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Radio 4. Right now. Is freaking me out.

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OnePotPolly · 07/07/2023 00:08

Transmen who want us all to accept that they are actual men. But they are a subset of men who can give birth to babies..
Which only women can do, in fact.

And still claim that they are men. After giving birth to babies. From their wombs.

And the presenter on R4 is actually going with it. And sympathising with the person that obviously men can give birth. Or is he just presenting it so that the audience can draw their own conclusions?

Whatever it is, it is winding me up no end. I have listened to R4 for the past 50 years - 50 YEARS!! every night without fail, while I potter about in the kitchen, tidying up and popping a bit of baking in the oven. I love radio 4, it has seen me through many traumas. Divorce, death of parents, death of sibling, permanently life altering illness of my child. Radio 4 has always been there as a stalwart support. A reality check. Reassurance that the rest of the world continues as normal - ordinary, normal even if it's bad news or a war between foreign nations. Right up to 1am and "Sailing By"

I love Sailing By. I find it, at the same time, both soothing and sad (because it's a reminder of times past)

But the shite that I've just listened to has totally wrecked it for me.
What a load of utter bollocks they have just allowed on air.

Unless they're just airing it to show how ludicrous and self absorbed some people can be. . . . .

Really hope that's what it turns out to be.

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Bingbangbongbash · 07/07/2023 09:00

BartholemewHolmes · 07/07/2023 08:45

It wasn’t inaccurate. I quoted figures. They are correct.

“If the number of people increasingly abandon it it’ll be like The Guardian

Only the very committed with bother

A big shame they can’t self reflect on what’s happening before it’s too late”

This is fallacious on many levels:

  1. it suggests the Guardian is struggling with loss of readership, which is incorrect (see my earlier post for numbers, but the top line is that it’s the second most widely read newspaper)
  2. Delve deeper into the audience of the Guardian and it’s largely made up of AB (professionals) and a fairly wide spread of ages including young people - ie just what advertisers want

Your later post suggests somehow Times Radio is a worrying development, snatching R4 listeners in droves. Again, fallacious. It’s entire weekly listenership is 500k, which is a lot less than the 5 million people who tune into just one R4 show (Today).

And BBC Sounds recorded 1.48 BILLION listens last year. So again, it’s fallacious to suggest the Times Radio is anything other than a squashed fly on the windscreen of the BBC juggernaut. HTH

TheGreatATuin · 07/07/2023 08:54

TBH, the people saying ‘we don’t know what it does to the body’ sound a little like the antivaxxers who were scared of the long term effects of the CV-19 vaccinations.
This is an utterly ridiculous analysis. We know how vaccines work. Covid was still relatively new but there was such a wealth of information on coronoviruses and vaccines in general, that we had a good idea of what the risks are.
As far as I am aware, there are zero studies on the effects of testosterone intake by the mother on fetuses. And, not just because such a study would never make it past an ethics committee. We do know that testosterone can have such a strong effect, that it is a controlled substance.
It's perfectly reasonable to have concerns about a substance with known effects to be used without appropriate medical oversight and without any studies showing us how the child would be affected.

Emotionalsupportviper · 07/07/2023 08:54

Soozikinzii · 07/07/2023 00:23

I think all this stuff is very homophoboc . Like why can't they just be gay ? A butch lesbian or a gay man ? What's wrong with that .? There's something sinisterly homophobic about it all. IMHO .

Yep.

Very, very homophobic.

Emotionalsupportviper · 07/07/2023 08:50

BishyBarnyBee · 07/07/2023 08:06

Like many others on here, I have given this a lot of thought and think it is a complex and challenging area.

I know many mumsnet members will say "It's not challenging at all. Transwomen are men and transmen are women".

But that's actually no different to my son's generation who say "It's not challenging at all. You just let people lead their lives and don't be a bigot."

Both sides are saying "It's not complicated. I am clearly right."

But many people are somewhere in the middle, not wanting to be oppressive to transpeople but not able to sign up for TWAW/TMAM.

I think wish we could just be allowed to say that TW are TW, TM are TM and they have the right to exist without harassment or denigration.

But there seems to be no room for any debate in the middle, just a culture war style division.

