"This place" doesn't have a view to which participants must subscribe to join the conversation, as evidenced by the fact there are discussions and debates over many topics.
Threads wouldn't get so rowdy if everyone on here thought the same things, and that's a good thing, as it's important to be challenged and to stress-test one's own position and engage with others so that they can do the same.
Some people here will have a strong view on a subject and some people couldn't care less, so it's worth remembering that even if a few posters are vehemently against your position, that's not the MN view or the FWR view, and it's not necessarily even the standard radical feminism or liberal feminism view (even if they're convinced it is).
Sure, a poster can say "you can't be x if you think or do y", but their saying it doesn't make them correct, and it would be a shame to walk away from all the incredibly useful and valuable bits of MN FWR because you've mistaken a few vocal posters (including the ones who respond on this thread) as being the arbiters of the FWR/feminist/GC view and have concluded that you don't belong.
Personally I find it's often helpful to debate the differences between different notions of feminism, and to drill down to exactly why people believe that x view isn't compatible with a gender critical position, and so on. I've learned a great deal over the years from others on MN FWR, and also about what I really think on many issues, through the process of having my views challenged and defending and/or modifying my position, which has been incredibly valuable to me personally.
We're all just anonymous people without any collective agreement on anything, so please don't place too much weight on what any one poster (or random person criticising people elsewhere) says, and remember that they don't speak for everyone here, whether "here" means FWR, radical feminism, liberal feminism, gender critical people or whatever.