I'm all for equal opportunities in insults and unfortunately, the judge clearly obviously hasn't heard many deeply pissed off women in full flow
Tosser is clearly a gender neutral term of address for all drivers, as is anything beginning with Knob.
Ugh, her? Yeah, she's being a Fucking Twat again.
She's being a complete knob about this.
Stop fannying about, you could get a fucking bus through there (of course I am channelling my best Influenced By American TV for context).
Look where you're going, fucking arsehole.
Rachel's being particularly dickish about this today.
One I was rather proud of on holiday was an instantaneous 'C'est sur rouge, CON!', followed by 'Oh, casse-toi, fuckin' knob'ead'. Not entirely certain where in my teenage years I absorbed the knowledge for that (Year 8, I suspect), but it came out of somewhere deep inside my head and in my broadest childhood South London accent. Right classy, me.
And then there are other completely neutral portmanteau.
With some leaps in logic, Twat would, however, appear to be the most appropriate - reverse engineering an acronym covers all bases.