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Looks like Italy have banned surrogacy

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ColinRobinsonsFart · 27/07/2023 00:25

twitter.com/surrogconcern/status/1684294419300732931?s=46&t=_Rfk59cXnQlTYarlcFuu0w

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NotBadConsidering · 27/07/2023 11:07

Jomijo · 27/07/2023 09:24

This law has everything to do with the rest of the homophobe policies of the current government. Surrogacy was already illegal in Italy, this law extends the ban to include surrogacy done abroad. It disproportionately affects lgbt families who, unlike heterosexual couples, are obviously unable to 'hide' the fact of having sought surrogacy. You may agree or disagree with surrogacy, but to think that this particular law, passed under this particular government and this particular time is unrelated to an increasingly hostile environment for gay and lesbian parents and their children (!) is extremely shortsighted. This is not about 'protecting women' (whatever that means), but about protecting this rightwing government's idea of what a family should look like.
Greetings from Italy from a very worried lesbian mum

LGBT families shouldn’t be able to buy a baby from a poor European woman anymore than non-LGBT families. HTH.

hangonsnoopy · 27/07/2023 10:58

This is great news. I hope other countries clamp down on the trafficking of women and children through surrogacy too.

WhatNoRaisins · 27/07/2023 10:58

It's possible to see something like this as good in isolation even if we don't agree with every part of the bigger picture.

I also agree that birth certificates need to be simple facts rather than what people wish.

LemonLymanDotCom · 27/07/2023 10:47

@turbonerd And Meloni’s Fratelli d'Italia party has a direct lineage back to Mussolini’s fascism. The man may be dead but the spirit is alive and well in the current Italian government.

ThoseDays · 27/07/2023 10:39

This is a good thing. I also agree that a birth certificate should be a statement of fact.

I hope surrogacy and egg/sperm donors are banned. It’s never about the children.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 27/07/2023 10:35

Very good news to see a government calling a halt to the trade in babies.

Hoppinggreen · 27/07/2023 10:25

Good news

teawamutu · 27/07/2023 10:24

Fizzology · 27/07/2023 09:28

Meloni (Italian pm) is a homophobic bigot. She's setting gay rights back by decades. I can't stand the sight of her.

But banning surrogacy is the right thing to do. It isn't just banned for gay couples (though that was clearly Meloni's target), it's banned for everyone. Domestically and internationally. Every country should do this.

The rest of it... the Italian government hate gay people. It's awful.

This. I'm delighted that selling babies and exploiting poor women is banned. Otherwise the Italian government can get in the bin.

Nousernamesleftatall · 27/07/2023 10:18

navithefairy · 27/07/2023 05:59

This is a government that has also prohibited registering of children of same sex parents. Horrific.

I don't necessarily agree with the blanket ban on surrogacy but can almost understand it. This, however, is appalling.

The birth cert should be a statement of fact.

turbonerd · 27/07/2023 10:17

Also, glad they have outlawed International surrogacy.

turbonerd · 27/07/2023 10:16

LemonLymanDotCom · 27/07/2023 09:09

@JanesLittleGirl yeah, that might be a touch of hyperbole 😂

@NotBadConsidering I don’t think it’s mutually exclusive, but tell me what else Mussolini was renowned for (outside of being a murderous facist dictator)

@ErrolTheDragon Where do you draw the line at cheering on fascists? Will it only be when they come for you?

But Mussolini is not the General Supreme on Italy now. In fact, I think he might be dead.

Clymene · 27/07/2023 10:15

Sorry I got that wrong @GrumpyPanda. So the new law will imprison international baby traffickers. Not got a problem with that.

Fizzology · 27/07/2023 10:07

GrumpyPanda · 27/07/2023 09:41

No, it doesn't bring them into line. I seriously doubt there's any other European country that threatens people with jail terms for hiring a surrogate abroad! Typically they'll a) not allow it in-country and b) not recognise it for purposes of birth registration/citizenship (unless the father-to-be is also the biological father.)

I agree. But it makes much more sense to ban international surrogacy first, if you're truly against it. Domestic surrogacy could be tightly regulated and controlled, if a country wanted to do so (I would still be in favour of a domestic ban). Otherwise you are saying to people - that's a dangerous and unethical practice. You're welcome to do it, but go use some other country's poor women and burden their health services.

GrumpyPanda · 27/07/2023 09:41

Clymene · 27/07/2023 06:25

We're not talking about that, we're talking about surrogacy.

This is excellent news for women and children and brings Italy into line with most of the rest of Europe.

No, it doesn't bring them into line. I seriously doubt there's any other European country that threatens people with jail terms for hiring a surrogate abroad! Typically they'll a) not allow it in-country and b) not recognise it for purposes of birth registration/citizenship (unless the father-to-be is also the biological father.)