I think wish we could just be allowed to say that TW are TW, TM are TM and they have the right to exist without harassment or denigration.

But that is a lie.

I wish we could say that TW are MEN, TM are WOMEN, and they have a right to exist without harassment and denigration.

Because that is the truth.

But you know who else has a right to exist without harassment and denigration? WOMEN and MEN. ALL of us - straight, gay or bi, we ALL have a right to live our lives in a way that we are comfortable with, as long as it doesn't damage other people.

Pretending that people can change sex is wrong - it does not happen, cannot happen and never will happen. To pretend otherwise, and in particular to allow self-ID without any evidence of dysphoria is to make women and children very vulnerable. It is misogynistic and also deeply homophobic.

"Woman" isn't a costume to be worn. Sexual attraction is sexual attraction - not "genderal" attraction. But because of this "be kind", "TW are W" rubbish, predatory men are taking advantage of the opportunity to enter female-only spaces unchallenged, and gay people of both sexes are being vilified and expelled from their own organisations.

Peony654 · 07/07/2023 08:48

Just turn it off then and listen to something else, it’s not hard

BartholemewHolmes · 07/07/2023 08:45

Bingbangbongbash · 07/07/2023 08:43

Great post. Really adds something to the debate. Do you learn that level of insight from Times Radio?

I don’t give a monkeys what people think about the BBC, I was simply pointing out how fallacious your earlier post was. I do care about accuracy.

It wasn’t inaccurate. I quoted figures. They are correct.

BartholemewHolmes · 07/07/2023 08:44

BishyBarnyBee · 07/07/2023 08:42

Thank you! I'm sure there are many more of us around, but it's so hard to say what you think because there are so many very entrenched views on either side of the debate.

But you’re both agreeing that it should be not at the expense of others.

Which is where women sex based rights come in.

Bingbangbongbash · 07/07/2023 08:43

BartholemewHolmes · 07/07/2023 08:23

You’re very invested in what people think of the BBC

I don’t really care about that though. I mean so what if people prefer Times Radio. You’ll get over it.

I’m great at maths btw.

Great post. Really adds something to the debate. Do you learn that level of insight from Times Radio?

I don’t give a monkeys what people think about the BBC, I was simply pointing out how fallacious your earlier post was. I do care about accuracy.

BishyBarnyBee · 07/07/2023 08:42

ItsMyAeroplane · 07/07/2023 08:15

I think wish we could just be allowed to say that TW are TW, TM are TM and they have the right to exist without harassment or denigration.

I agree, and if we could all agree on this, things would cool down IMO.

I believe there are men and women, and then there are trans men/women. They should be able to live their lives peacefully, but not at the expense of others.

Thank you! I'm sure there are many more of us around, but it's so hard to say what you think because there are so many very entrenched views on either side of the debate.

BishyBarnyBee · 07/07/2023 08:39

HipTightOnions · 07/07/2023 08:11

But many people are somewhere in the middle, not wanting to be oppressive to transpeople but not able to sign up for TWAW/TMAM.

Why do you think it's "oppressive to transpeople" to acknowledge which sex they are?

I think transwomen would find it oppressive to be called a man, because they do not believe they are men.

Gender critical feminists would say they are men.

I'm suggesting there might be room for a middle position where we say Transwomen are Transwomen. They used to be men but they have chosen to become transwomen.

It wouldn't please either side of the debate though!

Bingbangbongbash · 07/07/2023 08:38

BartholemewHolmes · 07/07/2023 08:28

Although maybe some biology for you. People are talking about men trying to breastfeed.

This post was about people frothing about the drugs used to induce lactation and how they might affect the baby. I was pointing out that they are used for inducing lactation in natal women, not just transwomen, so any concern should be equally levelled at both. I guess it isn’t as fun to call the lesbians out, though.

Bingbangbongbash · 07/07/2023 08:34

AgathaSpencerGregson · 07/07/2023 08:29

Times radio is far right? You people are mad

And you people have no sense of humour.

Avondale89 · 07/07/2023 08:31

Soozikinzii · 07/07/2023 00:23

I think all this stuff is very homophoboc . Like why can't they just be gay ? A butch lesbian or a gay man ? What's wrong with that .? There's something sinisterly homophobic about it all. IMHO .

