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Labour canvasser today

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SirSamVimesCityWatch · 15/07/2023 10:59

I'm in one the constituencies with a by-election coming up.

Just had a labour canvasser (woman, mid/late fifties) knock to ask if I was voting. I said yes I would be.

She asked if I knew who I was voting for. I asked if she knew what a woman was. I told her I was a single issue voter and that was the only issue that was going to decide how I voted.

Her response: "I believe a woman is anyone who believes themself to be a woman".

I told her in that case I have nothing else to say to her, and closed the door.

I would have loved to have actually put some of the issues to her (rapists in prisons, assaults in mixed sex spaces, including schools, destruction of women's sports etc) but my heart was already racing and I knew it would be like talking to a brick wall anyway.

But anyway - at least that's a clear pile in the eye for the whole 'it doesn't come up on the doorstep' nonsense.

So, I'm either voting Tory or SDP.

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ArabeIIaScott · 20/07/2023 10:40

Scottish Labour's performance in the GRR debate was risible. They kept repeating the assertion that they would cover all the issues raised by women with extra clauses (disallowing rapists from accessing a GRC, for example).

And looked a bit shell shocked when every single one of their clauses was struck down and thrown out.

This makes me quite concerned that they think they are somehow able to 'balance' the rights of women (occasional sop by referring to 'safe spaces') with those of men who want to be women. And will push through something like Self ID in the same clueless way they did in Scotland, and watch helplessly when every single safeguard falls. Just as women have been telling them it would. But they won't listen.

RebelliousCow · 20/07/2023 10:36

SunnyEgg · 20/07/2023 10:29

This is concerning

“it’s time for tougher hate crime laws so every LGBT+ crime is treated as an aggravated offence.”

Does this include saying a male is male?

This is dystopian stuff if so

I honestly don't think he's thought everything through, or even has a grasp of the issue and its complexities at all. The Labour ledership group are still meeting with Stonewall, and now have Ian Anderson on the backbencches too.

They are repeating the things that Stonewall tells them to - verbatim as far as can see.

The Labour party in Scotland backed reform of the GRA - in all its ill thought through mess.

ArabeIIaScott · 20/07/2023 10:35

Starmer attempting to keep one foot on the genderist train as it gathers speed.

Wallace And Gromit Help GIF by Aardman Animations
BaronMunchausen · 20/07/2023 10:32

TooBigForMyBoots · 20/07/2023 09:19

Yes dear, women need to Vote Tory for Perpetuity if they really are feminists.😆

I don't need convincing to not vote Tory (never have, never will) - but I do need convincing on how Labour will be different from the Tories on economic policy. Or on anything beyond identity politics.

It's a genuine question. As far as I can gather, their economic policy is the same if not worse; and they have a bloody track record when it comes to bombing other countries.

SunnyEgg · 20/07/2023 10:29

This is concerning

“it’s time for tougher hate crime laws so every LGBT+ crime is treated as an aggravated offence.”

Does this include saying a male is male?

This is dystopian stuff if so

RebelliousCow · 20/07/2023 10:18

OldCrone · 20/07/2023 10:16

I'm just a bit confused about how you could go even further than self ID. Did he expand on that?

Good question. What does he mean by " not far enough". I suspect he is simply repeating lines from Stonewall - who would like for the category of 'Gender re-assignemnt' to be replaced with 'Gender identity' - in line with Self ID. I don't think he knows what he is talking about.

https://www.christian.org.uk/news/labour-leader-gender-recognition-law-does-not-go-far-enough/

Labour leader: ‘Gender recognition law does not go far enough’

Sir Keir Starmer has said that people in the UK should be able to change sex by ‘self-identification’.

https://www.christian.org.uk/news/labour-leader-gender-recognition-law-does-not-go-far-enough

OldCrone · 20/07/2023 10:16

RebelliousCow · 20/07/2023 09:43

I've seen him say this on at least one TV interview - cannot remember which ones...maybe 'Laura Kuennsberg' was one of them?

I'm just a bit confused about how you could go even further than self ID. Did he expand on that?

RebelliousCow · 20/07/2023 09:43

OldCrone · 20/07/2023 09:22

Can you post a link of where Starmer said this? Google isn't helping me. I can only find him saying that the current GRA doesn't go far enough and supporting the Scottish GRA reform bill.

I've seen him say this on at least one TV interview - cannot remember which ones...maybe 'Laura Kuennsberg' was one of them?

Floisme · 20/07/2023 09:40

I always find it interesting how it's acceptable to care about things that disproportionately affect women such as childcare and social care and low income issues (and I agree these are likely to hit women harder), and yet caring about an issue that unapologetically centres women is viewed as a side issue. I think it's very telling.

