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Labour canvasser today

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SirSamVimesCityWatch · 15/07/2023 10:59

I'm in one the constituencies with a by-election coming up.

Just had a labour canvasser (woman, mid/late fifties) knock to ask if I was voting. I said yes I would be.

She asked if I knew who I was voting for. I asked if she knew what a woman was. I told her I was a single issue voter and that was the only issue that was going to decide how I voted.

Her response: "I believe a woman is anyone who believes themself to be a woman".

I told her in that case I have nothing else to say to her, and closed the door.

I would have loved to have actually put some of the issues to her (rapists in prisons, assaults in mixed sex spaces, including schools, destruction of women's sports etc) but my heart was already racing and I knew it would be like talking to a brick wall anyway.

But anyway - at least that's a clear pile in the eye for the whole 'it doesn't come up on the doorstep' nonsense.

So, I'm either voting Tory or SDP.

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Waitwhat23 · 16/07/2023 10:27

Theeyeballsinthesky · 16/07/2023 10:12

I can’t believe that in the 21st fucking century ppl are expecting us to feel sorry for Labour because they can’t come out and say what a woman is

they know exactly what a woman is and the fact they won’t say do means they’re either scared or lying. Neither is great is it

Indeed.

Labour canvasser today
TommyNever · 16/07/2023 10:21

I hope that even if that's not what you wanted to hear from me it proves a thoughtfulness on my part and that I am doing stuff and trying to come up with a workable solution within my own community; I'm not just an armchair warrior mouthing off.

Yes but you are drastically failing, as LoobiJee pointed out.

The Tories may be somewhat opportunistic on this issue (they'd be foolish not to be), but they are certainly not opposed to recognising and protecting women's sex-based rights as Labour continue to be, despite you "doing stuff".

Theeyeballsinthesky · 16/07/2023 10:19

changing the legal definition of woman from “adult human female” to “adult human female and men who self IDthey have lady feelings and are therefore women too” affects every single sex based rights women have

its not a small side issue

SunnyEgg · 16/07/2023 10:19

RebelliousCow · 16/07/2023 09:26

Labour has got a lot to live up to if people really think they are going to be able to solve some of those fundamental issues and crises that we are currently suffering with. I anticipate a lot of grave disappointment and a whole lot of rage and anger - especially from those on the Left who have been silenced and cast out by Starmer.

Reeves is pledged to keeping within the financial contraints she has inherited. how can you solve all of the above with pretty much the same resources, and a bit of cutlery re-arranging?

It’ll be interesting to see what people say when cutlery rearranging is all it is.

Especially when they keep going on about the last time they were in and building a picture of more of the same.

More money. From where?

Froodwithatowel · 16/07/2023 10:19

emmylousings · 16/07/2023 10:17

There are so many other pressing issues facing this country, and which effect me every day, where as self ID, whilst I'm against it, is a tiny issue which doesn't affect me at all. It's not rational to base your entire vote on it.
Also, there hasn't been any SDP for a long time!!

Tiny issue...

Yeah. If you can keep your head when all about you are losing theirs..... then you haven't fully understood the situation.

You are very lucky that this is not affecting you every day yet. I'd like to introduce you to other women and girls in the world who aren't quite so privileged. And you need to realise that it's only a matter of time before you stop being one of the lucky ones.

CatusFlatus · 16/07/2023 10:18

FiddleLeaf · 16/07/2023 10:08

A more important issue than the economy, the NHS, infrastructure, the rights of immigrants etc?

Why vote on a single issue?! That’s totally crazy to me.

Yes, a more important issue.

Once written into law, like in Canada for example, the supremacy of gender identity over sex will become almost impossible to roll back. I'm talking decades and decades if ever. Maybe not even in my daughter's lifetime.

That's why for many of us this the most important issue by far.

emmylousings · 16/07/2023 10:17

There are so many other pressing issues facing this country, and which effect me every day, where as self ID, whilst I'm against it, is a tiny issue which doesn't affect me at all. It's not rational to base your entire vote on it.
Also, there hasn't been any SDP for a long time!!

IJustHadToLookHavingReadTheBook · 16/07/2023 10:16

@RebelliousCow they have done criminal things though, like... a lot. On an unprecedented scale for a government in this country, in fact.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 16/07/2023 10:12

I can’t believe that in the 21st fucking century ppl are expecting us to feel sorry for Labour because they can’t come out and say what a woman is

they know exactly what a woman is and the fact they won’t say do means they’re either scared or lying. Neither is great is it

RebelliousCow · 16/07/2023 10:11

IJustHadToLookHavingReadTheBook · 16/07/2023 09:55

@RebelliousCow I'm not hating the Tories based on anything tribal. Have you seen their antics the last few years?