I thought I’d seen some ignorant comments on here in my time, but this truly takes the cake.

AgathaSpencerGregson · 07/07/2023 08:29

Bingbangbongbash · 07/07/2023 08:20

Turn your tuning dial far to the right

Times radio is far right? You people are mad

BartholemewHolmes · 07/07/2023 08:28

Bingbangbongbash · 07/07/2023 07:09

just for a little balance, as apparently that’s important to you - non-carrying women (eg from lesbian couples) have also been able to breastfeed through a combination of drugs (similar to oral contraceptives) and stimulation. It’s a pretty magical and powerful thing, ime. Modern medicine is incredible, and although there might not be long term studies into the effects, hormones and their actions on the body of both adults and gestating infants are extremely well understood.

TBH, the people saying ‘we don’t know what it does to the body’ sound a little like the antivaxxers who were scared of the long term effects of the CV-19 vaccinations.

If you have concerns about the welfare of babies gestated and fed by trans men, perhaps it would benefit you to read some scientific literature on the subject.

If it’s just a knee jerk reaction against trans men giving birth, perhaps you could think about why it upsets you so much.

I don’t understand, myself, how trans men reconcile what to me is a very female act with how they see themselves and their bodies, as men, but it also doesn’t affect me or my life in any way if they want to carry a child, so I don’t get involved. Bit like abortions - their body, their choice.

Although maybe some biology for you. People are talking about men trying to breastfeed.

AgathaSpencerGregson · 07/07/2023 08:28

BartholemewHolmes · 07/07/2023 08:24

There’s a state broadcaster. You must oblige.

But we’re the fascists, apparently. Go figure

BartholemewHolmes · 07/07/2023 08:26

sydenhamhiller · 07/07/2023 08:16

Oh my goodness, this post has really resonated.
I’m 50 and Radio 4 has been the sound track to my life: it was always on (LW) as I grew up in Holland; it was the background sound to being a SAHM mum for a few years. The first thing I did as I walked into an empty room was put Radio 4 on.

And as I read this, I thought ‘I don’t do this anymore’. I put on a podcast. As others have said, a lot of things seem to have a clunky agenda now. Of course nothing can be completely subjective, but I often feel like I am listening to reeducation camp
propaganda 101.

I still listen but only just. I like various programmes but I used to be fully onboard

Ourladycheesusedatum · 07/07/2023 08:26

Bingbangbongbash · 07/07/2023 07:09

just for a little balance, as apparently that’s important to you - non-carrying women (eg from lesbian couples) have also been able to breastfeed through a combination of drugs (similar to oral contraceptives) and stimulation. It’s a pretty magical and powerful thing, ime. Modern medicine is incredible, and although there might not be long term studies into the effects, hormones and their actions on the body of both adults and gestating infants are extremely well understood.

TBH, the people saying ‘we don’t know what it does to the body’ sound a little like the antivaxxers who were scared of the long term effects of the CV-19 vaccinations.

If you have concerns about the welfare of babies gestated and fed by trans men, perhaps it would benefit you to read some scientific literature on the subject.

If it’s just a knee jerk reaction against trans men giving birth, perhaps you could think about why it upsets you so much.

I don’t understand, myself, how trans men reconcile what to me is a very female act with how they see themselves and their bodies, as men, but it also doesn’t affect me or my life in any way if they want to carry a child, so I don’t get involved. Bit like abortions - their body, their choice.

The ick factor comes from trans WOMEN breastfeeding.

Not trans men.

BartholemewHolmes · 07/07/2023 08:24

AgathaSpencerGregson · 07/07/2023 07:46

So, tolerate the boring rubbish the beeb pumps at you or you are some kind of fascist.
never knew poor old Stig and Asma were the leaders of the new stormfront. A development surely no one predicted.

There’s a state broadcaster. You must oblige.

Emotionalsupportviper · 07/07/2023 08:23

Bingbangbongbash · 07/07/2023 08:20

Turn your tuning dial far to the right

😂

BartholemewHolmes · 07/07/2023 08:23

Bingbangbongbash · 07/07/2023 08:16

I love how snowflakey you are about emojis. Proper makes me lol.

