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Sunnibee · 29/07/2026 20:25

thirdfiddle · 29/07/2026 19:48

There's an obvious Catch-22 in using medics who prescribe PBs to run a review.

Suppose for the sake of argument there is insufficient evidence of benefit for such a serious intervention. Medics who are neutral and have made some attempt to look at the evidence are not going to be prescribing. By construction, anyone who is prescribing is not neutral and therefore not suitable to run the review.

On the other hand if you only use medics who work with gender confused kids and refuse to prescribe PBs, you will be accused of bias in the other direction by applying exactly the same argument in reverse. (Can you imagine?)

And if you include both, which might be appropriate for a less polarising treatment, on this particular topic you'll have a bunfight not a review.

So by far the best course is to use a team with expertise in general paediatrics and in running reviews.

I don’t think it’s the Catch-22 you’re describing.

It assumes that having previously prescribed puberty blockers demonstrates bias, but that doesn’t necessarily follow. A clinician may prescribe to a particular patient in a particular clinical context because, based on the circumstances before them, the evidence available at the time and the existing clinical guidelines, they judge that the balance of benefits and risks favours treatment in that individual case. That doesn’t mean they are incapable of later reviewing the totality of the evidence objectively and fairly.

If it did, we’d have to conclude that no clinician could ever objectively evaluate interventions they use in practice. But that’s clearly not how medicine works. We don’t say that cardiologists shouldn’t lead reviews of cardiac interventions because they perform them, or that oncologists shouldn’t evaluate chemotherapy because they prescribe it. Instead, we manage potential conflicts through declarations of interest, balanced panels and rigorous review methods. Why should a different standard apply here?

The suggestion that including clinicians with different perspectives would inevitably produce a “bunfight” is also overstated. Expert guideline panels routinely include people who disagree strongly, and structured evidence-review processes exist precisely to ensure disagreements are resolved through transparent and consistent methods.

I also think there’s a more fundamental problem here - your perspectives assumes that the absence of an existing view is the same as "neutrality". but the reality is nobody approaches a controversial topic like this as a blank slate. The goal is not to find people with no opinions- that is unrealistic and misleading -, but to minimise bias through transparent and structured methods, declarations of interest, etc.

Finally, while expertise in general paediatrics is undoubtedly valuable, it is not, on its own, sufficient subject-matter expertise for reviewing a rare and highly specialised area of healthcare. We wouldn’t normally ask a general paediatrician to lead a review of paediatric neurosurgery or paediatric oncology or paediatric neurodevelopmental disorders simply because all of those fall under the broad umbrella of paediatrics. We’d expect the review to involve clinicians with recognised expertise in the specific field

FlirtsWithRhinos · 29/07/2026 20:23

Sunnibee · 29/07/2026 19:56

I think the reason people are so opposed to these types of therapies is that they don’t seem to work and can be really distressing for the person if they’re being told they need to change when they can’t. But if there were some sort of therapy that genuinely alleviated the distress of gender dysphoria without coercion or harm, that would be a wonderful thing. Not because there’s anything inherently wrong with being trans, but because it would give people another option for reducing distress without the need for more invasive approaches.

Sorry Sunnibee, did you explain what "being trans" actually is? Did I miss that?

I mean, you are advocating for some very damaging things to be done to children here - I think it's reasonable to ask why.

Is "being trans" a feeling one is the opposite sex, despite being the sex one is?

Or is it actually, truly, in a not-yet-understood way, genuinely being the opposite sex, in a way that makes you genuinely more like the oppodite sex than your own actual sex?

And if the former, why does believing yourself to be something that you are not place an obligation on the rest of the world to pretend you are?

And if the latter, why is this "thing that no one can perceive and that is not sex" suddenly now the "real" definition of Man or Woman rather than the simple observable fact of sex?

And even if it somehow is reasonable that this "thing that is not sex" has to ne the yardstick for a man or a woman, why it is also necessary to pretend the thing that is sex doesn't matter and doesn't have consequences as well?

