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Entitled male refused access to female changing area (despite wearing skirt)

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ACatCalledPushka · 23/07/2023 22:00

Well done to the hotel staff. ‘trans ‘woman’ given key to the unisex changing room instead of the female changing room ‘trans woman’ not happy.

https://twitter.com/anneicoombes/status/1683090524641566721?s=46&t=5tHsrgY5T97exTqeFD4LWg

https://twitter.com/anneicoombes/status/1683090524641566721?s=46&t=5tHsrgY5T97exTqeFD4LWg

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IcakethereforeIam · 31/07/2023 18:19

Skid. Leaving a mark!

MavisMcMinty · 31/07/2023 18:17

mrshoho · 31/07/2023 18:08

I'm trying to imagine Anne and wondering how she got from one end of the changing room to the other 🤔Tiptoe? Glide? March? Skip? So many possibilities

Wielding a truncheon yelling “Respect my authoritah”?

(For any South Park fans.)

toomanytrees · 31/07/2023 18:17

To me, these actions suggest a very deliberate long term campaign with milestones and tactics. It begins with small transgressions and when no push back is experienced, escalation. All of this is done with a cloak (disguise) of ever so humble reasonableness and harmlessness which both disarms objectors and provides some plausible deniability. The confusion over the law and DEI provide cover. This is not a delusion. People like this exhibit dark triad personality traits. They need a firm "no" in response.

viques · 31/07/2023 18:13

SerafinasGoose · 31/07/2023 16:50

And yet again, history (the right side) shows how the ones pushing hardest for unfettered access to women's and girls' spaces are the ones who have the least business anywhere near them.

QED.

To be fair you could sort of imagine a situation where someone interested in swimming typed “breast” and then “ stroke” into a search engine and accidentally found themselves on a site about breastfeeding and masturbation.

No?

mrshoho · 31/07/2023 18:10

My guess is very slowly 🐌

mrshoho · 31/07/2023 18:08

I'm trying to imagine Anne and wondering how she got from one end of the changing room to the other 🤔Tiptoe? Glide? March? Skip? So many possibilities

DeanElderberry · 31/07/2023 18:08

Wandering through is a bit over-euphemistic though, it suggests absent-minded, accidental presence. It was clearly quite deliberate walking through a place Anne did not need to walk through for some clear motive of Anne's own.

PriamFarrl · 31/07/2023 18:08

Any decent man wouldn’t entertain walking through a changing room being used by women and girls.

Hepwo · 31/07/2023 18:05

I'm going to have to take issue with Datun saying swan in and swan out.

It's an insult to swans.

Datun · 31/07/2023 18:00

It's almost ironic how unfair it must feel when the subtleties of a minor language tweak are used in a way that works against you.

😆

Datun · 31/07/2023 17:59

mrshoho · 31/07/2023 17:52

RMW grasping at straws if all RMW can complain about is the use of the word 'wandering'. If only women's worries were as insignificant as Robin's.

Yes, lol. It's the description of the man walking into the teenage changing room that's the problem 🤣

Boiledbeetle · 31/07/2023 17:57

MavisMcMinty · 31/07/2023 17:53

Sews lips shut.

😁

Datun · 31/07/2023 17:56

Hepwo · 31/07/2023 17:33

https://twitter.com/moira_robin/status/1685744318198501376

What is White like? Having an argument over the use of wandering around versus cut through.

I can't wait to hear that Anne being on the, er, 'milf milking masturbation' is just them demonstrating an interest in the benefits of dairy products.

BonfireLady · 31/07/2023 17:55

Boiledbeetle · 31/07/2023 17:36

Sits on hands.

Yes, it's certainly an interesting fight to pick.
To be fair to Robin, wandering around does have different connotations. However, the headline referred to "wandering through". And yes, the newspaper talked about stopping officials (of any sex) walking through. However the paper also went on to say that no separate facility was needed because Anne wasn't getting changed. By implication this means that Anne would have needed to be separated from the girls if that were the case.

Either way, Robin is picking an odd fight around the semantics of words. The net effect will simply be to perpetuate the story for longer and raise its profile higher.

It's almost ironic how unfair it must feel when the subtleties of a minor language tweak are used in a way that works against you.

