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BernardBlacksMolluscs · 17/06/2023 11:46

Florissante · 17/06/2023 10:36

Ecuador came first for penis size.

Shock

heavens

so many questions regarding methodology, statistical significance, possible underlying factors...

Florissante · 17/06/2023 10:36

Ecuador came first for penis size.

DemiColon · 17/06/2023 03:14

longwayoff · 16/06/2023 16:28

DM, the paper for women. Nice little item comparing Breast size by country. Another doing the same with penises. Suppose that's for balance. And, dont get over excited, BloJo has been given a column. Daily Mail, the paper that knows what a woman is for and where her place is. Yay. Lucky us.

Gosh, and which countries were on top, so to speak?

(I'm not above a little prurient curiosity and don't see why anyone else needs to be either.)

CallieQ · 17/06/2023 00:58

@IcakethereforeIam
I don't see the relevance of your post it is offensive

CallieQ · 17/06/2023 00:17

Boris has found his natural home writing for the Daily Mail. They won’t mind the lies because it features untruths and distortions every day #BorisTheLiar

Florissante · 16/06/2023 20:33

longwayoff · 16/06/2023 16:28

DM, the paper for women. Nice little item comparing Breast size by country. Another doing the same with penises. Suppose that's for balance. And, dont get over excited, BloJo has been given a column. Daily Mail, the paper that knows what a woman is for and where her place is. Yay. Lucky us.

I was intrigued by the penis size article. Breasts, meh.

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 16/06/2023 17:38

longwayoff · 16/06/2023 16:28

DM, the paper for women. Nice little item comparing Breast size by country. Another doing the same with penises. Suppose that's for balance. And, dont get over excited, BloJo has been given a column. Daily Mail, the paper that knows what a woman is for and where her place is. Yay. Lucky us.

I'm convinced the DM does stuff like this purely to wind people like you up.

HareRaising · 16/06/2023 17:23

DdraigGoch · 16/06/2023 05:55

It's long had more female readers than male. It was even in Jim Hacker's "I know exactly who reads the papers" monologue:

Hacker: Don't tell me about the press. I know exactly who reads the papers: The Daily Mirror is read by people who think they run the country; The Guardian is read by people who think they ought to run the country; The Times is read by the people who actually do run the country; The Daily Mail is read by the wives of the people who run the country; The Financial Times is read by people who own the country; The Morning Star is read by people who think the country ought to be run by another country; and The Daily Telegraph is read by people who think it is.
Sir Humphrey: Oh and Prime Minister, what about the people who read The Sun?
Bernard: Sun readers don't care who runs the country as long as she's got big tits.

Superb!

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 16/06/2023 17:21

Yep, I wanna read the breast size article too! Does it really vary significantly by country??

PorcelinaV · 16/06/2023 17:19

HareRaising · 16/06/2023 16:57

Well no one is making you read it!

I want to read that article. Link?

EdithStourton · 16/06/2023 17:01

@OldGardinia
I got a very definite disapproving tone from some of your posts especially regarding women who regret some of their choices work wise and now prefer to spend time with their kids. Would that more had the luxury of the choice! You fairly clearly were casting their viewpoints as propaganda but if that's what they feel why shouldn't they say that to others as a heads-up.
Yep, I picked that up too. As someone who largely stayed at home with her DC, felt very judged by a number of self-described feminists for doing so and also felt like something of a non-person for a while as a result, I'm quite sensitive to this. For us, it was the sanest choice given our circumstances, but it didn't stop me feeling that I was letting the side down somehow.

Also @DdraigGoch thank you for the Jim Hacker quote - I'd forgotten how funny it was.

HareRaising · 16/06/2023 16:57

longwayoff · 16/06/2023 16:28

DM, the paper for women. Nice little item comparing Breast size by country. Another doing the same with penises. Suppose that's for balance. And, dont get over excited, BloJo has been given a column. Daily Mail, the paper that knows what a woman is for and where her place is. Yay. Lucky us.

