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Cairngormwildfire · 31/07/2026 17:46

Sunnibee · 31/07/2026 17:43

No, I'm a human not an AI bot :)

Also a reminder that there has not found to be any increase in suicides in young people with gender dysphoria, but a huge increase in suicides exists in adults who have ‘transitioned’

Cairngormwildfire · 31/07/2026 17:43

In terms of CSH, why do men only talk about oestrogen?

Sunnibee · 31/07/2026 17:43

BettyBooper · 31/07/2026 17:41

Are you using AI to generate your posts?

No, I'm a human not an AI bot :)

BettyBooper · 31/07/2026 17:41

Sunnibee · 31/07/2026 17:41

Surely it would be more productive and interesting to join the actual discussion?

Are you using AI to generate your posts?

FlirtsWithRhinos · 31/07/2026 17:41

BettyBooper · 31/07/2026 17:18

What on earth were you deleted for? All seemed reasonable to me.

I reckon it was the c word that has an l in it.

I was wondering if there is a MN autodeletion on the word like there is for the c word that starts cry, but then I remembered pigeons call gender critical feminism that word all the time and it doesn't get deleted, so I think it's just the thing were GC people let those claims stand because we know that for GC Feminism the claim just looks ridiculous and backfires on the accuser, while Genderists get them deleted very quicky because they know that for Genderism they ... don't.

I forget who said it (maybe me 😂), but if you want to know what power is scared of, look at what you are not allowed to say.

Sunnibee · 31/07/2026 17:41

FlirtsWithRhinos · 31/07/2026 17:35

Seeing a lot of AI tells now.

That clears up the suddenly very well informed posts (well, presenting as well informed at least. As someone who deals with a lot of AI content at work, treat all "facts" with caution no matter hiw confidently delivered.)

Goes without saying, but anyone who delegates their side of the conversation to AI has no interest in learning or understanding the opposite position, they just want to bulldoze their own views.

An interesting coda to the earlier side track about understanding, learning and the value of taking the journey.

Surely it would be more productive and interesting to join the actual discussion?

BettyBooper · 31/07/2026 17:40

FlirtsWithRhinos · 31/07/2026 17:35

Seeing a lot of AI tells now.

That clears up the suddenly very well informed posts (well, presenting as well informed at least. As someone who deals with a lot of AI content at work, treat all "facts" with caution no matter hiw confidently delivered.)

Goes without saying, but anyone who delegates their side of the conversation to AI has no interest in learning or understanding the opposite position, they just want to bulldoze their own views.

An interesting coda to the earlier side track about understanding, learning and the value of taking the journey.

Ah yeah. The AI was in full force ages ago.

nutmeg7 · 31/07/2026 17:39

Sunnibee · 31/07/2026 17:36

That's fair, and a different claim from the one I was addressing. Penile growth and certain functional/structural changes are androgen-dependent and occur specifically during androgenized male puberty. If blockers are started at Tanner stage 2, that growth doesn't happen, and it's not something estrogen will retroactively produce later — estrogen doesn't drive that tissue's development, testosterone does. This has a real, documented clinical consequence: trans women who blocked puberty early and never had an androgenized puberty often don't have enough penile/scrotal tissue for a standard penile-inversion vaginoplasty, and need alternative techniques (peritoneal or intestinal vaginoplasty) instead. So that's one reason why some clinicians may advice PBs are started later mid puberty around tanner stage 4.

So if the point is specifically "blocking male puberty at Tanner 2 forecloses certain surgical options later, in a way that isn't reversible by giving estrogen afterward" — that's accurate, and it's a legitimate, concrete consideration for informed consent. However, what doesn't make sense it to generalise from that into "therefore blockers + cross-sex hormones don't produce puberty at all" — children are left in pre-pubertal limbo and brain maturation can't happen.

This all sounds like appalling Frankenstein medicine. What on earth are we doing to people? This is not a healthy way to be human.

