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To wonder if men giving birth could actually end the motherhood penalty

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ReginaRegina · 06/09/2023 21:06

Obv we're talking a fair few years from now.

My prediction is that, despite all the talk about male privilege, a lot of women wouldn't actually want to be the main breadwinner. However, it would certainly create more choice in terms of shared parenting.

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Gahhhhereheisagain · 06/09/2023 21:30

The thing is, with surrogacy, if this is what the thread is about, there is not the same impact on the mother/ father as with a woman giving birth biologically.
See Tan France having a kid and then going to a premiere later that week. He hadn't pushed something watermelon sized out of his vag. He hasn't tried to attach a tiny screaming blind thing to an engorged sore nipple over and over again whilst strangers watched and advised.
He hadn't suffered a deluge of blood, double incontenance, huge hormonal tides, epidural side effects, milk not coming through, sleep deprivation or psychosis.

So maybe men really can have it all.

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