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Radio 4. Right now. Is freaking me out.

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OnePotPolly · 07/07/2023 00:08

Transmen who want us all to accept that they are actual men. But they are a subset of men who can give birth to babies..
Which only women can do, in fact.

And still claim that they are men. After giving birth to babies. From their wombs.

And the presenter on R4 is actually going with it. And sympathising with the person that obviously men can give birth. Or is he just presenting it so that the audience can draw their own conclusions?

Whatever it is, it is winding me up no end. I have listened to R4 for the past 50 years - 50 YEARS!! every night without fail, while I potter about in the kitchen, tidying up and popping a bit of baking in the oven. I love radio 4, it has seen me through many traumas. Divorce, death of parents, death of sibling, permanently life altering illness of my child. Radio 4 has always been there as a stalwart support. A reality check. Reassurance that the rest of the world continues as normal - ordinary, normal even if it's bad news or a war between foreign nations. Right up to 1am and "Sailing By"

I love Sailing By. I find it, at the same time, both soothing and sad (because it's a reminder of times past)

But the shite that I've just listened to has totally wrecked it for me.
What a load of utter bollocks they have just allowed on air.

Unless they're just airing it to show how ludicrous and self absorbed some people can be. . . . .

Really hope that's what it turns out to be.

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stbrandonsboat · 07/07/2023 12:59

I feel well and truly diddled by radio 4 because I'd always planned on spending my retirement listening to intelligent and interesting radio programmes on it, now I can't, and there's no other alternative.

unsync · 07/07/2023 11:34

I don't listen any more either, it's become an echo chamber of wokeness.

Fiftyisthenewsixty · 07/07/2023 11:28

StellaJohanna · 07/07/2023 01:11

I know how you feel OP. I have listened to radio 4 all my life from childhood, through university, working all over the world and carrying a radio with me SW/MW/ LW little radio abroad - remember those days? Radio 4 was my best friend, the backdrop to my life. I had to ditch it 3 years ago, and when I catch it on in my mother's house it is unbearable. Every programme is contaminated with propaganda and woke crap from The Archers to Open Country. Dumbed down, patronising, nasty propaganda - so transparent and depressing. Even the beloved World Service is going the same way.

I was going to write a reply but it would basically be this!

dcbc1234 · 07/07/2023 11:21

Beowulfa · 07/07/2023 11:08

Back to the topic; the subject of the show that so infuriated the OP had an elective double mastectomy, then expressed surprise at being unable to breastfeed. Intelligent and pro-active journalism would be asking how the fuck healthy organs can be removed from people who cannot or will not understand the irreversible physical consequences, and what has happened to medical ethics. But you won't find that kind of grown-up reporting by the BBC or Guardian these days sadly.

Beggars belief and I expect the NHS paid for said unnecessary double mastectomy?
We as a society have been trapped inside the pages of 'The Emperor's new clothes' for several years now but still so many people refuse read to the end or to take on board the essential message about power dynamics and mass delusion. The King couldn't be contradicted and the 'herd mentality' in refusing to speak out the truth for fear of being censored or worse. It took a child to state the obvious: 'The King has no clothes'.
They are now coming for the children too so they can't speak out.
I hope that one day soon sanity on these issues will prevail and freedom of thought and speech will be prioritised once again.

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 07/07/2023 11:15

Mythoughtextract · 07/07/2023 07:21

Times radio is owned by Rupert Murdoch an Australian who has been instrumental in causing brexit which has done much billions of pounds of damage, untold cultural damage, extra covid deaths and likely was instrumental in Putin invasion of Ukraine

If I posted something like this about the Guardian and its indebtedness to certain other nation states, you would tell me to put my tinfoil hat on.

Beowulfa · 07/07/2023 11:08

Back to the topic; the subject of the show that so infuriated the OP had an elective double mastectomy, then expressed surprise at being unable to breastfeed. Intelligent and pro-active journalism would be asking how the fuck healthy organs can be removed from people who cannot or will not understand the irreversible physical consequences, and what has happened to medical ethics. But you won't find that kind of grown-up reporting by the BBC or Guardian these days sadly.