Are you in favour of children being given puberty blockers and made sterile and likely brain damaged because you believe it is the best way to relieve the distress of a delusion, or because you actually believe men and women are labels for our minds rather than our bodies?

OldCrone · 29/07/2026 20:20

Sunnibee · 29/07/2026 19:56

I think the reason people are so opposed to these types of therapies is that they don’t seem to work and can be really distressing for the person if they’re being told they need to change when they can’t. But if there were some sort of therapy that genuinely alleviated the distress of gender dysphoria without coercion or harm, that would be a wonderful thing. Not because there’s anything inherently wrong with being trans, but because it would give people another option for reducing distress without the need for more invasive approaches.

I think the reason people are so opposed to these types of therapies is that they don’t seem to work

Can you link to some studies where gender-distressed children were given talking therapy and it didn't work?

But if there were some sort of therapy that genuinely alleviated the distress of gender dysphoria without coercion or harm, that would be a wonderful thing.

Why, do you think, are TRAs so against attempts to find such therapy?

Sunnibee · 29/07/2026 19:56

Seethlaw · 29/07/2026 19:36

(Sorry, got distracted.)

Thank you for answering! I asked because I wanted to have an idea of where you stand on the matter of treatments for gender dysphoria, if you're the hardline type who accepts only medical transition, or if you're open to other possibilities.

I'll confess I'm quite surprised by your answer, though. I wasn't expecting it, since proposing any kind of talking therapy to reconcile trans people to their bodies is considered "conversion therapy" by many TRAs. Even just suggesting that kids be pushed to investigate their gender dysphoria before being put on a hormonal prescription, is decried as abusive and harmful. So, yeah, surprised, I'll admit.

I think the reason people are so opposed to these types of therapies is that they don’t seem to work and can be really distressing for the person if they’re being told they need to change when they can’t. But if there were some sort of therapy that genuinely alleviated the distress of gender dysphoria without coercion or harm, that would be a wonderful thing. Not because there’s anything inherently wrong with being trans, but because it would give people another option for reducing distress without the need for more invasive approaches.

thirdfiddle · 29/07/2026 19:48

There's an obvious Catch-22 in using medics who prescribe PBs to run a review.

Suppose for the sake of argument there is insufficient evidence of benefit for such a serious intervention. Medics who are neutral and have made some attempt to look at the evidence are not going to be prescribing. By construction, anyone who is prescribing is not neutral and therefore not suitable to run the review.

On the other hand if you only use medics who work with gender confused kids and refuse to prescribe PBs, you will be accused of bias in the other direction by applying exactly the same argument in reverse. (Can you imagine?)

And if you include both, which might be appropriate for a less polarising treatment, on this particular topic you'll have a bunfight not a review.

So by far the best course is to use a team with expertise in general paediatrics and in running reviews.

Seethlaw · 29/07/2026 19:36

Sunnibee · 29/07/2026 18:46

yes absolutely. But only on the basis of informed patient consent of course. Why wouldn't I? Having gender dysphoria can be so distressing and painful; if there were a way to "cure" gender dysphoria without the need for invasive medical interventions I'm sure that would be transformative for many people.

(Sorry, got distracted.)

Thank you for answering! I asked because I wanted to have an idea of where you stand on the matter of treatments for gender dysphoria, if you're the hardline type who accepts only medical transition, or if you're open to other possibilities.

I'll confess I'm quite surprised by your answer, though. I wasn't expecting it, since proposing any kind of talking therapy to reconcile trans people to their bodies is considered "conversion therapy" by many TRAs. Even just suggesting that kids be pushed to investigate their gender dysphoria before being put on a hormonal prescription, is decried as abusive and harmful. So, yeah, surprised, I'll admit.

Sunnibee · 29/07/2026 18:55

Sunnibee · 29/07/2026 18:46

yes absolutely. But only on the basis of informed patient consent of course. Why wouldn't I? Having gender dysphoria can be so distressing and painful; if there were a way to "cure" gender dysphoria without the need for invasive medical interventions I'm sure that would be transformative for many people.

Would you @Seethlaw ?

