling.

To an adult they look the same but children can tell the difference.

you and I don't agree on anything related to this subject.

I was using the words OP used in her thread and questioning what was really happening in this circumstance as it doesn't make sense. At that age, whether a child appears male or female rest entirely on social convention, unless you know what genitals they have. So if this child is presenting as a girl (girl name etc), there's no reason for OP's child to be confused or question that.

Including teaching kindness,tolerance, inclusion and respect.

A 4 yesr old boy looks like a 4 year old girl if they are styled the same

Including teaching kindness,tolerance, inclusion and respect.

Because she can see with her own eyes what the sex of the child is and doesn't understand why the adults are lying to her. It's the same as if the teacher were to point to an empty chair and say, 'don't sit there, that chair is occupied', they are going to be confused and ask questions.

It's a teacher's job to teach. Not to affirm delusions, whether minority delusions or otherwise.

And? So what?! Why do you care? I’m sure this has all been explained to this child.

Always toilets. You people are obsessed with toilets!

Because she can see with her own eyes what the sex of the child is and doesn't understand why the adults are lying to her. It's the same as if the teacher were to point to an empty chair and say, 'don't sit there, that chair is occupied', they are going to be confused and ask questions.

Insinuating the parents of this child, or of any transgender child is insulting and why do you actually care? How is it affecting your life?

I can see from my notifications that the TERFS have rounded on me. Predicable! Why don’t you all go out and actually meet some trans people? You might realise that they’re human beings.

How dare you.

How dare you.

Insinuating the parents of this child, or of any transgender child is insulting and why do you actually care? How is it affecting your life?

I can see from my notifications that the TERFS have rounded on me. Predicable! Why don’t you all go out and actually meet some trans people? You might realise that they’re human beings.

To be honest, I'd be extremely concerned about ANY 4 or 5yo child declaring, indicating or being labelled as to whom they're sexually attracted to at their age.

There's no issue if a young boy has stereotypically 'feminine' characteristics, or a young girl is a tomboy; but when it comes to sexual attraction - identifying or being identified as gay, straight, bisexual or whatever - this is clearly deeply inappropriate and seriously disturbing at their age.

intelligent people respect others and don’t care what they do so long as they’re kind to others.

This seems to be doing the rounds on other threads atm, must be the 'gotcha du jour'.

Live and let live, as another insisted - while in the next sentence stating she doesn't care if anyone doesn't like her opinions (telling us off for wanting women's spaces to be for women).

Can you really not see how illogical this is? It all sounds so nice and reasonable until you begin to unpick it.

Live and let live - as long as it's not something I disagree with!

Its not an argument.

Intelligence =/= respecting other people.
I've met many intelligent people who aren't particularly respectful.

Also, respect =/= agree with.

Or is this an attempt at an insult - people who don't agree with you aren't intelligent?

Gaslighting and lying to children is not 'kind'.

Encouraging children to believe they need drugs and surgery to be acceptable is not kind.

Failing to safeguard children appropriately is not kind.

Because she can see with her own eyes what the sex of the child is and doesn't understand why the adults are lying to her. It's the same as if the teacher were to point to an empty chair and say, 'don't sit there, that chair is occupied', they are going to be confused and ask questions.

I don't understand this. If your child is in reception, why would she even know or care if another 4 year old is trans? There's something missing here as it doesn't make any sense at all.