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You are safe with me

186 replies

Justme56 · 09/08/2023 18:49

I saw this on Twitter as David Tennent was wearing one. I’m sure his intention is good but it gave me weird vibes. Can he guarantee that everyone who is wearing one is ‘safe’ to be around? Am I overthinking this?

You are safe with me
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RealityFan · 09/08/2023 19:05

It's yet another deliberate ploy on conflating "acceptance" ie your gender ID is accepted, with "safety" ie your chosen gender will never be in danger from person wearing the badge, because they've accepted you for who you are.

Of course, no thought given to the ramifications of this.

PomegranateOfPersephone · 09/08/2023 19:00

Creepy.

Makes me think of the snake 🐍 in Disney Jungle Book “Trust in meeeeee 🎶”

I should add I don’t find Tennant creepy, just that badge.

Then again I was taught as a child never trust that strangers are who they say they are, always reserve judgement. I think that badge is promoting the opposite and very dangerous philosophy.

Baldieheid · 09/08/2023 18:57

That would make me walk away from him VERY quickly. I read it as a bit "all the better to eat you with, my dear", I'm afraid.

FrancescaContini · 09/08/2023 18:55

Really very creepy

oviraptor21 · 09/08/2023 18:54

I'd run a mile from that.

lady69 · 09/08/2023 18:53

No doubt Jimmy Saville would have DELIGHTED in wearing one of these back in the day, had it existed then.

Redshoeblueshoe · 09/08/2023 18:53

Sounds dodgy AF

HagoftheNorth · 09/08/2023 18:52

I’m with you OP, really creepy vibes.

JanesLittleGirl · 09/08/2023 18:52

That's like Wayne Couzens saying "Trust me, I'm a policeman".

EmpressaurusOfCats · 09/08/2023 18:52

No, you’re not overthinking it. I’m sure Tennant means well but it’s creepy and I’d question the motives of anyone who wore one around kids.

TeenDivided · 09/08/2023 18:51

That kind of 'safe' is really 'I won't challenge your views ever' isn't it?