Pluvia · 07/07/2023 11:04

’ve already apologised for that. so move on. You’re not exactly showing the best side of yourself right now, so we all occasionally get the tone wrong, don’t we?

Ho hum.

Bingbangbongbash · 07/07/2023 11:04

BartholemewHolmes · 07/07/2023 10:59

Umm.. ok

I’m not though.

Good! I’m happy for you. 😊

BartholemewHolmes · 07/07/2023 10:59

Bingbangbongbash · 07/07/2023 10:57

You seem really angry.

Umm.. ok

I’m not though.

Bingbangbongbash · 07/07/2023 10:57

BartholemewHolmes · 07/07/2023 10:56

I’m not angry at all.

Your post was referring to me so I picked up on it.

You seem really angry.

BartholemewHolmes · 07/07/2023 10:56

Bingbangbongbash · 07/07/2023 10:54

I’ve already apologised for that. so move on. You’re not exactly showing the best side of yourself right now, so we all occasionally get the tone wrong, don’t we?

The tweet ref was a way of saying ‘it doesn’t matter if it was a short post, or a character limited tweet, or a haiku, if still needs to be factually accurate because truth matters’.

I don’t get why you’re so angry at me. Do you need some flowers? 💐

I’m not angry at all.

Your post was referring to me so I picked up on it.

Bingbangbongbash · 07/07/2023 10:54

BartholemewHolmes · 07/07/2023 10:38

I was taking the piss out of someone

How lovely for us that you take the time.

Have you just joined from Twitter? Going by the tweet mention.

I’ve already apologised for that. so move on. You’re not exactly showing the best side of yourself right now, so we all occasionally get the tone wrong, don’t we?

The tweet ref was a way of saying ‘it doesn’t matter if it was a short post, or a character limited tweet, or a haiku, if still needs to be factually accurate because truth matters’.

I don’t get why you’re so angry at me. Do you need some flowers? 💐

Ridemeginger · 07/07/2023 10:50

Everyone seems to be forgetting about validation. If trans people were just living their own lives, they wouldn’t be demanding compulsory pronoun use, and the demand that the words that come out of our mouths about their sex don’t match the truth in our heads about who we are looking at. They are forcing everyone else to participate in their fantasy. It’s particularly egregious when this is pushed on young children who don’t have the maturity, life experience and reasoning skills to understand, but instinctively know a male and a female through all the instinctive knowledge with which evolution has pre programmed our brains. It’s also egregious and abusive in the courtroom, where female victims are forced to address their male attackers with female pronouns - essentially forced by the court to lie under oath.

dcbc1234 · 07/07/2023 10:44

AgathaSpencerGregson · 07/07/2023 08:19

Yes, and the lesson they want you to learn is what an awful person you are, what a terrible place your country is, and how you should be jolly well ashamed of yourself.

Yep I think that is why I no longer tune in. They are trying to induce mass depression and guilt in a listenership who used to switch on for comfort and familiarity (Archers, Sailing By, Sorry I Haven't Got A Clue, Just A Minute etc)

TheKeatingFive · 07/07/2023 10:40

Anyway, listener figures for radio 4 are falling off a cliff. It's toast.

TheKeatingFive · 07/07/2023 10:39

*Why on earth are people so personally invested in the way other people choose to live? It’s no-one’s business except those involved.

Except that it absolutely is everyone's business when trans identifying people want to access to opposite sex spaces and services, to appropriate sex specific language, to breastfeed infants without adequate safety data or safeguarding, to tell impressionable children and teens they could be 'born in the wrong body'.

I can't believe this still needs to be pointed out. Are people living under rocks?

BartholemewHolmes · 07/07/2023 10:38

Bingbangbongbash · 07/07/2023 10:26

I don’t really see why you’re getting all upset. I was taking the piss out of someone because they presented a fallacious argument. I apologised because it wasn’t kind. I also refuted the notion that someone had about me thinking only thick people read the right wing press by saying I personally know many clever, well-educated people that read it. And now you’re suggesting I have some personal issue with people of lesser education? Not at all. I think you might be projecting. In the course of my job, I spend lots of time with people of all walks of life. Usually we rub along just fine, thanks for asking.

