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Heartstopper Forever film TRA propaganda: "People don't want me using public bathrooms", "Government is taking away my rights"

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HelenaRavenclaw · 18/07/2026 06:42

The final instalment of Netflix's Heartstopper is here, and it's a film. The TRA propaganda is hardly unsurprising given that it's written by Alice Oseman the arch-TRA...but it's disgusting how these people are using a teen film to twist the truth and sensationalize things to get pity from the masses. "People don't want [trans people] to use public bathrooms": how convenient indeed to leave out the "intended for the opposite sex"! (Like saying "People don't want me to use money", leaving out the "stolen from others" part.) "Government is taking away my rights": what rights don't trans people have? (Does being poor give someone the right to simply grab other people's money without their consent? Doesn't the fact that laws exist and are enforced in society mean that the government is taking away rights from everyone, such as the right to break into one's neighbour's house, or the right to take home things from a store without paying?)

I hope that every sane adult whose children watch this film (and previous seasons of the show) will sit down with the kids and explain how deliberately deceptive and illogical the TRA propaganda is.

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WrongKindOfFeminist · 20/07/2026 08:43

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 08:38

Ah so a program that calls you out you and your disgusting views is "cringy". It's called a teen program and is exactly the representation we need in society.

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Representation of whom?

GreyskySexRealistsky · 20/07/2026 08:41

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 08:38

Ah so a program that calls you out you and your disgusting views is "cringy". It's called a teen program and is exactly the representation we need in society.

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Who is it "calling out"?

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 08:38

NotBadConsidering · 20/07/2026 06:42

My DD was watching this so I decided to watch the rest from about half way through.

Oh. My. God. It was bloody awful. Is this considered top notch tv these days? It’s was so cringy, cheesy, terrible dialogue and cliched. I don’t remember any of the nonsense trans activism because I was too busy rolling my eyes at the “drama” of it all.

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Ah so a program that calls you out you and your disgusting views is "cringy". It's called a teen program and is exactly the representation we need in society.

NotBadConsidering · 20/07/2026 06:42

My DD was watching this so I decided to watch the rest from about half way through.

Oh. My. God. It was bloody awful. Is this considered top notch tv these days? It’s was so cringy, cheesy, terrible dialogue and cliched. I don’t remember any of the nonsense trans activism because I was too busy rolling my eyes at the “drama” of it all.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 19/07/2026 23:30

Are we supposed to be impressed by the involvement of Yasmin Benoit? From what I’ve seen she’s an attention seeking influencer.

MarieDeGournay · 19/07/2026 23:11

OneUniquePearlFish
Corrective violence: Research from King's College London, published in 2025 in collaboration with activist Yasmin Benoit, found that 31% of the public believe asexuality is something that can be "cured" through therapy...

Have you any evidence of 'corrective violence'?
There's sadly plenty of evidence of 'corrective violence' in the form of rape and murder of lesbians around the world - South Africa in particular, but it happens in many other countries.

Can you give examples of 'corrective violence' such as rape and murder experienced by asexual people who were targeted specifically because of their asexuality, as lesbians are targeted specifically because of theirs?

Your other two examples are less than convincing: in the first case, asexuality is not treated as a medical disorder, so it's not pathologized, so that's OK; in the second, I don't see how you have proven 'systemic erasure' - low life satisfaction and being afraid of how people will react does not constitute 'systemic erasure'

Not being covered by EA2010 is shared by many many other identities, so asexuality is not being systemically erased any more than the rest.

Thank you for responding to the request for examples of persecution of asexual people, but I'm sorry, as examples of persecution or discrimination, they just aren't very convincing.
The 'corrective violence' one in particular seems weak in comparison with the established problem of 'corrective violence' - the rape/murder kind of violence - perpetrated against lesbians.

ElenOfTheWays · 19/07/2026 22:16

Igmum · 18/07/2026 08:41

Thank you Monster and FFS Heartstopper. No wonder it’s bad if it just spews out propaganda. I honestly think that the first creative team to tell the story of what really happens with children and young people - the grooming online (cracking an egg), the conversion of LGB, the pressure on young lesbians to have sex with men to validate those men, the lies doctors tell about pause buttons and suicide risk, the many side effects, the cult, the breakdowns caused by so forcibly pushing lies, the detransitioning and the desistance - will have a blockbuster on their hands. There are so many harrowing and dramatic stories here (real people I know). Instead the fourth raters simply repeat the same storyline (I’m sad, I became myself, someone bullied me, my friends stepped in, I’m happy).

I'd watch it. The movie/documentary about the reality of it I mean obviously.