WarriorN · 29/07/2026 18:55

Sunnibee · 29/07/2026 08:19

In any other area of medicine we’d expect those leading a major evidence review to have deep knowledge of the field they’re evaluating, while managing conflicts of interest transparently. Excluding specialists from leadership because they have relevant experience risks losing the contextual understanding needed to interpret the evidence accurately and meaningfully. And that was exactly the problem with the Cass review which makes it so poor. A review cannot adequately assess a complex specialist field without leaders who understand that field in depth.

Edited

Cass was a paediatrician. The review was about children so she was appropriately placed.

Those with “experience in the field” are for the most part believers rather than evidenced based, as Cass illustrated. (It researched the actual evidence to date and concluded it was poor/ biased.)

The few that aren’t believers focus on the psychological aspects and generally appear to have found children and adults didn’t transition.

Sunnibee · 29/07/2026 18:46

Seethlaw · 29/07/2026 18:21

I wonder, @Sunnibee : if a talking therapy appeared, which managed to reconcile trans people with their body in their birth sex in a matter of months, without any need for hormones or surgeries, would you support it? Why or why not?

yes absolutely. But only on the basis of informed patient consent of course. Why wouldn't I? Having gender dysphoria can be so distressing and painful; if there were a way to "cure" gender dysphoria without the need for invasive medical interventions I'm sure that would be transformative for many people.

Seethlaw · 29/07/2026 18:21

I wonder, @Sunnibee : if a talking therapy appeared, which managed to reconcile trans people with their body in their birth sex in a matter of months, without any need for hormones or surgeries, would you support it? Why or why not?

anyolddinosaur · 29/07/2026 17:57

Well I dont know what the rest of you are on but I'm very slowly translating the download about risks. When I got to the paragraph where they say there were not any good studies (for one particular risk) so they looked at everything there was, regardless of quality, I wondered if it was worth the bother.

CASS had input from "experts" in the field - but if the "experts" believe any old rubbish study is evidence then they are not scientists and not fit to write a review.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 29/07/2026 16:29

Sunnibee · 29/07/2026 16:10

They consulted experts in an advisory capacity, but that is not the same as having people with subject-matter knowledge and expertise embedded within the review team and involved in the evidence synthesis and interpretation itself.

The people conducting the review did not have substantive expertise in the specific clinical field under review, which was a massive problem for quality. Subject-matter expertise is not just about providing background information, it is essential for framing the right questions, making methodological decisions, interpreting evidence and understanding the clinical context and limitations of the available literature.

You really really want to discredit this don't you?

First, it's the wrong type of experts. Then it's ok the right type of experts, but used the wrong way.

If only you were as worried about the details of actual trans identities and whether they justify the very damaging medical interventions being demanded for them as you are about the details of how reviews attempting to assess the validity of said investigations have been run!

If Cass had said "I don't know why detransitioners feel like they do, but they feel it and that is enough for me" would you accept that? I certainly hope not!

And yet that is exactly the standard of proof you are accepting when it comes to medicalising children because of their self reported identities.

Why is it so important to you to validate the practice of making irreversible medical changes to children based on nothing more than a child's idea of what boys and girls are supposed to feel like?

Sunnibee · 29/07/2026 16:10

settlesurround · 29/07/2026 15:41

Can you be more specific about where you believe subject matter expertise was lacking in the Cass review systematic reviews?

For example, I've just looked at the first of the reviews 'Characteristics of children and adolescents referred to specialist gender services: a systematic review' where they state that "With reference to the literature and input from expert advisors, key demographics, gender, mental health, neurodevelopmental conditions and psychosocial characteristics were extracted."

My criticism here is that (I can't find) who these expert advisors were. They probably didn't have enough input to get co-authorship so it would have been useful if they were acknowledged. But this does suggest they had clinical expert input.

https://adc.bmj.com/content/early/2024/09/26/archdischild-2023-326681.info?versioned=true

They consulted experts in an advisory capacity, but that is not the same as having people with subject-matter knowledge and expertise embedded within the review team and involved in the evidence synthesis and interpretation itself.