BettyBooper · 31/07/2026 17:38

Adults in society tell children that GI is a thing and that humans can magically be born in the wrong body.

Distressed child believes the adults and thinks that this is what has happened to them.

Adults act all surprised and tell child they can solve this by blocking puberty.

Child now very much wants puberty blockers.

Adults point to this as evidence that child is really born in wrong body.

Child goes on puberty blockers. Becomes infertile.

Adults say - well, that was worth it. At least you're no longer distressed!

FIN.

Sunnibee · 31/07/2026 17:36

theilltemperedmonster · 31/07/2026 17:27

Yes, yes, and there's even a CAIS lady with persistent Müllerian duct syndrome who had donor egg twins. And children with 5-ARD or PAIS who have successful feminisation treatment (or as successful as it can be with a micropenis and an inguinal sinus). That's not my point.

A normal little boy has a normal little penis, and it's not going to get any bigger, or develop its normal functions, or be capable of being peeled like a banana and turned inside out, unless he goes through male puberty.

That's fair, and a different claim from the one I was addressing. Penile growth and certain functional/structural changes are androgen-dependent and occur specifically during androgenized male puberty. If blockers are started at Tanner stage 2, that growth doesn't happen, and it's not something estrogen will retroactively produce later — estrogen doesn't drive that tissue's development, testosterone does. This has a real, documented clinical consequence: trans women who blocked puberty early and never had an androgenized puberty often don't have enough penile/scrotal tissue for a standard penile-inversion vaginoplasty, and need alternative techniques (peritoneal or intestinal vaginoplasty) instead. So that's one reason why some clinicians may advice PBs are started later mid puberty around tanner stage 4.

So if the point is specifically "blocking male puberty at Tanner 2 forecloses certain surgical options later, in a way that isn't reversible by giving estrogen afterward" — that's accurate, and it's a legitimate, concrete consideration for informed consent. However, what doesn't make sense it to generalise from that into "therefore blockers + cross-sex hormones don't produce puberty at all" — children are left in pre-pubertal limbo and brain maturation can't happen.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 31/07/2026 17:35

Seeing a lot of AI tells now.

That clears up the suddenly very well informed posts (well, presenting as well informed at least. As someone who deals with a lot of AI content at work, treat all "facts" with caution no matter hiw confidently delivered.)

Goes without saying, but anyone who delegates their side of the conversation to AI has no interest in learning or understanding the opposite position, they just want to bulldoze their own views.

An interesting coda to the earlier side track about understanding, learning and the value of taking the journey.

nutmeg7 · 31/07/2026 17:34

Sunnibee · 31/07/2026 09:03

I wasn’t suggesting that treating POI and gender dysphoria are “the same.” They’re clearly different clinical situations with different aims. The comparison was about a specific claim—that interruption or alteration of endogenous hormone exposure necessarily produces unique or catastrophic effects on brain development. If that claim were true in the absolute way it was suggested, it would have implications beyond medical care for childhood gender dysphoria. That was the point I was making.

You’re also assuming that endogenous puberty is always the correct outcome. In cases of persistent gender dysphoria, clinicians who support hormonal interventions do so because they conclude that, in that individual’s clinical circumstances, the risks of not treating outweigh the risks of treatment. Whether that judgment is ultimately supported by the evidence is a legitimate question, but it isn’t answered simply by asserting that “natural puberty” is always preferable.

Finally, it’s unfair to suggest I’m ignoring evidence. I’ve engaged with the evidence you’ve presented and questioned whether it supports the conclusions you’re drawing from it. I even went back and re-read the blog after your post. That demonstrates a willingness to reconsider the material, not dismiss it. It also highlights a recurring tendency on your part to make assumptions or inferences without sufficient basis. Challenging an interpretation isn’t the same as dismissing the evidence itself

You are consistently blurring the line between exogenous puberty induced by the appropriate sex hormones, and whatever it is that happens when a young person is flooded with exogenous hormones in an amount suitable to the opposite sex.