ElenOfTheWays · 19/07/2026 22:14

Whisperingwaters · 18/07/2026 06:50

Deceptive & illogical propaganda is indeed.

It's not illegal yet for trans people to use their preferred toilet. It's only possibly illegal for service providers to allow them which won't even be known for certain until case law clarifies this. If you have a single-sex space a trans person can still go into that single-sex space, but if someone complains, they can bring out a sex discrimination claim or the organisation can exclude that person, but that doesn’t happen automatically. Even if you do have a single-sex space, the exclusion must be proportionate, which means that the rights of whoever wants to be in a single-sex space, if they’re complaining, have to be counterbalanced against the rights of a trans person. Those rights still exist. The law hasn’t changed on that.

Do you think if you post this pish on enough threads eventually no one will bother to call it out?

Never gonna happen. Wink

OneUniquePearlFish · 19/07/2026 15:53

Okiedokie123 · 19/07/2026 15:42

@OneUniquePearlFish “Asexuality faces systemic erasure, medical pathologization, and corrective violence”
Golly! Examples please…….

Gladly. And no, none of this comes from Tumblr.

  • Medical pathologization: Take a look at the World Health Organization's International Classification of Diseases (ICD) and NHS practices. For years, asexuality was treated as a medical disorder under diagnoses like Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder. Although the ICD-11, which came into effect in 2022, now makes it clear that asexuality is a sexual orientation rather than a medical condition, clinical practice hasn't fully caught up. The Stonewall Ace in the UK report found that many asexual people still have their identity questioned by NHS professionals, who often assume it's a mental health issue or the result of trauma.

  • Systemic erasure: The UK Government's National LGBT Survey (2018) found that asexual respondents reported the lowest average life satisfaction of any LGBT group (5.9 out of 10), and 89% said they avoided being open about their identity because they feared negative reactions. On top of that, the Equality Act 2010 doesn't explicitly include asexuality as a protected sexual orientation, since its definition is based on attraction to a particular sex. That leaves asexual people without clear statutory protection against discrimination based specifically on their orientation.

  • Corrective violence: Research from King's College London, published in 2025 in collaboration with activist Yasmin Benoit, found that 31% of the public believe asexuality is something that can be "cured" through therapy. The widespread belief that asexual people are "broken" or just "haven't met the right person yet" contributes to experiences such as conversion efforts, corrective abuse, and sexual violence intended to "fix" them.

As for your "Golly! Examples please" comment, it illustrates exactly the kind of dismissive attitude I'm talking about. Instead of engaging with the evidence, you're mocking the idea that these experiences exist because they don't fit your view of what discrimination looks like. It's ironic to see people argue that they're deeply concerned with marginalization while simultaneously dismissing or gatekeeping someone else's experiences. That kind of reaction only reinforces the point that this has become an echo chamber where some identities are treated as legitimate and others
aren't.

Okiedokie123 · 19/07/2026 15:42

@OneUniquePearlFish “Asexuality faces systemic erasure, medical pathologization, and corrective violence”
Golly! Examples please…….

Ereshkigalangcleg · 19/07/2026 15:23

I’m open to hearing about it, because when I’ve read similar claims before they’ve just been trumped up hyperbole. If you can explain, I’m interested.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 19/07/2026 15:21

Could you describe exactly how not wanting to have sex with anyone at all leads to a person being oppressed?

OneUniquePearlFish · 19/07/2026 15:09

Theeyeballsinthesky · 19/07/2026 14:58

i believe there are people who don't want or need sex

I don't believe they suffer any kind of discrimination except in their own heads abd their cultural appropriation of the genuine discrimination faced by LGB and yes T ppl is ridiculous

given Alice's age I assume she spent a lot of time on tumblr

To claim asexual people are 'appropriating' the 'genuine discrimination' of LGB and T people is wildly naive and uneducated. Asexuality faces systemic erasure, medical pathologization, and corrective violence. The absolute irony is that you are using the exact same cruel, dismissive 'it's all in your head/just a Tumblr trend' talking points against aces that bigots use to invalidate trans people. It is hilarious watching women on this board act like they are the ultimate marginalized group and the arbiters of suffering, all while gatekeeping identity and proving my exact point about what a hypocritical echo chamber this place is.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 19/07/2026 14:58

OneUniquePearlFish · 19/07/2026 14:46

What? You don't believe in asexuality. The feminist board is the most hypocritical echo chamber I have witnessed. Always in for a good laugh 😂

i believe there are people who don't want or need sex

I don't believe they suffer any kind of discrimination except in their own heads abd their cultural appropriation of the genuine discrimination faced by LGB and yes T ppl is ridiculous

given Alice's age I assume she spent a lot of time on tumblr

OneUniquePearlFish · 19/07/2026 14:46

Theeyeballsinthesky · 18/07/2026 09:36

I see the writers of heartstopper have arrived already

Alice Oseman the actual writer is a they/them who claims to be aromantic and asexual - but of course she is and does

What? You don't believe in asexuality. The feminist board is the most hypocritical echo chamber I have witnessed. Always in for a good laugh 😂

Helleofabore · 19/07/2026 14:08

WrongKindOfFeminist · 19/07/2026 13:49

So what you're saying is: Trans people can still break the law but if nobody stops them then there will be no consequences for them, despite this having clear effects on women.