Version12 · 31/07/2023 17:53

In women's football, if a player is under-18 she has a different changing room to the rest of the team (most of whom will be in their 20s), because of safeguarding. If the manager is male, he won't be allowed into the changing rooms to do his team talk. It does beggar belief that this person felt it was appropriate to walk through a changing room of girls getting changed for swimming. Just so horrible. But of course, that's part of the fun, isn't it?

MavisMcMinty · 31/07/2023 17:53

Boiledbeetle · 31/07/2023 17:36

Sits on hands.

Sews lips shut.

mrshoho · 31/07/2023 17:52

Hepwo · 31/07/2023 17:33

https://twitter.com/moira_robin/status/1685744318198501376

What is White like? Having an argument over the use of wandering around versus cut through.

RMW grasping at straws if all RMW can complain about is the use of the word 'wandering'. If only women's worries were as insignificant as Robin's.

PriamFarrl · 31/07/2023 17:48

I do wonder if usually the content AC puts on line either only gets positive comments from within the community, or gets ignored (there were a lot of tweets with no traction at all). Therefore maybe that equates in some people's minds to people not actively disagreeing with AC 's behaviour being equal to a green light to carry on.

Its like no one commenting on someone being trans, because it doesn’t need commenting on, and people assuming that it means they have passed.

ApocalipstickNow · 31/07/2023 17:39

GailBlancheViola · 31/07/2023 16:29

How very unusual Motorina.... And again, we seem to have NO posters on this thread who are supporting this male individual. Where have they all gone?

It is almost like this is just another of the quickly mounting examples of how very male behaviour remains with these male individuals who have trans identities..... Remarkable once you remove the blinkers of 'be kind' that you see things all too clearly that even the most ardent supporters cannot even summon a shaming post for discussing it....

Yes were are those who claim to be happy to use any space with a TW, they just want to pee/get changed, they are so vulnerable and oppressed, they go through so much, they are no threat, stop being horrible bigots posters? Don't see them for dust on any thread that evidences anything detrimental to their sacred caste.

Maybe Merlin and pals are all on jolly holidays together and can’t access the internet 😂

Boiledbeetle · 31/07/2023 17:36

Hepwo · 31/07/2023 17:33

https://twitter.com/moira_robin/status/1685744318198501376

What is White like? Having an argument over the use of wandering around versus cut through.

Sits on hands.

Datun · 31/07/2023 17:33

Chersfrozenface · 31/07/2023 15:55

Isn't this because they live in a sex-positive, no-boundaries, Queer Theory bubble so don't see how any of their proclivities could be in any way wrong and don't think for a moment that there is any need to be quiet about them?

Yes, I'm not sure that's what Anne would call it 😆. but would still be thoroughly enjoying the entire judgement free 'safe space'.

That's until, of course, they got on their high bloody horse and acted outraged because they couldn't swan in and out of the teen girls' changing room.

it really does highlight the entitlement. How arrogant do you have to be to think that anyone would find that the slightest bit acceptable!!

I honestly think that some of these people's brains have literally been addled.

no normal thinking person would imagine that this is acceptable behaviour.

Hepwo · 31/07/2023 17:33

https://twitter.com/moira_robin/status/1685744318198501376

What is White like? Having an argument over the use of wandering around versus cut through.

https://twitter.com/moira_robin/status/1685744318198501376

SerafinasGoose · 31/07/2023 17:06

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 31/07/2023 16:03

This is a bit like the Farage/Nat West thing, isn't it? Anne and Nat West think that they are in the right, they can do what they like and everyone will meekly accept it. Except they don't and it snowballs completely out of their control and just gets bigger and bigger. Talk about the law of unintended consequences.

Delicious, isn't it?

Those grenades this bullying, misogynisitc movement keeps lobbing at women and girls are finally starting to go off in the faces of the throwers instead.

Makes a change from the past decade of hitting precisely their intended targets.

Not ashamed in the slightest to be revelling in schadenfraude.

BonfireLady · 31/07/2023 16:53

DerekFaker · 31/07/2023 14:16

From further down in that tweet...

I'm a newbie to Twitter (as of this morning) so I have no idea if I'm mistaken or what I could do about it if I'm not... But there is a glaringly obvious omission here: why isn't someone linking in Sharron Davies?

She had already commented on the hotel story before this news broke. I'm sure she'd have plenty to say on the British Swimming Championships/Reading Swim Club changing room issue.

#supportMyra

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