No one can go through “opposite sex”
puberty; they don’t have the body parts to start producing opposite sex gametes.

The two things are not comparable.

theilltemperedmonster · 31/07/2026 17:27

Sunnibee · 31/07/2026 17:14

CAIS is an inapt comparison because they have normal female external genitalia from birth and, interestingly, will develop female secondary sex characteristics spontaneously at puberty (due to aromatisation of endogenous testosterone), although they do need œstrogen thereafter to preserve bone health.

That actually supports the point rather than undermining it. CAIS is a clean demonstration that puberty — in the sense of secondary sex characteristics and presumably the associated brain maturation — is fully dissociable from both reproductive status and chromosomal sex. These are XY individuals who go through a complete female puberty, driven by hormone receptors responding to circulating sex hormone, while never having female chromosomes, ovaries or a uterus and never being able to reproduce. That's exactly the separation between "puberty," chromosomes, and reproductive maturation I was pointing to.

The fact that in CAIS this happens via aromatization of endogenous testosterone (for those who haven't had their testes removed pre puberty) rather than exogenous hormone administration doesn't change that conclusion — it just shows a different route to the same outcome. What matters for the underlying argument isn't the source of the hormone, or the chromosomes behind it, it's that hormone receptors drive pubertal changes independent of gonadal/reproductive status and independent of karyotype.

Yes, yes, and there's even a CAIS lady with persistent Müllerian duct syndrome who had donor egg twins. And children with 5-ARD or PAIS who have successful feminisation treatment (or as successful as it can be with a micropenis and an inguinal sinus). That's not my point.

A normal little boy has a normal little penis, and it's not going to get any bigger, or develop its normal functions, or be capable of being peeled like a banana and turned inside out, unless he goes through male puberty.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 31/07/2026 17:22

CAIS individuals missed their initial sexual development in the womb.

This is not the case for a child whose sexed body developed along the normal pathway. For them the bus left before they were born.

It's either extremely poorly informed or extremely bad faith to imply CAIS means any human can have an opposite sex puberty if given the "right" (wrong) hormones.

Waheymum · 31/07/2026 17:20

FlirtsWithRhinos · 29/07/2026 10:44

Trans people aren't confused. They are just wrong in what they believe everyone else feels, and that leads them to make changes to their bodies trying to fix something that was never broken.

It's terribly sad.

And the people who cheerlead for "gender medicine" are .... not people who I can have any respect for.

It is sad. I think a sad thing is that some/many (?) transpeople are also neurodiverse (read: likely autistic).
This means that A) if they start considering that their sex is what's wrong, they may be more likely than a neurotypical person to focus on that idea.
And B) maybe if society is already a difficult place to be/it's hard to fit in anyway (because you're autistic), maybe it's easier to change who you (physically) are than to mask your autism when you're out and about. That way most people will see a trans person before they see an autistic person.

BettyBooper · 31/07/2026 17:18

FlirtsWithRhinos · 31/07/2026 17:10

Hmmm. Deleted. Someone was super fast not wanting those observations to stand!

I wonder if it was because I pointed out the poster dominating this thread clearly came here with their mind already made up and has made no effort whatsoever to understand any other perspective or concerns, just rolled fluff around them and rolled past them.

What on earth were you deleted for? All seemed reasonable to me.

Sunnibee · 31/07/2026 17:16

FlirtsWithRhinos · 31/07/2026 17:10

Hmmm. Deleted. Someone was super fast not wanting those observations to stand!

I wonder if it was because I pointed out the poster dominating this thread clearly came here with their mind already made up and has made no effort whatsoever to understand any other perspective or concerns, just rolled fluff around them and rolled past them.

I didn't even see your post before it was deleted. I have no idea what it said, but clearly someone thought it was inappropriate - either MN HQ or another user.

BettyBooper · 31/07/2026 17:16

Sunnibee · 31/07/2026 17:03

Yes, I think the proposed trial is unlikely to answer the most clinically relevant question and, given the timelines involved, may expose participants to unnecessary harms.