Fizzology · 27/07/2023 09:28

Meloni (Italian pm) is a homophobic bigot. She's setting gay rights back by decades. I can't stand the sight of her.

But banning surrogacy is the right thing to do. It isn't just banned for gay couples (though that was clearly Meloni's target), it's banned for everyone. Domestically and internationally. Every country should do this.

The rest of it... the Italian government hate gay people. It's awful.

ErrolTheDragon · 27/07/2023 09:27

Surrogacy was already illegal in Italy, this law extends the ban to include surrogacy done abroad.

So are you in favour of protecting rich women more than poor ones?

AgathaSpencerGregson · 27/07/2023 09:26

LemonLymanDotCom · 27/07/2023 08:48

Oh we’re back in the times of ‘Hurrah for the Blackshirts’ again?
Oh goody!

🙄

Funny how no one ever makes this point to those who want to rejoin the EU (one of the earliest and most vociferous supporters of a united Europe was of course Oswald Mosley)

Pixiedust1234 · 27/07/2023 09:26

Creating a baby for the specific purpose of gestating it in another women and handing that baby over like a product (even to a loved friend or family member) is wrong because this is a child. Not to be commoditised in any way.

Perfectly and very clearly put, thank you. I have always felt uncomfortable with surrogacy and couldn't put my finger on why.

ErrolTheDragon · 27/07/2023 09:26

don’t understand how you can know that and cheer ‘hurrah for the blackshirts, cos they’re getting surrogacy right’.

That's why no one is doing that. The tweet at the top of the thread was, afaik, cheering on a radfem group who'd campaigned against surrogacy.

Now, can you make a coherent defence of surrogacy? Or are you cheering that on?

AndTheSurveySays · 27/07/2023 09:25

but not wanting to support fascism is often a great starting point

Is it fascism to believe human beings should not be bought or sold?

Are you really comfortably aligning yourself with slave owners of the past?

Jomijo · 27/07/2023 09:24

Clymene · 27/07/2023 06:25

We're not talking about that, we're talking about surrogacy.

This is excellent news for women and children and brings Italy into line with most of the rest of Europe.

This law has everything to do with the rest of the homophobe policies of the current government. Surrogacy was already illegal in Italy, this law extends the ban to include surrogacy done abroad. It disproportionately affects lgbt families who, unlike heterosexual couples, are obviously unable to 'hide' the fact of having sought surrogacy. You may agree or disagree with surrogacy, but to think that this particular law, passed under this particular government and this particular time is unrelated to an increasingly hostile environment for gay and lesbian parents and their children (!) is extremely shortsighted. This is not about 'protecting women' (whatever that means), but about protecting this rightwing government's idea of what a family should look like.
Greetings from Italy from a very worried lesbian mum

Beowulfa · 27/07/2023 09:24

Tell me what else Mussolini was renowned for

Invaded Abyssinia (now Ethiopia).

If exploiting the resources of poor countries, as under European colonialism, was not ok, why is it ok for rich Western couples to exploit the women of poor countries today?

LemonLymanDotCom · 27/07/2023 09:21

Helleofabore · 27/07/2023 09:05

How do you get through life with such polarised and absolutist thinking? You must struggle so much. Are you now so anxious that you cannot support any organisation or person in the world, just in case they don’t fully live up to the purity you demand in all aspects of life?

How in the world is saying ‘this is good news, now they need to fix other things’, in anyway worthy of vilification? Except if you support surrogacy maybe….

Actually, I’m usually a huge fan of nuance and shades of grey, but not wanting to support fascism is often a great starting point.

And you are aware that Fratelli d'Italia ARE real life fascists? With a history tracing them back to the Italian neo facist movement starting in 1945?

I don’t understand how you can know that and cheer ‘hurrah for the blackshirts, cos they’re getting surrogacy right’. I genuinely don’t.

Also a political party’s central ideological core isn’t just an ‘other thing’ to be ‘fixed’. You can’t just tweak fascism. However, you can make it more palatable to the masses with good PR.

ErrolTheDragon · 27/07/2023 09:19

Where do you draw the line at cheering on fascists? Will it only be when they come for you?

I'm doing no such thing. Some of their policies (ivf only for heterosexual couples, so excluding lesbians etc) are entirely wrong.
How are you with cheering on people who want to commoditise babies and exploit women in poorer countries?

AutumnCrow · 27/07/2023 09:19

tell me what else Mussolini was renowned for

A poster on the ‘Aliens???’ thread says he found an alien spacecraft and covered it up, @LemonLymanDotCom.

HTH with your intellectual debate.