Well no one is making you read it!

longwayoff · 16/06/2023 16:28

DM, the paper for women. Nice little item comparing Breast size by country. Another doing the same with penises. Suppose that's for balance. And, dont get over excited, BloJo has been given a column. Daily Mail, the paper that knows what a woman is for and where her place is. Yay. Lucky us.

DdraigGoch · 16/06/2023 05:55

BodgerLovesMashedPotato · 14/06/2023 11:04

Please tell me you're on the wind up?! 😂
Daily Mail, the paper for women.
I've heard it all now.

It's long had more female readers than male. It was even in Jim Hacker's "I know exactly who reads the papers" monologue:

Hacker: Don't tell me about the press. I know exactly who reads the papers: The Daily Mirror is read by people who think they run the country; The Guardian is read by people who think they ought to run the country; The Times is read by the people who actually do run the country; The Daily Mail is read by the wives of the people who run the country; The Financial Times is read by people who own the country; The Morning Star is read by people who think the country ought to be run by another country; and The Daily Telegraph is read by people who think it is.
Sir Humphrey: Oh and Prime Minister, what about the people who read The Sun?
Bernard: Sun readers don't care who runs the country as long as she's got big tits.

ScrollingLeaves · 15/06/2023 23:56

Has any newspaper or television or radio news mentioned the debate on 12th about clarifying the EA protected characteristic of ‘Sex’?

RedToothBrush · 15/06/2023 23:43

A note on Mail Readership:

During the week the Daily Mail actually only sells 683,530 copies per day, but this swells to a mighty 1.3 million on Saturdays.

In terms of readership, the Daily Mail says this equates to two million readers per day Monday to Friday and 2.9 million on a Saturday with people sharing copies.

According to the Daily Mail, its readers skew 54% female to 46% male. Some 83% are said to be homeowners and 69% own their homes outright.
Some 63% are ABC1 (upper and middle class) and some 366,000 are said to have savings of more £100,000.

The Daily Mail's website reaches some 24 million readers per month in the UK (around half the online audience). This equates to a daily online audience of around four million in the UK.
According to the Daily Mail, the average age of a reader is 56.

https://pressgazette.co.uk/publishers/nationals/who-reads-the-daily-mail-circulation-and-readership/

The Mail is the ONLY newspaper which has a higher number of female readers than male readers. It has a higher number of professionals who read it than any of the other tabloids.

To dismiss it as irrelevant or dumbed down or bigoted or even misogynist tends to ignore a lot of these demographic trends. It's a difficult argument to qualify.

We know it tends to attract a higher % of white readers than some other newspapers but it's still got a high number of minority readers.

I believe it does have one of the oldest readerships too BUT it's not losing readers at the highest rate and the key thing is it's market share in the online market - 50% really isn't to be sniffed at.

And THAT is why it's publishing articles like it is.

The argument is that newspapers manipulate the audience - that's only true to an extent. Newspapers have to appeal to their audience in order to have readers. They can't do that if they don't publish stories that the audience isn't interested in reading in the first place. They have to put out stories that the audience feel is relevant.

The right wing / left wing bias only holds to a certain extent as part of that.

We also know that women aged 30 - 50 are particularly key swing voters.

But one of my big concerns is that the Cons will not push the EA clarification issue on sex ahead BEFORE the election for this very reason. It is a key policy to use to persuade voters. In this way they may cynically sell women down river.

Who reads the Daily Mail? Why biggest print title still has a huge influence

Who reads the Daily Mail? Detailed readership insight revealing why the UK's biggest daily wields such huge power.

https://pressgazette.co.uk/publishers/nationals/who-reads-the-daily-mail-circulation-and-readership

Plunkplink · 15/06/2023 22:30

Regarding the photos of women in the daily Mail. It’s a known thing that women like looking at pictures of women, men also like looking at women but the two generally have a different gaze.