Puberty blockers are intended to be initiated at around Tanner stage 2. If treatment does not begin until age 14, many young people—particularly natal females—will already have undergone a substantial proportion of endogenous puberty, limiting one of the principal purposes of the intervention. Starting blockers at that stage or later also means suppressing an already established pubertal process, with its own physiological consequences (it can introduce very challenging side effects akin to a sort of menopause).

Equally concerning is the proposal to keep young people on blockers until age 18. Four years of pubertal suppression during adolescence would be challenging both physically and socially.

If the aim is to protect young people's welfare, I don't think the answer is to eliminate hormonal treatment for those with persistent gender dysphoria. Rather, it is to ensure that appropriately assessed young people receive treatment on a medically and developmentally appropriate timeline, as occurs in a number of other healthcare systems, rather than one determined primarily by policy / political compromises.

As for your final question: no, of course children wouldn't develop fertility if they don't have the relevant reproductive organs. Nor would they be left in a permanent prepubertal state, unable to grow into a mature adult with a sense of self, and permanently affected by brain damage. As I've explained, there are many groups of children for whom puberty is induced through exogenous hormones; regardless of chromosomes, hormone receptors respond to these hormones which drive systemic pubertal changes (including those associated with bone health and brain development) even if they can't grow new reproductive organs.

So they would be infertile. Not good at all. The other things you describe also sound like very bad outcomes for already distressed children.

Yes, sometimes children get distressed. It's not great. But, honestly, it's also not the end of the world. Distress can be worked with. Most people have experienced distress and have come out of the other side. Being infertile is awful and nothing can be done.

Lying to children about reality and putting them on harmful drugs and making them infertile to somehow alleviate distress (which has been caused by adults imho) is just not proportionate. Or kind, actually, I think.

Other solutions need exploring before this one.

Sunnibee · 31/07/2026 17:14

theilltemperedmonster · 31/07/2026 17:06

@Sunnibee

PBs are not a safeguard but a figleaf. The side effects (and those of any hormone blockade) are severe. Given that most progress to CSHs anyway, it would be considerably less medically dangerous to subject boys to gonadectomy and start œstrogen at 11.

They don't do it because it would make it obvious that he is being committed at an early age to sterility and vitiated sexual function (lack of genital development makes vaginoplasty more difficult). PBs are a simulacrum of caution.

CAIS is an inapt comparison because they have normal female external genitalia from birth and, interestingly, will develop female secondary sex characteristics spontaneously at puberty (due to aromatisation of endogenous testosterone), although they do need œstrogen thereafter to preserve bone health.

It's pointless transitioning girls early. Testosterone is so powerful it can do a bang up job when they're thirty.

CAIS is an inapt comparison because they have normal female external genitalia from birth and, interestingly, will develop female secondary sex characteristics spontaneously at puberty (due to aromatisation of endogenous testosterone), although they do need œstrogen thereafter to preserve bone health.

That actually supports the point rather than undermining it. CAIS is a clean demonstration that puberty — in the sense of secondary sex characteristics and presumably the associated brain maturation — is fully dissociable from both reproductive status and chromosomal sex. These are XY individuals who go through a complete female puberty, driven by hormone receptors responding to circulating sex hormone, while never having female chromosomes, ovaries or a uterus and never being able to reproduce. That's exactly the separation between "puberty," chromosomes, and reproductive maturation I was pointing to.

The fact that in CAIS this happens via aromatization of endogenous testosterone (for those who haven't had their testes removed pre puberty) rather than exogenous hormone administration doesn't change that conclusion — it just shows a different route to the same outcome. What matters for the underlying argument isn't the source of the hormone, or the chromosomes behind it, it's that hormone receptors drive pubertal changes independent of gonadal/reproductive status and independent of karyotype.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 31/07/2026 17:12

FlirtsWithRhinos · 31/07/2026 17:10

Hmmm. Deleted. Someone was super fast not wanting those observations to stand!