The Times radio has a weekly - that’s right, I said weekly - listenership of about half a mill.

Even with the decline in listeners to Today, which is partly explained by new listening habits (see: podcasts and catch up) R4 has a listenership of 9.3million.

Maths doesn’t seem to be your strong point, so I’ll be clear: that’s a lot more than Times ‘owned by that Aussie arsehole’ Radio.

Also lol’ing at you directly lifting your post from a Guardian article. Guess that puts you in the ‘trust the Guardian’ camp I mentioned earlier.

You’re very invested in what people think of the BBC

I don’t really care about that though. I mean so what if people prefer Times Radio. You’ll get over it.

I’m great at maths btw.

Emotionalsupportviper · 07/07/2023 08:22

PretzelKnot · 07/07/2023 00:15

It is the babies that I feel for. Testosterone completely fucks up female reproductive systems is so many known way and no doubt many yet unknown ways. Even if it is paused for pregnancy, the long-term effects on the development of the foetus are completely unknown. Pregnant women get judged for taking a paracetamol but are applauded if their bodies are full of wrong sex hormones as they gestate.

This is what horrifies me.

Setting aside the "we are men" bollix, why is this permitted at all?

No-one ever challenges them regarding the effects to testosterone on a developing foetus - it's a hell of a powerful hormone. Women who take it, and then come off it still retain their masculinised voices, beards and extra body hair, so you can't tell me it just fades away like it had never happened.

I can't understand any doctor even considering this being appropriate - though I suppose at least some of these women just stop taking it long enough to get pregnant etc and no-one can do anything about it. It's the most selfish thing anyone can do and it is a thing that most disgusts me - using a child as a proper for your ego. And yes - I know many non-trans parents do this, too, but IT ISN'T RIGHT!

Ironically, pregnancy and childbirth are also among the most "female" things that anyone can do, in that although not all women can become pregnant, ONLY women can become pregnant.

I do hope that doctors and hospitals are going to be monitoring the health and development of these poor babies very closely. No-one knows what ticking time-bomb is lurking in their tiny bodies, and seemingly their parents don't even care.

We are warned against smoking, drinking, taking drugs - even eating particular foods - when pregnant, then these women do this! I just can't believe how self-obsessed some people can be. I dread to think what long=term health hours may be awaiting them in 5, 10, 20, even 50 years time. It's awful.

Poor babies.

(And yes - R4 is now complete and utter sh!te)

YellowBrickRoadWithPotholes · 07/07/2023 08:22

I haven’t RTFT so apologies if this has been said.
The thing is that the staff at R4 (the behind the scenes researchers and editors etc) are all much younger than us now (I’m also 50s) so the output is reflecting that generational shift. Add to that that they are mostly privileged (white and very, very middle class) and haven’t experienced the really harrowing negative impact of this ideology (losing single sex spaces like prisons, refuges etc). I know someone who is pretty senior there and I have been in to see some shows being produced and I felt OLD. Basically the kids have taken over R4, don’t be fooled by the familiar / older presenters as they are not in control of the content. The Stephen Nolan podcast covered the wokerisation at BBC in detail. Jenni Murray left R4 for good reasons.

Bingbangbongbash · 07/07/2023 08:20

RoyalImpatience · 07/07/2023 07:28

Unfortunately it's "infiltrated" radio 4.
I don't mind balanced debate but unfortunately like brexit it's very one sided.

How do I get rimes radio?

Turn your tuning dial far to the right

AgathaSpencerGregson · 07/07/2023 08:19

sydenhamhiller · 07/07/2023 08:16

Oh my goodness, this post has really resonated.
I’m 50 and Radio 4 has been the sound track to my life: it was always on (LW) as I grew up in Holland; it was the background sound to being a SAHM mum for a few years. The first thing I did as I walked into an empty room was put Radio 4 on.

And as I read this, I thought ‘I don’t do this anymore’. I put on a podcast. As others have said, a lot of things seem to have a clunky agenda now. Of course nothing can be completely subjective, but I often feel like I am listening to reeducation camp
propaganda 101.

Yes, and the lesson they want you to learn is what an awful person you are, what a terrible place your country is, and how you should be jolly well ashamed of yourself.

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