I did have to tell someone to fuck off when they started telling me how my sort had ruined the country, but it was only the once.

I was taking the piss out of someone

How lovely for us that you take the time.

Have you just joined from Twitter? Going by the tweet mention.

Sirius3030 · 07/07/2023 10:36

Totally agree. I heard an opinion on a radio programme that I really disagreed with. So I stopped listening to radio. That will show them.

Greentree1 · 07/07/2023 10:35

I lose track of who's what in these discussions, so this is a woman living as a man (with another man or another woman living as I don't know what) who actually had a baby I assume by stopping taking the hormones that helped her live as a man (I assume she hadn't had physical alterations that would make it virtually impossible). But she still considers herself a man, but just a man that can have babies (with a bit of help from hormones). I guess if she really feels she is a man I sort of get what she is saying, convoluted though it is. But I would assume the number of people who would really think and live like that would be vanishingly small. And none of it makes her a biological male, just in her mind she's a man and she's reconciling the ability to have babies with her feelings of being male.

Bingbangbongbash · 07/07/2023 10:34

RoyalImpatience · 07/07/2023 10:31

Pravda /the truth...had a wide readership in soviet society.

It doesn't mean anything.

Agreed. I refer you to the most read paper: the Mail

jeaux90 · 07/07/2023 10:32

I used to be an avid fan, I can't deal with it anymore either I feel like I am being gaslighted and I had enough of that with my ex thanks.

Bingbangbongbash · 07/07/2023 10:32

Pluvia · 07/07/2023 10:30

I don’t really see why you’re getting all upset. I was taking the piss out of someone because they presented a fallacious argument. I apologised because it wasn’t kind. I also refuted the notion that someone had about me thinking only thick people read the right wing press by saying I personally know many clever, well-educated people that read it. And now you’re suggesting I have some personal issue with people of lesser education? Not at all. I think you might be projecting. In the course of my job, I spend lots of time with people of all walks of life. Usually we rub along just fine, thanks for asking.

I did have to tell someone to fuck off when they started telling me how my sort had ruined the country, but it was only the once.

Is that you, Jolyon? I'm surprised you aren't having to tell people to fuck off several times a day, frankly.

Is he the guy that bashed the fox?

RoyalImpatience · 07/07/2023 10:31

Pravda /the truth...had a wide readership in soviet society.

It doesn't mean anything.

Pluvia · 07/07/2023 10:30

I don’t really see why you’re getting all upset. I was taking the piss out of someone because they presented a fallacious argument. I apologised because it wasn’t kind. I also refuted the notion that someone had about me thinking only thick people read the right wing press by saying I personally know many clever, well-educated people that read it. And now you’re suggesting I have some personal issue with people of lesser education? Not at all. I think you might be projecting. In the course of my job, I spend lots of time with people of all walks of life. Usually we rub along just fine, thanks for asking.

I did have to tell someone to fuck off when they started telling me how my sort had ruined the country, but it was only the once.

Is that you, Jolyon? I'm surprised you aren't having to tell people to fuck off several times a day, frankly.

JustHereWithMyPopcorn · 07/07/2023 10:30

TheGreatATuin · 07/07/2023 08:05

We really should be leaving adults to live their own lives, how they choose.
I agree with this 100% but that ends when their choices affect others. I'm an old fashioned liberal. I don't much care what people do as long as they respect other people's rights.
I see this as very similar to the weird trend for 'surrendered wives'. It's deeply sexist and problematic, however if a few individual women chose it, that'd be their right, even if privately I'd have concerns.
However, if 'surrendered wives' and their husbands were suddenly lauded in all the left wing newspapers, changing laws to suit their beliefs to the detriment of all women, and were cheerleaded on Radio 4, then I sure as hell would be speaking up.
I don't see this as much different.
Like the surrendered wives, the trans movement is incredibly sexist and homophobic belief system, reliant on stereotypes and female people being put second.
You can't say 'leave people alone to live their lives' when what we're objecting to is those people pushing both legally and culturally to diminish women's rights and take the gay rights movement back decades.

Exactly this.

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