I wonder if it was because I pointed out the poster dominating this thread clearly came here with their mind already made up and has made no effort whatsoever to understand any other perspective or concerns, just rolled fluff around them and rolled past them.

Or maybe because of the second word of a common phrase that starts "cargo..." that very well describes how Genderists appear to ascribe some quite unscientific powers to PBs and cross sex hormones. I know by itself it is not a word that can be said, at least not one Genderists allow to stand when said against them. Didn'texpect it to be verboten as part of a well known and specific colloquial phrase mraning something quite different though.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 31/07/2026 17:10

Hmmm. Deleted. Someone was super fast not wanting those observations to stand!

I wonder if it was because I pointed out the poster dominating this thread clearly came here with their mind already made up and has made no effort whatsoever to understand any other perspective or concerns, just rolled fluff around them and rolled past them.

theilltemperedmonster · 31/07/2026 17:06

@Sunnibee

PBs are not a safeguard but a figleaf. The side effects (and those of any hormone blockade) are severe. Given that most progress to CSHs anyway, it would be considerably less medically dangerous to subject boys to gonadectomy and start œstrogen at 11.

They don't do it because it would make it obvious that he is being committed at an early age to sterility and vitiated sexual function (lack of genital development makes vaginoplasty more difficult). PBs are a simulacrum of caution.

CAIS is an inapt comparison because they have normal female external genitalia from birth and, interestingly, will develop female secondary sex characteristics spontaneously at puberty (due to aromatisation of endogenous testosterone), although they do need œstrogen thereafter to preserve bone health.

It's pointless transitioning girls early. Testosterone is so powerful it can do a bang up job when they're thirty.

Sunnibee · 31/07/2026 17:03

BettyBooper · 31/07/2026 16:42

Yes I mean the PB trial.

So (trying to understand) the plan is to prevent puberty to have a time to think (about changing sex, which is impossible) and then have puberty later than all of that child's peers so they miss out on all the normal teenage stuff, which they can never get back.

And then they won't have access to CSH (and given how many usually go on to these that's not going to be easy for them to accept). So they just have puberty later than everyone else, so without peer support and probably feeling like a complete oddity.

It seems cruel to me tbh.

Again @Sunnibee it's your view that if a child had CSH after PB, they would go through puberty and likely be a fertile adult?

Yes, I think the proposed trial is unlikely to answer the most clinically relevant question and, given the timelines involved, may expose participants to unnecessary harms.

Puberty blockers are intended to be initiated at around Tanner stage 2. If treatment does not begin until age 14, many young people—particularly natal females—will already have undergone a substantial proportion of endogenous puberty, limiting one of the principal purposes of the intervention. Starting blockers at that stage or later also means suppressing an already established pubertal process, with its own physiological consequences (it can introduce very challenging side effects akin to a sort of menopause).

Equally concerning is the proposal to keep young people on blockers until age 18. Four years of pubertal suppression during adolescence would be challenging both physically and socially.

If the aim is to protect young people's welfare, I don't think the answer is to eliminate hormonal treatment for those with persistent gender dysphoria. Rather, it is to ensure that appropriately assessed young people receive treatment on a medically and developmentally appropriate timeline, as occurs in a number of other healthcare systems, rather than one determined primarily by policy / political compromises.

As for your final question: no, of course children wouldn't develop fertility if they don't have the relevant reproductive organs. Nor would they be left in a permanent prepubertal state, unable to grow into a mature adult with a sense of self, and permanently affected by brain damage. As I've explained, there are many groups of children for whom puberty is induced through exogenous hormones; regardless of chromosomes, hormone receptors respond to these hormones which drive systemic pubertal changes (including those associated with bone health and brain development) even if they can't grow new reproductive organs.

Cairngormwildfire · 31/07/2026 16:59

A boy who has taken CSH is still a boy even if he then has loads of cosmetic surgey. He will always be a boy. He has no right to demand anyone pretend otherwise or impose himself on female spaces. So what exactly is being achieved?