You used the term " criminal cunts". To my mind that is a form of prejudice against a whole group of disparate people, which seeks to demonise them and present them as less than human.

In the age of 24 hour news and social media saturation, alongside the erosion of the boundary between public and private - everything is magnified. Don't expect people on the Labour benches to come out squeaky clean, either.
All sorts of backroom deals, infringments of codes of conduct, irresponsible use of privilege; sexual misconduct will be revealed.

That's not to excuse bad behaviour - but all people, especially when in office, are capable of bad behaviour and of favouring their own specific interests.The specific interests may vary in nature - but people, by and large, are pretty much driven by the same motivations as each other.

FiddleLeaf · 16/07/2023 10:08

Theunamedcat · 15/07/2023 21:31

They are a single issue voter

A more important issue than the economy, the NHS, infrastructure, the rights of immigrants etc?

Why vote on a single issue?! That’s totally crazy to me.

IJustHadToLookHavingReadTheBook · 16/07/2023 10:06

LoobiJee · 16/07/2023 09:43

@IJustHadToLookHavingReadTheBook

“Come on. You'd be better joining the Labour Party and fighting your corner from within. The issue of sex-based rights is important, and I don't deny it's place in political debate, but it's a small slice of a very large pie. Single-issue voting doesn't make sense when the country is in the state it is and being run by these people who wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire. If you vote for this corrupt and frankly evil government, I hope that you can look yourself in the mirror. “

Can you talk us through what success you’ve had as a member of the Labour Party fighting your corner from within? Posters on here are generally very keen to learn from those with experience and insight. What actions, arguments and tactics were most / least successful in your experience?

If you’re in Scotland which arguments/ tactics were the cause of you failing to persuade Scottish Labour to vote against the SNP’s GRA bill, would you say?

If you’re in Wales, what arguments / tactics, in your opinion, were the cause of you failing to persuade Welsh Labour against committing to seeking powers to introduce their own GRA bill and conversion therapy legislation?

Conservative Women seem to have been much more successful than Labour women at persuading their parties to listen. Why do you think GC Labour women haven’t had the same success? And why do you think Rosie Duffield is so isolated as an ‘out’ GC Labour MP?

Hello @LoobiJee

Personally, where I am in the country (London) and at our local branch it's a topic very up for discussion and with diverse views- it's far from being a "TWAW and there's no further discussion" situation in our little corner of the Labour Party. I'm a school governor at a girls school where no trans girls have been admitted and that's an ongoing conversation at my local branch of the party too- conversation about female spaces etc come up often and we are all in agreement that letting trans women in without question or debate is not appropriate in female spaces. I have daughters, I have skin in the game and care deeply and worry a lot about this. I'm very aware of the importance of protecting female spaces and why, but also uncomfortable at some of the anger on the GC side that starts to edge towards bigotry and think of the shadow of the way gay people were treated in society and law until very recently in this country.

I can't speak for the national party and I do think that Starmer and co. are woolly on this stuff, but part of that is because of the nature of our sound-bitey media and a culture war that been stoked up by the Tories precisely in order that they can point and say "Labour don't even know what a woman is!" I genuinely don't believe that the Tories give a rats arse about what a woman is, why would they... they don't care about kids, the elderly, the sick or the otherwise disadvantaged and they protect rapist MPs and sex criminals within their own party... seems weird to me that to some GC women the Tories have become the face of feminism 🤷🏼‍♀️

I hope that even if that's not what you wanted to hear from me it proves a thoughtfulness on my part and that I am doing stuff and trying to come up with a workable solution within my own community; I'm not just an armchair warrior mouthing off.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 16/07/2023 10:04

t’s huge, 50% of the population and all children rely on it. I can’t see past that I’m afraid.

this! I’ve never voted anything but Labour but I’ll be fucked if I’ll vote for a party that goes into the next election regarding the sex based rights of 50% of the population as some insignificant non issue

RebelliousCow · 16/07/2023 10:04

AgathaSpencerGregson · 16/07/2023 09:43

i suppose what I’m saying is why would you hand your opponents ammunition? Unless you’re just incredibly complacent or dim

Politics is about setting out your vision and then implementing it. Opposition is part and parcel of the process.