The people conducting the review did not have substantive expertise in the specific clinical field under review, which was a massive problem for quality. Subject-matter expertise is not just about providing background information, it is essential for framing the right questions, making methodological decisions, interpreting evidence and understanding the clinical context and limitations of the available literature.

BackToLurk · 29/07/2026 15:56

Neversofaraway · 29/07/2026 15:28

But that is all about feelings, where are the measurable and observable signs and symptoms? Powerful drugs can't be prescribed without clear and observable abnormalities which require remedy. Follow up includes reassessing that the drugs have improved the situation or not.

What is 'mildly' interesting about the choice of that source is that, firstly, the quoted text is cut off right before "Signs to look out for in adults" (my emphasis), and secondly that page itself approvingly cites the Cass review. Which @Sunnibee appears to believe has major issues. I'm getting really mixed messages.

settlesurround · 29/07/2026 15:41

Sunnibee · 29/07/2026 13:56

Methodological neutrality is important, but subject-matter expertise isn't a source of bias to be eliminated. It's essential for framing the right questions, interpreting heterogeneous evidence, understanding the clinical context and recognising the limitations of the literature. You need both methods expertise and subject matter knowledge and understanding to conduct a high quality evidence review. The latter was lacking in the Cass team.

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Can you be more specific about where you believe subject matter expertise was lacking in the Cass review systematic reviews?

For example, I've just looked at the first of the reviews 'Characteristics of children and adolescents referred to specialist gender services: a systematic review' where they state that "With reference to the literature and input from expert advisors, key demographics, gender, mental health, neurodevelopmental conditions and psychosocial characteristics were extracted."

My criticism here is that (I can't find) who these expert advisors were. They probably didn't have enough input to get co-authorship so it would have been useful if they were acknowledged. But this does suggest they had clinical expert input.

https://adc.bmj.com/content/early/2024/09/26/archdischild-2023-326681.info?versioned=true

Neversofaraway · 29/07/2026 15:28

Sunnibee · 29/07/2026 14:34

This page gives a really helpful summary for you https://theprivatetherapyclinic.co.uk/blog/how-to-be-certain-you-have-gender-dysphoria/

A persistent unease with your sexed body
A specific, ongoing discomfort with the primary or secondary sex characteristics of your body. Breasts, voice, body hair, genitals, body shape, height. This often intensifies during or after puberty, when those features develop more fully. The distress is not vague body dissatisfaction. It is specifically about the features that mark you as the gender you were assigned at birth.
A felt sense that the gender role does not fit
An ongoing experience that the social role you are living in as a man or a woman does not match who you actually are. This can show up as a quiet, persistent wrongness in everyday situations. Being addressed by your name or pronouns, getting dressed, being seen by others. It is the gendered nature of these moments that creates the friction, not the moments themselves.
Gender euphoria when treated as another gender
A relief or quiet joy when you are perceived, addressed, or treated as the gender you experience yourself to be. People often describe this as the clearest signal. The contrast between the everyday low-level distress and the sudden relief of being seen correctly can be one of the most diagnostic experiences. Some people only realise the dysphoria was there once they feel it lift.
Preoccupying thoughts about a different gender
Recurring, sustained thoughts about what it would be like to live as a different gender. Not as fleeting curiosity, but as an ongoing pull. People often describe years of intrusive imagining before they let themselves say it out loud.
Questions worth asking yourself
When people in my clinic are trying to work out whether what they are feeling is gender dysphoria or something else, these are the questions I ask them. They are worth sitting with on your own as well.

  • When did the feelings start? Did they begin before puberty, during it, or later? What else was happening in your life at the time?
  • Do the feelings stay roughly constant, or do they fluctuate with depression, anxiety, or what is going on around you?
  • Is your distress about specific gendered features of your body, or about your appearance more generally?
  • Is it about how others perceive you, how you feel internally, or both?
  • Have you ever felt a clear relief or rightness when treated as a different gender, even briefly?
  • If you imagine your body without the features that distress you, does that imagining bring relief, or does a different distress move into its place?
When the threshold is met for a diagnosis Two things matter clinically. How long the feelings have been present, and how much they are affecting daily life. The diagnostic criteria require the feelings to have been there for at least six months in adults, though in clinical reality people usually describe them as having been around for years. Brief periods of questioning, or a phase of curiosity, are not what gender dysphoria refers to. It is a persistent experience, not a passing one. The other criterion is impairment. The distress must be enough to interfere with social life, work, relationships, or other important areas of daily functioning. Without that impairment, the diagnostic threshold is not met.