I see.

It's like a campaign for drink driving, on the basis that if you are not stopped by the police then you will probably get away with it.

Yep.

Or that you can run all the red lights that you want to if you don’t get caught.

Or that it is not a crime if you park wherever you want. Imagine telling someone when you park them in across their dropped kerb that it isn’t ’illegal’ as you just walk off and leave your car only to come back and not only find your car towed at your expense but a windscreen covered with parking infringement notices.

Apparently, only criminal laws have to be obeyed in some people’s minds. Oh… no hang on… it has pivoted now to ‘the law is not yet challenged’ so therefore male people can still do what they want.

It all amounts to ‘male people do what that want !’

Now… where exactly is McCloud’s ECHR claim? It has been 18 months.

WrongKindOfFeminist · 19/07/2026 13:49

Whisperingwaters · 18/07/2026 06:50

Deceptive & illogical propaganda is indeed.

It's not illegal yet for trans people to use their preferred toilet. It's only possibly illegal for service providers to allow them which won't even be known for certain until case law clarifies this. If you have a single-sex space a trans person can still go into that single-sex space, but if someone complains, they can bring out a sex discrimination claim or the organisation can exclude that person, but that doesn’t happen automatically. Even if you do have a single-sex space, the exclusion must be proportionate, which means that the rights of whoever wants to be in a single-sex space, if they’re complaining, have to be counterbalanced against the rights of a trans person. Those rights still exist. The law hasn’t changed on that.

So what you're saying is: Trans people can still break the law but if nobody stops them then there will be no consequences for them, despite this having clear effects on women.

I see.

It's like a campaign for drink driving, on the basis that if you are not stopped by the police then you will probably get away with it.

socialdilemmawhattodo · 19/07/2026 12:33

floatingbagel · 18/07/2026 07:47

i think its great that the lgbt+ community can get this level of representation. on the other hand, hearstopper is a cringefest that isnt worth watching. my dd watched it last night at a sleepover and said it was rubbish but i definitely dont think it is deceptive at all, just bad cinema

Interesting. I'm a total feminist, partic gc last 10 years and no longer a trans-ally in any form or shape, but i really like Heartstopper. It is a little bit 1 person from each category of the letter brigade, so lazy in that way. The characters are really sweet and it does show mid-late teens quite well. I shall be watching the film with DC. Hope its not as bad as your DD said!

Helleofabore · 19/07/2026 12:18

Whisperingwaters · 18/07/2026 06:50

Deceptive & illogical propaganda is indeed.

It's not illegal yet for trans people to use their preferred toilet. It's only possibly illegal for service providers to allow them which won't even be known for certain until case law clarifies this. If you have a single-sex space a trans person can still go into that single-sex space, but if someone complains, they can bring out a sex discrimination claim or the organisation can exclude that person, but that doesn’t happen automatically. Even if you do have a single-sex space, the exclusion must be proportionate, which means that the rights of whoever wants to be in a single-sex space, if they’re complaining, have to be counterbalanced against the rights of a trans person. Those rights still exist. The law hasn’t changed on that.

What provisions do you not consider to be covered by sex segregation again?

List them and clearly list the reasons why they are likely to fail a challenge on the basis of proportionality?

Perhaps you should start giving details rather than simply repeating this claim of yours across multiple threads.

Helleofabore · 19/07/2026 12:11

nutmeg7 · 19/07/2026 11:58

No it isn’t.

The law is very clearly stated in the equality act, and the clarification from FWS at the Supreme Court.

Services are not allowed to discriminate against any protected characteristic except where discrimination (in a neutral sense of the word) is a proportionate means to achieve a legitimate aim.

One example of a “legitimate aim” is the use of single sex facilities to protect the privacy, safety and dignity of females from the presence of males when they are dealing with private bodily functions.

Providing single sex spaces is the proportionate means - female people are half of the population and it is reasonable to assume that the majority of them do not want to come across a male person in such a space.

”Case by case” is situation specific eg. Provision of toilets in shopping centre for example. If the owners of the centre want to provide separate sex spaces alongside other options, the equality act allows this act of discrimination because it is a proportionate means to achieve a legitimate aim.

