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British Army invites male to talk about his 'lived experience' as a woman

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MenWearOrnaments · 10/08/2023 14:50

The co-chair of the Army Servicewomen's Network tweeted out some photos of a Women in Leadership event yesterday.

Cue many women pointing out the elephant in the room, so to speak, in the last photo of the Lived Experience Panel:

https://twitter.com/ASN_CoChair/status/1689310145770135553

Perhaps a subtle act of protest?

https://twitter.com/ASN_CoChair/status/1689310145770135553

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ParticleLizzicist · 11/08/2023 16:17

southbiscay · 11/08/2023 13:42

I was hoping that Hannah was a secret terf. But switching off replies makes me think not.

Hannah is NOT a secret TERF. If Hannah thinks something will get her promoted or an OBE, that’s what Hannah will do.

There is not much space in the MOD for TERFs. All the space for the transwomen, a little bit for the transmen. Of course, just being in the army makes servicewoman non binary as the clothes are men’s.

e.g. shirt, combat, men’s.

Of course, the big project to make the clothing gender neutral resulted in this label becoming “shirt, combat”. The cut and fit did not change so much.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/08/2023 14:02

I'm sure I read that push come to shove, you'll go from pretending in your chosen gender when no war is on, to being obligated to fight as your natal sex.

You are correct @RealityFan

www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/us-politics/transgender-policy-us-military-draft-b2199772.html

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 11/08/2023 13:52

Surely it’s men who need to sit and listen to someone talk about being a transwoman in the army, not women.

BabyStopCryin · 11/08/2023 13:47

If they’d done a talk on their experience of being trans in the army then that’s something I’d rather miss to be honest, but what does this person know about having periods, pregnancy, sexism, sexual harassment and abuse… anywhere exactly? I’d love to have heard what their ‘experiences ’ are exactly?

LoobiJee · 11/08/2023 13:46

southbiscay · 11/08/2023 13:42

I was hoping that Hannah was a secret terf. But switching off replies makes me think not.

I was surprised by her twitter bio, “mummy, wife, army officer” and briefly wondered whether her spouse’s bio reads “daddy, husband, army officer”. I’d guess not.

southbiscay · 11/08/2023 13:42

I was hoping that Hannah was a secret terf. But switching off replies makes me think not.

readbooksdrinktea · 11/08/2023 13:15

HarridanHarvestingHeldaBeans · 10/08/2023 14:59

I've seen that smug expression before on men who know they are taking the piss but are totally sure of getting away with it. It's enraging.

Sums it up.

RealityFan · 11/08/2023 13:13

PlanetJanette · 11/08/2023 12:52

I'm sure I read that push come to shove, you'll go from pretending in your chosen gender when no war is on, to being obligated to fight as your natal sex.

Maybe only applies to conscription or invasion.

PriOn1 · 11/08/2023 13:00

drspouse · 10/08/2023 16:00

I am sorry to say I snorted at that photo.

Whereas I did a really loud laugh at work when I read Tinsel’s comment about it!

That really is one of those “picture speaks a thousand words” photos.

PlanetJanette · 11/08/2023 12:52

RealityFan · 10/08/2023 15:25

Looking forwards to reading about Ukrainian frontline soldiers and generals who've transed.

What? There aren't any? Or the few that there are have been expected to assume roles as per natal birth?

Quelle suprise.

Ditto US armed forces, despite Uncle Joe having no issues with men IDing as women to access women's sport and prisons and addressing Dylan Mulvaney as a woman, all US military personnel are categorised as, and will fight as, how they were born.

In the real world, let's brew a cuppa and listen to this joker.

That's not correct about the US Military at least.

https://www.army.mil/article/247785/change_to_policy_allows_transgender_soldiers_to_serve_openly

Change to policy allows transgender Soldiers to serve openly

Transgender personnel and individuals with gender dysphoria who can meet the Army's standards for military service can now serve openly.

https://www.army.mil/article/247785/change_to_policy_allows_transgender_soldiers_to_serve_openly

Childrenofthestones · 11/08/2023 12:22

This will be playing on a loop in barracks all over China and Russia 🙄

ArabeIIaScott · 11/08/2023 10:07

Well, crikey. A picture tells us so much.