Gender dysphoria vs gender nonconformity
This is a distinction people often get tangled in. Gender nonconformity is a way of presenting or behaving that does not match the conventional expectations attached to someone’s gender. A man wearing a dress, a woman with a shaved head, a child who refuses to play with the toys associated with their assigned sex. These are choices about how to live in the world.
Gender dysphoria is something different. It is not about whether someone wants to wear dresses or trousers. It is about whether they experience themselves as fundamentally a different gender from the one they were assigned at birth, and whether that experience is causing sustained distress. You can be gender nonconforming without dysphoria, and you can have dysphoria while presenting in conventionally gendered ways.

What gender dysphoria actually feels like
People in my clinic rarely describe gender dysphoria in clinical language. They describe it in physical terms. A cold wave that washes over them when they catch their reflection. A sense of looking in the mirror and seeing the wrong face. The feeling of performing in a play that never ends, where the role does not match who they are. One person described it to me as a kind of chronic pain that gnaws at them without any clear physical cause.
That embodied quality is one of the things that distinguishes it. Gender dysphoria is not just a thought about gender. It is a felt sense of incongruence between the gender someone experiences themselves to be and the body or social role they are living in.

But that is all about feelings, where are the measurable and observable signs and symptoms? Powerful drugs can't be prescribed without clear and observable abnormalities which require remedy. Follow up includes reassessing that the drugs have improved the situation or not.

BackToLurk · 29/07/2026 15:17

Sunnibee · 29/07/2026 14:46

I don't see that as a persuasive criticism at all. Clinical expertise is an essential component of high-quality evidence review and would this would be uncontroversial recognised in every other area of medicine. Clinicians play a critical role in contributing to guideline development and evidence reviews across medicine, including in oncology, cardiology and psychiatry, despite treating patients in those fields. Their expertise is considered essential.

More fundamentally, this criticism seems to assume that involvement in a field necessarily creates bias in one direction. That doesn't follow at all. There are clinicians who are sceptical of puberty blockers and who generally advocate against their use. Should they be excluded on the same grounds?

That is not how evidence review is normally conducted. The objective is not to eliminate subject-matter expertise, but to ensure that potential conflicts are declared, managed transparently, and balanced by robust methodology and a multidisciplinary panel.

If there is evidence that conflicts were not declared, that members influenced conclusions inappropriately, or that the review departed from accepted methodological standards, those would be legitimate criticisms. But simply pointing out that clinicians who prescribe puberty blockers are involved in reviewing the evidence is not, on its own, sufficient to demonstrate a conflict of interest or undermine credibility.

There is a difference between people with broad expertise in oncology, cardiology, psychology or indeed pediatrics reviewing the evidence regarding a narrow treatment pathway within that, and people who deliver that pathway reviewing it. You don't see that as a problem, others do.

Thank you again for highlighting your regard for Dr Spelman though. I might not have seen that interview if you hadn't. You should watch it.

PriOn1 · 29/07/2026 14:53

Sunnibee · 29/07/2026 12:18

It is absolutely fundamental to a trans identity

It's really not. What everyone else feels is completely irrelevant to whether or not someone is trans.

When you use the term, “is trans” what is that shorthand for please?

Is it an inner feeling of transness?

Some kind of internal opposite sex essence?

FlirtsWithRhinos · 29/07/2026 14:52

Sunnibee · 29/07/2026 14:49

Some people are high on their own righteousness

Indeed they are.

Oh bless.

Darlng, I am just right.

But hey, good for you finding a post you felt able to reply to!

