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Oh Trinny …

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Furmitycorner798 · 08/08/2023 01:34

Have just watched the latest episode of her Takeover show on You Tube…

…I’m very disappointed…

… and to think I used to be a fan.😧

I’m sure she has done it to appear cool and relevant but if her target market for Trinny London is women of a certain age, then I think this might have the opposite effect. I for one am certainly reconsidering buying her products now.

I’m deliberately not commenting on the individual concerned who seemed a nice enough person, but speaking very generally, are we meant to applaud Trinny for affirming and enabling people’s delusions?

She did do a little piece to camera at the end acknowledging that some people watching the video “may not be understanding”.

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RealityFan · 08/08/2023 14:53

agent765 · 08/08/2023 14:48

This is how I feel, too.

I've never been a fan of any of Trinny's makeovers. Like Gok, she dresses people to a formula rather than in something that suits them.

She had a hell of a job with this one, though, and failed as miserably as expected tbh. Sometimes being kind just isn't.

The refusal to address reality is all around. From Trinny desperate to make a point, to all the women in that show just saying nothing relevant, to two highly effeminate gays having no boundaries, now women and men conspiring for the most misogynistic of end results.

Fail!

25sheets · 08/08/2023 14:52

I was looking to see that "Skyler" used the correct changing room for himself. They didn't show that.

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agent765 · 08/08/2023 14:48

Menopausehaver · 08/08/2023 09:32

We’ll still looked like a bloke in a dress to me, which is fine where what you want etc, but stay out of women’s spaces, sport’s prisons and shortlists etc

This is how I feel, too.

I've never been a fan of any of Trinny's makeovers. Like Gok, she dresses people to a formula rather than in something that suits them.

She had a hell of a job with this one, though, and failed as miserably as expected tbh. Sometimes being kind just isn't.

25sheets · 08/08/2023 14:48

Farahpascalmoges · 08/08/2023 09:13

None of them "pass". It's all so sick. We are not blind. Men are not women and never can be. I'm tired of shit like this being pushed in the mainstream.

Exactly this. I don't want any part in this delusion.

ihavespoken · 08/08/2023 14:31

RealityFan · 08/08/2023 14:27

Skyler is trans. And so is the sibling. And on the TV. Fawned over by a middle class woman influencer.

I mean, how incredibly unpredictable this all is. No way could I have ever guessed this could be a thing on reality TV.

In fact, what's wackiest of all is calling any of this reality TV. Pretty much the opposite, really.

So Trinny, you keep up with the "I'm up with girl power", and Skyler and sis, you act all aggrieved when this makes this all fine for other men to be in changing rooms not in yours and Trinnys exalted class surroundings, but in Primark etc where real girls and women are forced to swallow this groupthink.

In defence of Primark I was in there on Saturday and needed to find the changing rooms - was told very clearly by the assistant "we have a woman only one on the first floor and an any gender one on the ground floor". and there was a big sign in the woman-only one stating this too.

But I agree with your general point Smile

RealityFan · 08/08/2023 14:27

rabbitwoman · 08/08/2023 07:41

This is a great example of how the Streisand effect has impacted on my perception of trans women.....

Maybe six or seven years ago I would probably have thought this was lovely and sweet. I would have been pleased for the trans woman, who did look very nice in the last reveal - if still obviously a man.....

If I knew this individual, I would probably have quietly acquiesced to sharing a same sex space with her - a loo at work or in the pub, a changing room, included her on 'girls nights outs' and hen do, etc.... I would not have felt entirely comfortable doing so, but I would have done so out of politeness and compassion.

But I know too much now to ever go back. If the trans community hadn't pushed for more and more, hadn't insisted on taking so much away from women, then I would never have educated myself about what actually makes a man a trans woman and what they actually want.

I bet thousands of trans women wish we could just go back to the days when everyone thought they had a female brain trapped in a male body, and were treated accordingly.....

Skyler is trans. And so is the sibling. And on the TV. Fawned over by a middle class woman influencer.

I mean, how incredibly unpredictable this all is. No way could I have ever guessed this could be a thing on reality TV.

In fact, what's wackiest of all is calling any of this reality TV. Pretty much the opposite, really.

So Trinny, you keep up with the "I'm up with girl power", and Skyler and sis, you act all aggrieved when this makes this all fine for other men to be in changing rooms not in yours and Trinnys exalted class surroundings, but in Primark etc where real girls and women are forced to swallow this groupthink.

inamarina · 08/08/2023 14:24

rabbitwoman · 08/08/2023 07:41

This is a great example of how the Streisand effect has impacted on my perception of trans women.....

Maybe six or seven years ago I would probably have thought this was lovely and sweet. I would have been pleased for the trans woman, who did look very nice in the last reveal - if still obviously a man.....

If I knew this individual, I would probably have quietly acquiesced to sharing a same sex space with her - a loo at work or in the pub, a changing room, included her on 'girls nights outs' and hen do, etc.... I would not have felt entirely comfortable doing so, but I would have done so out of politeness and compassion.

But I know too much now to ever go back. If the trans community hadn't pushed for more and more, hadn't insisted on taking so much away from women, then I would never have educated myself about what actually makes a man a trans woman and what they actually want.

I bet thousands of trans women wish we could just go back to the days when everyone thought they had a female brain trapped in a male body, and were treated accordingly.....