How do we all feel about manspreading these days, ladies?

Luizaa · 11/08/2023 09:59

If the Russkis can over the channel tomorrow they would be in Whitehall by lunchtime. Incorrect use of pronouns and various micro aggressions would lead to hissy fits, falling out and not fighting the invader.

DrBlackbird · 11/08/2023 09:19

ZeldaFighter · 10/08/2023 16:13

Also they need to "lady" better - don't sit like that wearing a skirt.

Quite striking when you compare their pose to the other panel members sitting with crossed legs. Must have been bloody frustrating for those women to sit quietly and pretend to listen.

OfficerChurlish · 10/08/2023 16:48

We hear constantly that transwomen (occasionally extended to all trans people) as a group have a terribly difficult time, face all kinds of legal and social and logistical obstacles, and are the most marginalized and exploited group. Women as a group are allegedly relatively privileged and should be kind, budge up, move over, and cede all spaces and accommodations in consideration of the far more dire situation of transwomen. SO - why on EARTH would someone who's had significant actual experience of being a transwoman in the Forces - and is now in a position to advocate and possibly drive policy change - talk about the experience of being there as a woman, even if they could? Why not highlight the unique challenges to transwomen? I'd be happy to listen to that, and would probably learn something.

RainyWeekend · 10/08/2023 16:35

Tallisker · 10/08/2023 16:12

This is so offensive and massively insulting to all of us who actually served and got dicked about because we were female. Lived experience my arse 🤬

I know!!!! I'm soooo fucking angry!!

Lumpy jumper was probably one of the nicer descriptions. And this prat is telling their womanly experiences. Ahhhhhh

I genuinely want to scream at that twitter post.

LittleLegsKeepGoing · 10/08/2023 16:34

Ah yes, lived experiences like more or less being forced to take the combined pill and continuously so that you're not menstruating when on exercise or the pretty much constant sexual harassment from senior staff in training barracks (if you didn't agree to their propositions your life was made hell), or pretty much having to leave the military because you've become a parent and the expectation on mother's is insane vs expectation on father's, or the ill fitting kit that's 'unisex'.

Yes I'm sure that W/O Penny has true lived experience as a woman in the military.

loislovesstewie · 10/08/2023 16:32

He has no lived experience as a woman, so I've solved that. I really am going to say something one day.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/08/2023 16:26

It’s not about living how they feel comfortable it’s about trying to take every space and make sure you access wherever you want regardless of anyone else.

Yes, exactly. It's a dominance display.

Anothernamethesamegame · 10/08/2023 16:26

The fact this person is apparently seeking out these type of spaces/events speaks volumes. A need to be seen and validated as a “woman”, a need to shove “yes I am a woman” at people.

It’s not about living how they feel comfortable it’s about trying to take every space and make sure you access wherever you want regardless of anyone else.

Pallisers · 10/08/2023 16:21

Didn't they do the same last year? I seem to remember a Women in the Army thing which featured only a transwoman - it was posted about on here.

ZeldaFighter · 10/08/2023 16:17

Fucking engaging. I bet that person spent their early years in the Army being "one of the lads" and joining in with the bullying and harassment of female colleagues.

But now they "are" one. So come on, darling, how did you manage your periods on a march? How much time off did you have to give birth and did it affect your fitness or career? Did sexual harassment or sexist bullying hold you back?

ZeldaFighter · 10/08/2023 16:13

Also they need to "lady" better - don't sit like that wearing a skirt.

ZeldaFighter · 10/08/2023 16:12

I'm sorry to say I wondered if the person at the end on the left had eaten another lass!!!

Sorry, I'm a ⛱️, I know 😞

Tallisker · 10/08/2023 16:12

This is so offensive and massively insulting to all of us who actually served and got dicked about because we were female. Lived experience my arse 🤬

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