I am sorry the hard questions about trans identities vs other people's realities are too hard for you. Just as well these undefinable identities are not being used to justify anything important like fucking up kids' bodies, right?

Sunnibee · 29/07/2026 14:49

FlirtsWithRhinos · 29/07/2026 14:47

Some people just hate to hear the word no. Some people are high on their own righteousness. And some people have allowed, even fought for, medical treatment based on a child's ideas of what boys and girls are supposed to feel like.

The first two make me angry. The last makes me angry but also breaks my heart.

Some people are high on their own righteousness

Indeed they are.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 29/07/2026 14:47

OldCrone · 29/07/2026 14:30

So you have no idea how trans kids know they are trans. Why are you here, arguing so passionately about this, when it seems you know nothing about it?

Some people just hate to hear the word no. Some people are high on their own righteousness. And some people have allowed, even fought for, medical treatment based on a child's ideas of what boys and girls are supposed to feel like.

The first two make me angry. The last makes me angry but also breaks my heart.

Sunnibee · 29/07/2026 14:46

BackToLurk · 29/07/2026 14:38

You seem to be avoiding the specific criticism of the Dutch review linked in the OP. The board conducting the review has 12 members. Of those, 6 are either directly or indirectly involved with the prescribing of puberty blockers. While 2 of those don't have voting rights they will still influence the review. So we have a board, half of which's members have some involvement with prescribing puberty blockers, reviewing the evidence on the prescribing of puberty blockers within the context of care for children claiming a trans identity. And you don't see that as an issue?

Indeed the problem with this is particularly pronounced as it is a small field within the Netherlands. The small number of clinicians involved means that those involved in the review are essentially reviewing their own work, and the work of close colleagues.

.

I don't see that as a persuasive criticism at all. Clinical expertise is an essential component of high-quality evidence review and would this would be uncontroversial recognised in every other area of medicine. Clinicians play a critical role in contributing to guideline development and evidence reviews across medicine, including in oncology, cardiology and psychiatry, despite treating patients in those fields. Their expertise is considered essential.

More fundamentally, this criticism seems to assume that involvement in a field necessarily creates bias in one direction. That doesn't follow at all. There are clinicians who are sceptical of puberty blockers and who generally advocate against their use. Should they be excluded on the same grounds?

That is not how evidence review is normally conducted. The objective is not to eliminate subject-matter expertise, but to ensure that potential conflicts are declared, managed transparently, and balanced by robust methodology and a multidisciplinary panel.

If there is evidence that conflicts were not declared, that members influenced conclusions inappropriately, or that the review departed from accepted methodological standards, those would be legitimate criticisms. But simply pointing out that clinicians who prescribe puberty blockers are involved in reviewing the evidence is not, on its own, sufficient to demonstrate a conflict of interest or undermine credibility.

BackToLurk · 29/07/2026 14:44

Sunnibee · 29/07/2026 14:34

This page gives a really helpful summary for you https://theprivatetherapyclinic.co.uk/blog/how-to-be-certain-you-have-gender-dysphoria/

A persistent unease with your sexed body
A specific, ongoing discomfort with the primary or secondary sex characteristics of your body. Breasts, voice, body hair, genitals, body shape, height. This often intensifies during or after puberty, when those features develop more fully. The distress is not vague body dissatisfaction. It is specifically about the features that mark you as the gender you were assigned at birth.
A felt sense that the gender role does not fit
An ongoing experience that the social role you are living in as a man or a woman does not match who you actually are. This can show up as a quiet, persistent wrongness in everyday situations. Being addressed by your name or pronouns, getting dressed, being seen by others. It is the gendered nature of these moments that creates the friction, not the moments themselves.
Gender euphoria when treated as another gender
A relief or quiet joy when you are perceived, addressed, or treated as the gender you experience yourself to be. People often describe this as the clearest signal. The contrast between the everyday low-level distress and the sudden relief of being seen correctly can be one of the most diagnostic experiences. Some people only realise the dysphoria was there once they feel it lift.
Preoccupying thoughts about a different gender
Recurring, sustained thoughts about what it would be like to live as a different gender. Not as fleeting curiosity, but as an ongoing pull. People often describe years of intrusive imagining before they let themselves say it out loud.
Questions worth asking yourself
When people in my clinic are trying to work out whether what they are feeling is gender dysphoria or something else, these are the questions I ask them. They are worth sitting with on your own as well.

