Adam Kay

Abusing women is fair game. It's allowed.

It's something to be celebrated for, not cancelled.

What he thinks about elderly women:

“with pelvic floors like quicksand and their uteri stalactite-ing into their thermals... And then a patient sneezes, you have to get a mop and bucket.”'

Women's bodies are so fucking hilarious, aren't they, when you don't have to live in one

It's not gallows humour. It's someone who is so fucking offensive he should be cancelled, and who we can only be greatful no longer goes anywhere near a vulnerable woman's body. Abuse isn't just smacking your girlfriend round after you've had a drink. Adam Kay abused women every time he opens his sad mouth to talk about them.

What he thinks about elderly women:

“with pelvic floors like quicksand and their uteri stalactite-ing into their thermals... And then a patient sneezes, you have to get a mop and bucket.”

He breached patient confidentiality repeatedly and traumatised women who had PTSD from a traumatic birth and then had him write about it for laughs and mega bucks. He is utterly repulsive.

Just read the lyrics, he's fucking awful.

Here is a song Adam Kay wrote and performed for years:

This is a national service announcement for all men
If you go to Bolton
If you go to Manchester
Or crewe
Newcastle, or Scarborough
York, or Scunthorp, Bradford, Barnsley too
Or Grimsby
Listen up to what we have to say
Northern birds are lazy ugly whores who smell of burgers
So don't have too much to drink
Or you might fuck one
And end up getting aids
There's nothing fun
To be found off the M1
Northern birds are lower class
Slags who take it up the arse
They're in the sack
After one cider and black
But they're fucking awful rides
and your dick won't touch the sides
Da-da-da-da-da-da
Da-da-da-da
Northern Birds
Da-da-da-da-da
If you really have to
Go up north then follow our advice
Fight away the women
Or you'll find yourself with Pubic lice
And herpes
Your much better staying in the South
Northern Birds
Are desperate ugly hippos dressed in Burberry
With a peanut for a brain
And an accent that makes you want to die
Now you've been warned
They're all physically deformed
Northern birds
Are all obese
And they're riddled with disease
Try to escape
Northern sex is worse than rape
Stay down south and mark my words
Stear well clear of northern birds
Northern birds
Northern birds

Adam Kay is a foul misogynist piece of shit and I feel sorry for his children. In the way I felt sorry for the women he humiliated and treated as comedy fodder in his books. His hatred of women and disgust at the female body shines through in every word.

I've never heard a Desert Island Discs like that.

I'm astonished to see someone advance the argument that he was forced into surrogacy because some of his issues in the past would have made him an unsuitable candidate for adoption of fostering. Poor babies. A baby deprived of its mother at birth needs a parent who would be assessed as competent by social services. Not one who is using surrogacy as a way around the fact that they wouldn't.

And some speak like that's fine and natural? I despair.

Wow, he's a foul and disgusting person. I hope that when he gets old or sick, his paid female carers and his surrogacy babies treat him with the warmth and kindness he has earned.

For the week or two preceeding
The days your other half is bleeding,
The moody bch is in a stress
Complaining about PMS

errr

right…

So you can have anything you want as long as you can pay for it?

Me too i couldnt stand him in the book. Condescending and full of self importance.
But the TV series i found moving and great actors.

Yep there's been threads on them.

I find this guy particularly repellent due to his books. I tried to watch the TV version but had to stop because I found the tone towards women so utterly awful. It's rare I will have such a strong negative reaction to anything on TV.

This is so not a surprise to me. And I didn't know he was gay.

Awful man. Hates women.

Agree. Dh is a Consultant he read Kay’s book and watched the TV series, his verdict was “Yeah he was never going to make it, didn’t have what it takes”. And Dh was also actually pissed off at Kay’s attitude towards his patients, when he comes across that sort of shit at work (which is very rare), he calls it out immediately.

I’d love him to have explained the mystifying decision to put two women through childbirth, so he could have a baby

Er, money? The women weren't forced into giving birth. If the couple wanted children, then there aren't many options.

On DID, AK seemed self absorbed and unpleasant

That's the one. If I got a bit of Adam Kay on the sole of my shoe I'd have to throw the pair away.

I imagine he views himself as a saviour, with desires to spread his genes to save womankind

https://unherd.com/2022/02/adam-kays-dangerous-misogyny/

'Women are reduced, consciously or not, to a series of stinking and repulsive orifices with imbeciles attached to them. The misogyny — the dehumanisation I am sure kills women — is relentless.'

This piece of work?

https://www.stlyrics.com/songs/a/adamkay26036/menstrualrag1115742.html

I really didn't like the way he spoke about women in this book. I hated it.

I did offer to be a surrogate once (not for money), as I couldn't bear to see the pain someone was going through. Perhaps that has coloured my view. I am aware that altruistic surrogacy is rare

And where does the child figure in this supposed 'altruism'? Being used as a tool to assuage an adult's pain, there is nothing altruistic about that.

Children are not commodities.

Fuck me Adam

just because it rhymes it doesn’t make it ok

and as for ‘you shouldn’t have babies at 53’, well yes, that’s biological reality for you

shall we try another one? How about ‘two men can’t make a baby’