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Labour canvasser today

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SirSamVimesCityWatch · 15/07/2023 10:59

I'm in one the constituencies with a by-election coming up.

Just had a labour canvasser (woman, mid/late fifties) knock to ask if I was voting. I said yes I would be.

She asked if I knew who I was voting for. I asked if she knew what a woman was. I told her I was a single issue voter and that was the only issue that was going to decide how I voted.

Her response: "I believe a woman is anyone who believes themself to be a woman".

I told her in that case I have nothing else to say to her, and closed the door.

I would have loved to have actually put some of the issues to her (rapists in prisons, assaults in mixed sex spaces, including schools, destruction of women's sports etc) but my heart was already racing and I knew it would be like talking to a brick wall anyway.

But anyway - at least that's a clear pile in the eye for the whole 'it doesn't come up on the doorstep' nonsense.

So, I'm either voting Tory or SDP.

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AgathaSpencerGregson · 16/07/2023 18:04

TooBigForMyBoots · 16/07/2023 17:55

Tory chaos and instability:
Vote Cameron's Tory party get Theresa May's Tory party.
Vote Theresa May's Tory Party get Boris Johnson's Tory Party.
Vote Boris Johnson's Tory Party get Liz Truss's Tory Party.
Tory party member? Vote Liz Truss get Rishi Sunak who was rejected. Like Jeremy Hunt, who was similarly rejected by the party in favour of Johnson.

With each change of leadership of government came a change in direction. Sunak is not popular there's doubt that he'll last to the next GE. If he does survive, like his 5 predecessors in the last 7 years, he will be gone before he can serve a full term. To be replaced by...?

Are you denying that the chaos within the Tory party has been damaging to the UK in the past 13 years? And it isn't over yet.

The problem with this argument is we’re not being asked to choose between starmers labour and the Tory party of 2015 or 2919, are we? And it seems to me that starmer is clearly of lower calibre than Sunak in every material respect. And I can’t see anyone behind him I respect either.

TooBigForMyBoots · 16/07/2023 17:55

Rudderneck · 16/07/2023 16:47

I don't think anyone can make a statement like this on the basis that it's the same political party. A change in itself is meaningless.

If that were true, we could say the same about all of them, as they've all fucked up in power. None would be a party it would be possible to vote for. (Some people feel that way, mind you.)

What is more important is who is in the leadership team, and what policies, concretely, are they proposing.

The Tory team isn't what one might like, but they have a few people I think are quite competent. Sunak I think is a smart guy, and he shows some signs of being able to get the party on board. Kemi is very good. There are a few others perhaps. On policy, I would like to hear more concrete specifics, but I think they see where the problems lie.

As far as Labour, the leadership team is no more inspiring, and arguably less, because I think Starmer is proving to be a weak leader. On policy, there seem to be a few good ideas, but nothing that hits it out of the ballpark, lots of unanswered questions. Plus - the control on dissent within the party is hugely concerning to me, it could cause other issues as big as gender ideology.

In light of all this I see little reason to hope they would make things better, and real concern they could make things worse.

Tory chaos and instability:
Vote Cameron's Tory party get Theresa May's Tory party.
Vote Theresa May's Tory Party get Boris Johnson's Tory Party.
Vote Boris Johnson's Tory Party get Liz Truss's Tory Party.
Tory party member? Vote Liz Truss get Rishi Sunak who was rejected. Like Jeremy Hunt, who was similarly rejected by the party in favour of Johnson.

With each change of leadership of government came a change in direction. Sunak is not popular there's doubt that he'll last to the next GE. If he does survive, like his 5 predecessors in the last 7 years, he will be gone before he can serve a full term. To be replaced by...?

Are you denying that the chaos within the Tory party has been damaging to the UK in the past 13 years? And it isn't over yet.

AgathaSpencerGregson · 16/07/2023 17:51

Froodwithatowel · 16/07/2023 17:39

What an extremely salient quote that is from CS Lewis.

Pretty much sums up the modern Labour Party I’d say

TooBigForMyBoots · 16/07/2023 17:40

Froodwithatowel · 16/07/2023 16:40

Labour's MO for decades has been get into power on as bland a 'don't frighten the horses' approach as possible and then once in power do whatever the hell they want.

Read some of the New Labour era autobiographies. Post democratic era etc. The lack of respect for the electorate and democracy is about as boggling as the lack of respect or care for women.

Did you miss Jeremy Corbyn?

Froodwithatowel · 16/07/2023 17:39

What an extremely salient quote that is from CS Lewis.