  • When did the feelings start? Did they begin before puberty, during it, or later? What else was happening in your life at the time?
  • Do the feelings stay roughly constant, or do they fluctuate with depression, anxiety, or what is going on around you?
  • Is your distress about specific gendered features of your body, or about your appearance more generally?
  • Is it about how others perceive you, how you feel internally, or both?
  • Have you ever felt a clear relief or rightness when treated as a different gender, even briefly?
  • If you imagine your body without the features that distress you, does that imagining bring relief, or does a different distress move into its place?
When the threshold is met for a diagnosis Two things matter clinically. How long the feelings have been present, and how much they are affecting daily life. The diagnostic criteria require the feelings to have been there for at least six months in adults, though in clinical reality people usually describe them as having been around for years. Brief periods of questioning, or a phase of curiosity, are not what gender dysphoria refers to. It is a persistent experience, not a passing one. The other criterion is impairment. The distress must be enough to interfere with social life, work, relationships, or other important areas of daily functioning. Without that impairment, the diagnostic threshold is not met.

Gender dysphoria vs gender nonconformity
This is a distinction people often get tangled in. Gender nonconformity is a way of presenting or behaving that does not match the conventional expectations attached to someone’s gender. A man wearing a dress, a woman with a shaved head, a child who refuses to play with the toys associated with their assigned sex. These are choices about how to live in the world.
Gender dysphoria is something different. It is not about whether someone wants to wear dresses or trousers. It is about whether they experience themselves as fundamentally a different gender from the one they were assigned at birth, and whether that experience is causing sustained distress. You can be gender nonconforming without dysphoria, and you can have dysphoria while presenting in conventionally gendered ways.

What gender dysphoria actually feels like
People in my clinic rarely describe gender dysphoria in clinical language. They describe it in physical terms. A cold wave that washes over them when they catch their reflection. A sense of looking in the mirror and seeing the wrong face. The feeling of performing in a play that never ends, where the role does not match who they are. One person described it to me as a kind of chronic pain that gnaws at them without any clear physical cause.
That embodied quality is one of the things that distinguishes it. Gender dysphoria is not just a thought about gender. It is a felt sense of incongruence between the gender someone experiences themselves to be and the body or social role they are living in.

As you're a fan of Dr Spelman

BackToLurk · 29/07/2026 14:38

Sunnibee · 29/07/2026 13:56

Methodological neutrality is important, but subject-matter expertise isn't a source of bias to be eliminated. It's essential for framing the right questions, interpreting heterogeneous evidence, understanding the clinical context and recognising the limitations of the literature. You need both methods expertise and subject matter knowledge and understanding to conduct a high quality evidence review. The latter was lacking in the Cass team.

Edited

You seem to be avoiding the specific criticism of the Dutch review linked in the OP. The board conducting the review has 12 members. Of those, 6 are either directly or indirectly involved with the prescribing of puberty blockers. While 2 of those don't have voting rights they will still influence the review. So we have a board, half of which's members have some involvement with prescribing puberty blockers, reviewing the evidence on the prescribing of puberty blockers within the context of care for children claiming a trans identity. And you don't see that as an issue?

Indeed the problem with this is particularly pronounced as it is a small field within the Netherlands. The small number of clinicians involved means that those involved in the review are essentially reviewing their own work, and the work of close colleagues.

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Seethlaw · 29/07/2026 14:36

OldCrone · 29/07/2026 14:30

So you have no idea how trans kids know they are trans. Why are you here, arguing so passionately about this, when it seems you know nothing about it?

Yes, it's becoming apparent that @Sunnibee has no idea how trans kids know they are trans. Which is more than a bit troubling when discussing giving those kids a massively invasive treatment. "I don't know what their problem is, but surely, messing with their bodies in that extreme way can only do them good, right?" Wow...

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