Once the single sex space is established, there is no “case by case” assessment of each male person who wants to come in.

You seem to be suggesting that we need case law to establish that males do not have the right to access services for females on an individual basis.

This is bollocks.

You are basically saying male people should carry on using the female spaces and services because individual women can’t physically prevent this in moment but will have to complain to the service provider for not enforcing the rules, and then take them to court. This sounds a bit like using male power to make women put up with situations they don’t want. All a bit VAWG.

I don’t know what “case law” you are hoping for? The service provider can refuse service to anyone who is repeatedly making a nuisance of themselves.

It is the next pivot that we are seeing. It is the ‘but wait, the EA2010 has to be challenged for toilet usage before any male person should be expected to respect female people’s needs to single sex spaces!’ after all the rhetoric such as ‘it is not against the law because it is not a ‘crime’’ style statements.

Of course, those statements ignore the lawful actions available to exclude male people such as employment disciplinary action, organisations banning people from using the premises that those organisations control and then a range of charges that police forces can use if needed if a crime has happened.

However, it is the latest pivot to try to dismiss the guidance.

booksnbaking · 19/07/2026 12:11

thirdfiddle · 18/07/2026 11:09

Separate bookshops for men and women would require some quite specific circumstances to justify, as there isn't in normal circumstances a privacy or dignity reason to have sex segregated book buying.

RIP Silver Moon bookshop (note the section about the cafe)

Silver Moon Bookshop - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Silver_Moon_Bookshop

nutmeg7 · 19/07/2026 11:58

Whisperingwaters · 19/07/2026 00:11

But once a single-sex space is established as a proportionate means to a legitimate aim (privacy and dignity being a legitimate aim, for example) that’s it - you don’t have to justify the exclusion of each man individually.

But the point is this hasn't been done in a court of law explicitly for toilets yet. Case law is required for that.

No it isn’t.

The law is very clearly stated in the equality act, and the clarification from FWS at the Supreme Court.

Services are not allowed to discriminate against any protected characteristic except where discrimination (in a neutral sense of the word) is a proportionate means to achieve a legitimate aim.

One example of a “legitimate aim” is the use of single sex facilities to protect the privacy, safety and dignity of females from the presence of males when they are dealing with private bodily functions.

Providing single sex spaces is the proportionate means - female people are half of the population and it is reasonable to assume that the majority of them do not want to come across a male person in such a space.

”Case by case” is situation specific eg. Provision of toilets in shopping centre for example. If the owners of the centre want to provide separate sex spaces alongside other options, the equality act allows this act of discrimination because it is a proportionate means to achieve a legitimate aim.

Once the single sex space is established, there is no “case by case” assessment of each male person who wants to come in.

You seem to be suggesting that we need case law to establish that males do not have the right to access services for females on an individual basis.

This is bollocks.

You are basically saying male people should carry on using the female spaces and services because individual women can’t physically prevent this in moment but will have to complain to the service provider for not enforcing the rules, and then take them to court. This sounds a bit like using male power to make women put up with situations they don’t want. All a bit VAWG.

I don’t know what “case law” you are hoping for? The service provider can refuse service to anyone who is repeatedly making a nuisance of themselves.

Keeptoiletssafe · 19/07/2026 11:04

Whisperingwaters · 19/07/2026 00:11

But once a single-sex space is established as a proportionate means to a legitimate aim (privacy and dignity being a legitimate aim, for example) that’s it - you don’t have to justify the exclusion of each man individually.

But the point is this hasn't been done in a court of law explicitly for toilets yet. Case law is required for that.

???

Whisperingwaters · 19/07/2026 00:11

HipTightOnions · 18/07/2026 09:00

”Just because you want to” isn’t enough. You couldn’t say “my shop doesn’t serve women” for example.

But once a single-sex space is established as a proportionate means to a legitimate aim (privacy and dignity being a legitimate aim, for example) that’s it - you don’t have to justify the exclusion of each man individually.

But once a single-sex space is established as a proportionate means to a legitimate aim (privacy and dignity being a legitimate aim, for example) that’s it - you don’t have to justify the exclusion of each man individually.

But the point is this hasn't been done in a court of law explicitly for toilets yet. Case law is required for that.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 18/07/2026 22:13

Reminds me of the BBC’s Doctors, which ran for over two decades and in recent years has been pure TRA propaganda, adding in furries, non binary etc and apparently basing a villain character on Graham Linehan. And to an extent also Hollyoaks, where massive unit of a man “Sally” goes to a women’s prison and is terrorised by terfy female inmates.

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