Waitwhat23 · 16/07/2023 10:04

SunnyEgg · 16/07/2023 09:59

Or Mark Drakeford

Bloody hell the misogyny

Or of course, Lloyd Russell-Moyle. Who when he failed to shout female MP's down, sat unnecessarily close to them to make sure they were aware of just how cross he was with them..

CatusFlatus · 16/07/2023 10:03

AgathaSpencerGregson · 16/07/2023 08:42

Ah, the same old tune. Yes of course we’ll deal with women’s rights; but we have to think about the more important stuff first.
Nope

Yep. Ever was it thus.

PowerTulle · 16/07/2023 10:01

The issue of retaining (let alone progressing) womens rights and the ability to define our sex in law and society is more than just a single issue for me. Self ID or a change of definition, so that female ‘sex’ includes males, has tentacles into every area of life.

Hospital and medical care
Psychiatric and MH services
Crisis support
Sports
Schools
Children’s safeguarding
Dignity at work
Awards and recognition
Pay gap
Representation in politics and society
Representation on boards
Inclusion in R&D, service development and policy
LGB rights
Carers and disabled peoples rights for same sex provision

And yes it’s about dignity and privacy. Safety is a low bar to quibble over IMHO.

The issue of sex-based rights is important, and I don't deny it's place in political debate, but it's a small slice of a very large pie

It’s huge, 50% of the population and all children rely on it. I can’t see past that I’m afraid.

TommyNever · 16/07/2023 10:01

LoobiJee · 16/07/2023 09:43

@IJustHadToLookHavingReadTheBook

“Come on. You'd be better joining the Labour Party and fighting your corner from within. The issue of sex-based rights is important, and I don't deny it's place in political debate, but it's a small slice of a very large pie. Single-issue voting doesn't make sense when the country is in the state it is and being run by these people who wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire. If you vote for this corrupt and frankly evil government, I hope that you can look yourself in the mirror. “

Can you talk us through what success you’ve had as a member of the Labour Party fighting your corner from within? Posters on here are generally very keen to learn from those with experience and insight. What actions, arguments and tactics were most / least successful in your experience?

If you’re in Scotland which arguments/ tactics were the cause of you failing to persuade Scottish Labour to vote against the SNP’s GRA bill, would you say?

If you’re in Wales, what arguments / tactics, in your opinion, were the cause of you failing to persuade Welsh Labour against committing to seeking powers to introduce their own GRA bill and conversion therapy legislation?

Conservative Women seem to have been much more successful than Labour women at persuading their parties to listen. Why do you think GC Labour women haven’t had the same success? And why do you think Rosie Duffield is so isolated as an ‘out’ GC Labour MP?

Fine post. I wonder if it will be answered.

SunnyEgg · 16/07/2023 09:59

Waitwhat23 · 16/07/2023 09:58

Just watch Patrick Harvie (Scottish Greens) being challenged by a woman - the sheer rage.

Or Mark Drakeford

Bloody hell the misogyny

TommyNever · 16/07/2023 09:59

AgathaSpencerGregson · 16/07/2023 09:43

i suppose what I’m saying is why would you hand your opponents ammunition? Unless you’re just incredibly complacent or dim

There are still many in the Labour Party who think winning elections leaves a nasty stain on their reputation. If there's a way of losing, they'll find it.

Waitwhat23 · 16/07/2023 09:58

AgathaSpencerGregson · 16/07/2023 09:46

Like many left wing men he gets twitchy when challenged by women. Corbyn was the same.

Just watch Patrick Harvie (Scottish Greens) being challenged by a woman - the sheer rage.

IJustHadToLookHavingReadTheBook · 16/07/2023 09:55

@RebelliousCow I'm not hating the Tories based on anything tribal. Have you seen their antics the last few years?

AgathaSpencerGregson · 16/07/2023 09:52

SunnyEgg · 16/07/2023 09:48

I think the R4 one I heard was a male interviewer

He’s not good at those interviews

Surprisingly shit on his feet, given his professional background

SunnyEgg · 16/07/2023 09:48

AgathaSpencerGregson · 16/07/2023 09:46

Like many left wing men he gets twitchy when challenged by women. Corbyn was the same.

I think the R4 one I heard was a male interviewer

He’s not good at those interviews

AgathaSpencerGregson · 16/07/2023 09:46

SunnyEgg · 16/07/2023 09:36

I missed it but my god he’s bad in those situations

If I didn’t think it would be so damaging for women and girls I’d have them in just to dispel the idea they’re going to be any good

Like many left wing men he gets twitchy when challenged by women. Corbyn was the same.