A poster once mentioned that she has protections written into the ECHP for her autistic daughter, who likes short hair and comfortable clothes for sensory reasons, that no teacher or health care person is to approach her with any hint/suggestion of the idea she is transgender because of this.
Hi @ScrollingLeaves that was me 😊
I'm reading this thread with great interest. Lots of really good analysis from multiple angles. I really hope Gillian Keegan has stumbled upon it 🤞🤞
We use the safeguarding wording that got put in the EHCP in all settings with my daughter. The document itself only covers school, so our offline copy of that section is how we engage elsewhere e.g. health appointments, clubs.
It is almost impossible to express how difficult it is to keep bias away from my daughter. Out of a sense of kindness and inclusivity (and presumably in part to show how modern they are), so many adults on hearing the "gender neutral sounding" (nick)name that she uses to introduce herself and seeing her short hair automatically jump to the question "What are your pronouns?".
This question is problematic. It is a signpost towards a social transition approach because it's really saying "I can see you're female, but are you happy with that? Would you prefer me to think of you differently?". It's step 1 on the ladder of affirmation.