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Organisations refusing to give their single sex spaces policy - David Lloyd for example

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 28/05/2026 16:27

I have been trying for a long time to get a written policy out of David Lloyds for about a year. they are still refusing to do so.

Anyone got any suggestions? And What other orgs are refusing to do it?

Is this the next trench we have to fight in? Getting the damned thing written down?

OP posts:
SwirlyGates · 28/05/2026 17:14

rebax · 28/05/2026 17:00

Walk into the men's and see what happens...

SingleSexSpaces is a man, he'd have to walk into the women's to test them out...

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 28/05/2026 17:08

RogueFemale · 28/05/2026 16:59

@SingleSexSpacesInSchools I've been trying to get an answer from a local gym, also a swimming pool. In my enquiry I referred to biological sex/Equality Act, and got immediate word salad replies - "needs of users", "respecting dignity, safety" blah blah. Avoiding the actual question. Wrote again, more bluntly, asking for confirmation that by "women" they mean biological women in accordance with the Equality Act. That was 10 days ago. A big fat silence.

I do think that we are going to just have to be blunt in our questioning, so there is no wiggle room. Yes or no, does your definition of "woman" concur with that of the Equality Act 2010, that a woman is an adult biological female and only an adult biological female. I'm great with blunt, and I don't mind asking seven times.

And following it with "Because if I enter this women-only single-sex space/ use this women-only single-sex service, and I encounter a biological male, you will be receiving a letter before action from my solicitor. So you might want to think very carefully how you answer my question."

And I'll say it bluntly with a smile on my face. I don't need to be nasty or aggressive. It's nothing personal, just the law, and I am entitled to my rights under the law.

Or something to that effect.

RogueFemale · 28/05/2026 17:02

@SingleSexSpacesInSchools Thinking of waiting a month and asking again via a different email address, saying I'm trans and worried I won't be allowed in the women's changing rooms/showers after the EHRC guidance.

rebax · 28/05/2026 17:00

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 28/05/2026 16:27

I have been trying for a long time to get a written policy out of David Lloyds for about a year. they are still refusing to do so.

Anyone got any suggestions? And What other orgs are refusing to do it?

Is this the next trench we have to fight in? Getting the damned thing written down?

Walk into the men's and see what happens...

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 28/05/2026 17:00

RogueFemale · 28/05/2026 16:59

@SingleSexSpacesInSchools I've been trying to get an answer from a local gym, also a swimming pool. In my enquiry I referred to biological sex/Equality Act, and got immediate word salad replies - "needs of users", "respecting dignity, safety" blah blah. Avoiding the actual question. Wrote again, more bluntly, asking for confirmation that by "women" they mean biological women in accordance with the Equality Act. That was 10 days ago. A big fat silence.

I suppose we trigger them by asking like that but, screw them really

I am now just asking for the policy, any policy in writing

OP posts:
RogueFemale · 28/05/2026 16:59

@SingleSexSpacesInSchools I've been trying to get an answer from a local gym, also a swimming pool. In my enquiry I referred to biological sex/Equality Act, and got immediate word salad replies - "needs of users", "respecting dignity, safety" blah blah. Avoiding the actual question. Wrote again, more bluntly, asking for confirmation that by "women" they mean biological women in accordance with the Equality Act. That was 10 days ago. A big fat silence.