AgathaSpencerGregson · 16/07/2023 17:37

RebelliousCow · 16/07/2023 17:12

Personally, I think the Labour position on private schools ( as well as grammar schools) is based on the idea that both are only for the rich and privileged.

Most private schools, though, are small schools serving local communities, and most of the parents are just average people who have decided to prioritise spending some of their money in this way. Labour doesn't support the idea of this kind of choice because its focus is on equality and not everyone can afford to send their children to such schools - so nobody should be able to ( even though Starmer has now said he is supportive of independent schools)

Most parents are not wealthy people; though maybe fairly 'comfortable' people, including many working class people with their own businesses, or who have managed to do fairly well for themselves by their own efforts. Most independent schools are not Eton or Cheltenham Ladies

At the risk of derailing there are lots of special and also specialist schools operating in the independent sector as charities. I can’t believe that labour would want to affect them detrimentally - it would be obscene to crusade against a special school for kids with SN. But they don’t say how the changes will be effected, which leaves people in a worrying state of uncertainty.
sound familiar?

WhineyVaginey · 16/07/2023 17:30

I've spoilt ballots for the last 6 yrs. After voting Labour all of my adult life & previously being a member, I will vote Tory in the next election if they move to strongly to rebalance on all things GI.
I live in one of the most deprived wards in Birmingham. I'm mixed race, daughter of 2 immigrants, single mother to one daughter.
I believe Labour will win a huge majority in the next election, in the first term I think they will seek to curb the powers of the HoL, then legislate a 'hate speech' bill, if they win a 2nd term they will introduce self id.

I'm poor, I struggle like a lot people right now, I'd rather stay poor & have the freedom to say "2+2=4".
I haven't left Labour, they closed the door on me.

Labour canvasser today
RebelliousCow · 16/07/2023 17:12

Rudderneck · 16/07/2023 16:57

Well, I am trying to be as non-biased in my assessment as possible.

But the private school stuff is very interesting, because I think it actually dovetailes very much into a lot of the concerns on gender ideology.

There is a real element around parental rights in terms of educating children, that the Labour Party doesn't seem to even be able to understand. As in, if you try and talk to someone about it, it's almost like they are just hearing wha-wha-wha - they cannot see that telling people they must submit their children so state education reflects on things like parental rights and freedom of thought. They don't even argue against it - they do not seem to recognize the question or the implications.

Which is partly why I think that GI i not so much a weird aberration as some believe for the LP. It is attached to their wider beliefs and worldview.

Personally, I think the Labour position on private schools ( as well as grammar schools) is based on the idea that both are only for the rich and privileged.

Most private schools, though, are small schools serving local communities, and most of the parents are just average people who have decided to prioritise spending some of their money in this way. Labour doesn't support the idea of this kind of choice because its focus is on equality and not everyone can afford to send their children to such schools - so nobody should be able to ( even though Starmer has now said he is supportive of independent schools)

Most parents are not wealthy people; though maybe fairly 'comfortable' people, including many working class people with their own businesses, or who have managed to do fairly well for themselves by their own efforts. Most independent schools are not Eton or Cheltenham Ladies

SunnyEgg · 16/07/2023 17:06

RebelliousCow · 16/07/2023 16:54

But he has said what he thinks; that Self Id "doesn't go far enough". He's said it so many times when will people start to believe it?

Personally, I think it is one of the only manifesto pledges he hasn't broken and that is because it is keeping some of his more Left wing supporters on board.

I don’t mind believing it I just didn’t hear it in amongst the other bumpf

If that’s the case he can spell out what that means exactly.

Rudderneck · 16/07/2023 16:57

AgathaSpencerGregson · 16/07/2023 16:50

I broadly agree with this, but it’s too kind to labour. The stuff on private schools is on a par with the Brexit bus. They are profoundly dishonest in policy terms.

Well, I am trying to be as non-biased in my assessment as possible.

But the private school stuff is very interesting, because I think it actually dovetailes very much into a lot of the concerns on gender ideology.

There is a real element around parental rights in terms of educating children, that the Labour Party doesn't seem to even be able to understand. As in, if you try and talk to someone about it, it's almost like they are just hearing wha-wha-wha - they cannot see that telling people they must submit their children so state education reflects on things like parental rights and freedom of thought. They don't even argue against it - they do not seem to recognize the question or the implications.

Which is partly why I think that GI i not so much a weird aberration as some believe for the LP. It is attached to their wider beliefs and worldview.