Ourladycheesusedatum · 20/07/2023 09:39

calimali · 20/07/2023 08:11

Not being able to feed your children or put a safe roof over their head due to years of benefit squeezes and cuts to the social services that would have been able to support you is the reality faced by many women. I am sure they would place those things as having more meaning than anthing else.

Where are the examples of practical things the Tories have done to support women?

You go vote the way you choose.

We shall vote how we see fit.

I realise some women don't get it yet.
But if you cannot identify a woman, you cannot help her. It is a basic idea, but true.

SunnyEgg · 20/07/2023 09:27

AgathaSpencerGregson · 20/07/2023 09:21

I don’t think anyone’s saying this? They are making a judgement based on how things are currently, as sensible people tend to do.

I think this poster just posts unsubstantiated stuff tbh

See Mordaunt would be leader last time

OldCrone · 20/07/2023 09:22

RebelliousCow · 16/07/2023 16:54

But he has said what he thinks; that Self Id "doesn't go far enough". He's said it so many times when will people start to believe it?

Personally, I think it is one of the only manifesto pledges he hasn't broken and that is because it is keeping some of his more Left wing supporters on board.

Can you post a link of where Starmer said this? Google isn't helping me. I can only find him saying that the current GRA doesn't go far enough and supporting the Scottish GRA reform bill.

SunnyEgg · 20/07/2023 09:22

😂 and an emoji at how crap it will be.

Good luck it’ll be your lot then.

AgathaSpencerGregson · 20/07/2023 09:21

TooBigForMyBoots · 20/07/2023 09:19

Yes dear, women need to Vote Tory for Perpetuity if they really are feminists.😆

I don’t think anyone’s saying this? They are making a judgement based on how things are currently, as sensible people tend to do.

SunnyEgg · 20/07/2023 09:21

TooBigForMyBoots · 20/07/2023 09:19

Yes dear, women need to Vote Tory for Perpetuity if they really are feminists.😆

I look forward to your 😆 when Labour come in calling you a dinosaur.

Enjoy.

TooBigForMyBoots · 20/07/2023 09:19

SunnyEgg · 20/07/2023 07:21

Why would any feminist want the alternative to win?

Yes dear, women need to Vote Tory for Perpetuity if they really are feminists.😆

SunnyEgg · 20/07/2023 09:08

calimali · 20/07/2023 08:11

Not being able to feed your children or put a safe roof over their head due to years of benefit squeezes and cuts to the social services that would have been able to support you is the reality faced by many women. I am sure they would place those things as having more meaning than anthing else.

Where are the examples of practical things the Tories have done to support women?

Where are the examples of practical things the Tories have done to support women?

I posted this already but 30 free hours and SEISS both were very good and meant I could work and get support when required

And the £900 plus direct cash and benefit uplift not for me but others

RealityFan · 20/07/2023 09:06

LoobiJee · 20/07/2023 09:01

Where are the examples of practical things the Tories have done to support women?

Depends whether you are talking about women as individuals or women as a class. If it’s individuals then Liz Truss will be receiving £100k a year as a former prime minister. Same for May.

Yep, the Tory party sure is a meritocracy, lol.

LoobiJee · 20/07/2023 09:01

Where are the examples of practical things the Tories have done to support women?

Depends whether you are talking about women as individuals or women as a class. If it’s individuals then Liz Truss will be receiving £100k a year as a former prime minister. Same for May.

calimali · 20/07/2023 08:11

Not being able to feed your children or put a safe roof over their head due to years of benefit squeezes and cuts to the social services that would have been able to support you is the reality faced by many women. I am sure they would place those things as having more meaning than anthing else.

Where are the examples of practical things the Tories have done to support women?

Floisme · 20/07/2023 08:03

Women's rights start with recognising women as a sex. If you can't do that then everything that follows becomes meaningless, including the idea of 'safe single spaces'.

Hepwo · 20/07/2023 08:03

I don't find these "Tories hate women" and "Tories don't support women's rights" statements particularly convincing. They are black and white declarations which seem pretty pointless.
Ask away though, maybe someone might humour you.

calimali · 20/07/2023 07:51

Tobias Ellwood Tory MP for Bournmouth East leading the way for women's right's in Afghanistan by encouraging UK to "re-engage" with Afghanistan diplomatically and "incrementally" improve women's rights.

Again I ask the question - what have the Tories been doing to improve the rights of women in their 13 years in power? Women's right go far beyond the fight for safe single spaces. I don't deny that this is important, but to claim that Tories support women's rights based on just one of many, many of the issues is just plain wrong.

SunnyEgg · 20/07/2023 07:23

And before the inevitable response…

If Tories lose it’s Labour and maybe Lib Dems up next

Since posters can’t even support them given how much they hate the Tories, it’s obvious they are worse on this