That’s exactly how I feel too. Didn’t really see any issues with the whole thing till J.K. Rowling was all of the sudden branded a ‘transphobe’.

PTSDBarbiegirl · 08/08/2023 14:20

cosmumsaysso · 08/08/2023 11:46

Trinny trying to be genuinely enthusiastic about the whole charade and failing. He's a delicate gay man! Wearing a frock and shaving his Adams apple ain't gonna solve his problems.

The hilarious reveal at the end, he looked like a trans Trinny!🤣. You cldnt miss the resemblance!🤣🤣🤣
Agree with previous comment. He needs a dose of the real world. It was all a bit sad and pathetic.

"He's a delicate gay man!"
JFC this comment does not reflect well on you.

highame · 08/08/2023 14:15

Allthegoodnamesarechosen 😂

MavisMcMinty · 08/08/2023 14:06

I really loved Trinny’s dress in this episode.

Lottapianos · 08/08/2023 12:47

'Didn't Trinny immediately take up with that man who tried to choke Nigella Lawson in a restaurant? I lost all respect for her then.'

Same. I find her a very prickly and strange personality, or her public persona anyway. She can be funny, and I do think that she often looks amazing, but there's way too much of what I would call aggressive positivity for my liking. I won't be wasting my time watching this, it sounds like a cringe fest

WarriorN · 08/08/2023 12:46

I would imagine water retention does the opposite.

Scousemousey · 08/08/2023 12:45

I may have misheard but did Skyler say near the start that a trans woman's feet had got smaller on hrt? How is that possible?
Sadly after all the efforts, he still couldn't pass, even in a bad light. 🙁

Charlize43 · 08/08/2023 12:39

Didn't Trinny immediately take up with that man who tried to choke Nigella Lawson in a restaurant? I lost all respect for her then.

WarriorN · 08/08/2023 12:25

What ever your personality, there's a type of outdoor activity (or indoor) you can do. I love body boarding and wish I hadn't felt like it wasn't as impressive as actual surfing for a few years, because quite frankly I can catch way more waves than a surfer.

I used to love riding but that's too £££ for me right now!

DyslexicPoster · 08/08/2023 12:21

I'd have to agree with the widow Tawnkey comment. It brings to mind a panto dame or overly sexual look / imagine in my head. I'm not sure I'd buy from a range marketed like that. Even taking a sequined bag makes me feel like drag queen some days now, and I love sparkles.

ValerieDoonican · 08/08/2023 12:18

You may be on to something. Competence (and in a team sport, shared objectives and achievements) could be a useful corrective to the mad inward-lookingness of it all.

Though maybe not the me-sculpting classes that I suspect Trinny may be keen on....

Lottapianos · 08/08/2023 12:11

'I'm starting to think it's sport. Any sport. Anythingthat gets you moving and outside. (But not invading women's spaces obviously.)'

As a fairly late convert to exercise, I think you have a very good point. Exercise gets you out of your own head, and the emphasis is on what your body can do, and how you can challenge it to do a bit more. It's a great antidote to anxiety about what you look like

WarriorN · 08/08/2023 12:07

Apart from boosting mental health, it's all going to help your muscles and bones.

WarriorN · 08/08/2023 12:06

Golf, gold detectoring.

WarriorN · 08/08/2023 12:05

Surely there has to be a better way to relieve gender dysphoria than this?

I'm starting to think it's sport. Any sport. Anything that gets you moving and outside. (But not invading women's spaces obviously.)

Dog walking, climbing, hiking, riding, team sports, tai chi, judo, trampolining.
Ritchie's (who detransed and is suing the local nhs) gone for archery.

Furtivefig · 08/08/2023 12:02

Melroses · 08/08/2023 01:46

Wasn't she with Nigella's ex (the one photographed grabbing her by the throat in a restaurant)? Not sure about her critical thinking skills tbh, nor the obsession with v necklines.

Yeah so much for sisterhood! I lost all respect when she got together with Saatchi.

ValerieDoonican · 08/08/2023 11:59

Oh my goodness that made me so uncomfortable.

For one thing it reminded me how much I grew to dislike Trinny and Susannah back in the day with their ridiculous rules and offensive bossiness.

But I felt so sorry for poor Skyler. Can they really only be comfortable after undergoing painful and dangerous surgery including on their throat (owww!), taking drugs that do who knows what, and dressing like a Primark red carpet every day? And as pps point out, will they be comfortable even then? The thing about being an actual woman is that you can wear jeans and a T-shirt and be yourself. Skyler seems headed for a lifetime of calibration and second guessing their appearance 100 times a day.

Surely there has to be a better way to relieve gender dysphoria than this?

(Weirdly it also kind of highlighted to me why I kind of hate all makeover shows (clothes, homes, gardens, the lot) Just fuck off with your lady/lord bountiful "genius". ) But this one had me cringing so hard my skin was crawling.

cosmumsaysso · 08/08/2023 11:46

Trinny trying to be genuinely enthusiastic about the whole charade and failing. He's a delicate gay man! Wearing a frock and shaving his Adams apple ain't gonna solve his problems.

The hilarious reveal at the end, he looked like a trans Trinny!🤣. You cldnt miss the resemblance!🤣🤣🤣
Agree with previous comment. He needs a dose of the real world. It was all a bit sad and pathetic.

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