RebelliousCow · 16/07/2023 16:54

SunnyEgg · 16/07/2023 16:43

This I find most enraging

If Starmer could actually answer a question and state the position of the Labour Party then fine. People can vote on it. If it didn’t go my way I’d not like it but that’s democracy.

This evasive approach is so incredibly insulting to women and he’s dangerous because of it. A horrible combination of cowardly, sneaky plus waffle.

But he has said what he thinks; that Self Id "doesn't go far enough". He's said it so many times when will people start to believe it?

Personally, I think it is one of the only manifesto pledges he hasn't broken and that is because it is keeping some of his more Left wing supporters on board.

Cornettoninja · 16/07/2023 16:52

ThisTimeIts · 15/07/2023 11:43

Your Labour woman example, is the type who now makes my skin crawl, they are Myra Hindly, enabler types with zero insight.

Obscene hyperbole.

I’ve only read the immediate following posts but as everyone seems a-ok with this I can only assume that it’s fine with the insinuation that Labour=child raping and murdering.

ooytm.

AgathaSpencerGregson · 16/07/2023 16:51

SunnyEgg · 16/07/2023 16:43

This I find most enraging

If Starmer could actually answer a question and state the position of the Labour Party then fine. People can vote on it. If it didn’t go my way I’d not like it but that’s democracy.

This evasive approach is so incredibly insulting to women and he’s dangerous because of it. A horrible combination of cowardly, sneaky plus waffle.

Plus a rooted belief that those most affected and most likely to object are a subordinate class. We just matter less. We just do. It’s not even conscious. It’s just the way they see the world.

AgathaSpencerGregson · 16/07/2023 16:50

Rudderneck · 16/07/2023 16:47

I don't think anyone can make a statement like this on the basis that it's the same political party. A change in itself is meaningless.

If that were true, we could say the same about all of them, as they've all fucked up in power. None would be a party it would be possible to vote for. (Some people feel that way, mind you.)

What is more important is who is in the leadership team, and what policies, concretely, are they proposing.

The Tory team isn't what one might like, but they have a few people I think are quite competent. Sunak I think is a smart guy, and he shows some signs of being able to get the party on board. Kemi is very good. There are a few others perhaps. On policy, I would like to hear more concrete specifics, but I think they see where the problems lie.

As far as Labour, the leadership team is no more inspiring, and arguably less, because I think Starmer is proving to be a weak leader. On policy, there seem to be a few good ideas, but nothing that hits it out of the ballpark, lots of unanswered questions. Plus - the control on dissent within the party is hugely concerning to me, it could cause other issues as big as gender ideology.

In light of all this I see little reason to hope they would make things better, and real concern they could make things worse.

I broadly agree with this, but it’s too kind to labour. The stuff on private schools is on a par with the Brexit bus. They are profoundly dishonest in policy terms.

Rudderneck · 16/07/2023 16:47

TooBigForMyBoots · 16/07/2023 16:04

But it would be very difficult to see how things would be under Labour.

Whoever comes next is going to have a mountain to climb, so deep is the damage that has been done by the Tories. However we can't even begin to climb it while the Tories are in power. Tory Party chaos made the UK unstable and uninvestable. A vote for them is a vote for continued political and economic instability.

I don't think anyone can make a statement like this on the basis that it's the same political party. A change in itself is meaningless.

If that were true, we could say the same about all of them, as they've all fucked up in power. None would be a party it would be possible to vote for. (Some people feel that way, mind you.)

What is more important is who is in the leadership team, and what policies, concretely, are they proposing.

The Tory team isn't what one might like, but they have a few people I think are quite competent. Sunak I think is a smart guy, and he shows some signs of being able to get the party on board. Kemi is very good. There are a few others perhaps. On policy, I would like to hear more concrete specifics, but I think they see where the problems lie.

As far as Labour, the leadership team is no more inspiring, and arguably less, because I think Starmer is proving to be a weak leader. On policy, there seem to be a few good ideas, but nothing that hits it out of the ballpark, lots of unanswered questions. Plus - the control on dissent within the party is hugely concerning to me, it could cause other issues as big as gender ideology.

In light of all this I see little reason to hope they would make things better, and real concern they could make things worse.

Hepwo · 16/07/2023 16:46

TooBigForMyBoots · 16/07/2023 16:04

But it would be very difficult to see how things would be under Labour.

Whoever comes next is going to have a mountain to climb, so deep is the damage that has been done by the Tories. However we can't even begin to climb it while the Tories are in power. Tory Party chaos made the UK unstable and uninvestable. A vote for them is a vote for continued political and economic instability.

