I’m doing some online training at the moment related to labour and birth and whenever it makes reference to the newborn they will say “A baby that is assigned male at birth or a baby that is assigned female at birth.”
For example, “an infant that is born and is assigned male at birth may have more vernex than a baby who is born and assigned female at birth.”
And this is in reference to babies that are less than 5 minutes old!
I’ve heard it and seen it written down about 20 times now and it’s driving me mad!
During the section on labour I kept having to hear phrases like:
When the infant is positioned correctly in the person’s womb….
When the infant is below the parent’s pelvic bone….
The parent’s contractions will intensify as their body prepares to deliver the infant…
When the infant exits the parent’s body….
When the infant is placed on the parent’s chest……
If the parent decides they want their infant to feed at the chest….
The words are MOTHER, WOMAN, SHE, HER and BREAST!
When it all stop?!
Weve been given a list of terms/acronyms that we have to use when writing in the infants notes etc and it actually says we need to refer to the infants as BAMAB or BAFAM for “baby assigned male at birth” or “baby assigned female at birth”.
One pupil asked what they should do if any of the parents objected to their infant being labeled/described with those acronyms and the lecturer actually said we need to continue using the terms and we must educate (her words) the parents as to why it’s important we/they use inclusive terms when talking about their infant.
I honestly couldn’t believe it.
So now we are supposed to tell parents that we won’t refer to their babies as being either male or female and that they shouldn’t be doing that either to ensure they aren’t being discriminatory?!
When will this madness stop?!