Where do people get this stuff from?

Tory Party chaos made the UK unstable and uninvestable.

I googled is the UK investable?

This was the first link.

Foreign Direct Investment: UK remains second in Europe despite a fall in project numbers, new EY report reveals

The UK recorded 929 Foreign Direct Investment (FDI) projects in 2022, down 6.4% from 993 in 2021 – France continued to lead Europe with Germany ranked third.

https://www.ey.com/en_uk/news/2023/06/foreign-direct-investment-uk-remains-second-in-europe-despite-a-fall-in-project-numbers#:~:text=The%20UK%20remains%20second%20in,despite%20activity%20falling%20in%202022.

Investable? Left wing hyperbole is amusing.

Foreign Direct Investment: UK remains second in Europe despite a fall in project numbers, new EY report reveals

EY’s 2023 UK Attractiveness Survey reveals the UK ranks second in Europe for the number of Foreign Direct Investment (FDI) projects hosted in 2022.

https://www.ey.com/en_uk/news/2023/06/foreign-direct-investment-uk-remains-second-in-europe-despite-a-fall-in-project-numbers#:~:text=The%20UK%20remains%20second%20in,despite%20activity%20falling%20in%202022.

SunnyEgg · 16/07/2023 16:43

AgathaSpencerGregson · 16/07/2023 16:35

he doesn’t think you need to know. He thinks you need to keep quiet and let the clever men decide, behind closed doors, once they’re in power. Then you put up and shut up.

This I find most enraging

If Starmer could actually answer a question and state the position of the Labour Party then fine. People can vote on it. If it didn’t go my way I’d not like it but that’s democracy.

This evasive approach is so incredibly insulting to women and he’s dangerous because of it. A horrible combination of cowardly, sneaky plus waffle.

Froodwithatowel · 16/07/2023 16:40

Labour's MO for decades has been get into power on as bland a 'don't frighten the horses' approach as possible and then once in power do whatever the hell they want.

Read some of the New Labour era autobiographies. Post democratic era etc. The lack of respect for the electorate and democracy is about as boggling as the lack of respect or care for women.

Floisme · 16/07/2023 16:36

Surely we need to know what they actually plan to do at some point.
I think the plan will be vague, lawyer-approved soundbites with a dash of guilt tripping and 'yes but the Tories!' - pretty much what we've had on this thread in fact. My point is only that I disagree with posters who say he's made it clear where he personally stands. I don't think he has, and I no longer expect him to say where he stands.

Froodwithatowel · 16/07/2023 16:36

Anyone who wants the measure of Starmer and his attitude towards women and towards voters only needs to read the 'webchat' right here on MN when he was standing for the Labour Party Leadership.

AgathaSpencerGregson · 16/07/2023 16:35

SunnyEgg · 16/07/2023 16:29

What does saying as little as possible mean for women in reality?

Surely we need to know what they actually plan to do at some point

he doesn’t think you need to know. He thinks you need to keep quiet and let the clever men decide, behind closed doors, once they’re in power. Then you put up and shut up.

Floisme · 16/07/2023 16:31

What does saying as little as possible mean for women in reality?
I think it means he will do as little for women as he thinks he can get away with.

SunnyEgg · 16/07/2023 16:29

Floisme · 16/07/2023 16:21

Why will he listen when he is in power? He has made clear where his personal sympathies lie.
I disagree that he's made it clear. I think Starmer's strategy is to say the bare minimum and I expect that will continue.
I do think a comfortable majority might make him bolder because I don't think he's a complete idiot. Trouble is that, as I've already said, my regard for him and his party is haemorrhaging away, and I don't think I can vote for someone if I don't have at least a modicum of respect for them.

What does saying as little as possible mean for women in reality?

Surely we need to know what they actually plan to do at some point

AgathaSpencerGregson · 16/07/2023 16:25

Floisme · 16/07/2023 16:21

Why will he listen when he is in power? He has made clear where his personal sympathies lie.
I disagree that he's made it clear. I think Starmer's strategy is to say the bare minimum and I expect that will continue.
I do think a comfortable majority might make him bolder because I don't think he's a complete idiot. Trouble is that, as I've already said, my regard for him and his party is haemorrhaging away, and I don't think I can vote for someone if I don't have at least a modicum of respect for them.

Remember “something which shouldn’t be said”?
that was him in an unguarded moment. It’s what he thinks. And so typical of him. Prissy, finger wagging, lecturing. He really is the most absurd little man.