ArabeIIaScott · 15/06/2023 21:28

DemiColon · 15/06/2023 17:48

How do you see that playing out?

I suspect that a lot of the stuff that is being pegged as anti-women is actually there to appeal mainly to women. Celebrity gossip, stuff about clothes, the royals, etc - those are things many women like to read about and engage with.

The exception might be some of the racier photos, but even then, I'm not sure it's always the case. Many women's pulp type fashion mags are full of skimpy clothed pictures of women. It's not like women are always nice, middle school nastiness, among other things, is also part of who we can be.

I could see them having more diversity in the views of their writers, that seems to fit them pretty well really, but not getting rid of things that appeal to a lot of women.

I wonder if they are finding a new audience among so many who are unable to find reporting on some stories elsewhere. And whether when they get engagement on some stories it encourages more of that ilk.

turbonerd · 15/06/2023 21:05

HareRaising · 15/06/2023 17:42

Superb post. I too am right wing and unapologetic about it.

I will come across as a bit dim now, but would you want to explain a little what are the right wing views you hold?
(as opposed to what is condidered left in the UK).
I haven’t lived in the UK for over 10 years, and the political landscape seem to have sort of shifted so I am curious.

To offer some of my own views to show I am asking in good faith, I notice my tolerance for violent offenders and my view on the possibility for rehabilitation for violent offenders has changed to thinking it doesn’t work as well as I hoped.
I am also more in favour of keeping a fairly strict asylum policy - to facilitate integration into our society and values.

SpicyMoth · 15/06/2023 20:33

OldGardinia · 15/06/2023 18:12

@SerafinasGoose
"My post has never been a reduction of this thread to the never-ending WOHM vs. SAHM (what passes for) ‘debate’, nor have I ever made a judgement against other women on those threads. I find the whole discussion mind-numbingly tedious, a treadmill to nowhere."

I think you've over-extended yourself here. I got a very definite disapproving tone from some of your posts especially regarding women who regret some of their choices work wise and now prefer to spend time with their kids. Would that more had the luxury of the choice! You fairly clearly were casting their viewpoints as propaganda but if that's what they feel why shouldn't they say that to others as a heads-up. I know quite a few women who feel the social expectations on them when young led them down a path they at least partly regret. And I suspect you don't think feminism sets "social expectations" but I assure you for a lot of Middle Class women over the past few decades it absolutely has. I think now we are happily seeing a counter-movement which is bringing it back to a more neutral state of "women should have the same opportunities and be free to choose" rather than "women should be men but better". Sadly whilst the former is the type of feminism I grew up with, the latter is what most of the general public think of as "Feminism". Which is why most women don't identify as feminists.

And I think a significant part of that is the way the Progressive Left entwined itself with the feminist movement, to the point that we have people to this day who consider Feminism intrinsically a Left Wing position and get quite upset by right-wing feminists and think it's a contradiction in terms. Sadly for Feminism the Progressive Left has a new favourite cause to ride on which is the trans movement. They just weren't getting many gains anymore out of women as a minority cause.

I say "sadly for feminism" but honestly it's quite good. Disentangling women's rights from socialists and "gender is a product of colonialism nuclear family boo deconstruct society" types makes it a lot easier to support women's rights without finding yourself supporting a whole lot of other baggage you don't agree with. It even means you can read the Daily Mail and be a feminist, if that's how you choose to self-describe.

I want to add one more thing. You said that media manipulation is very subtle. In fact, most of the time, it is not. It's Dylan Murphey's face on a beer can, it's Pink News turning off the comments section everytime their article is about trans women, it's stories about how Gadaffi is issuing viagra to the Libyan army to better rape rebels, it's out and out lies about what someone said. It's been shown that the media is actually quite poor and changing what people think. What it's very good at is controlling what people think about. And for that, it's pretty vital that organs like the Daily Mail are not allowing this discussion to be so one-sided or memory holed entirely.

I'm not being over-dramatic when I say there are very powerful forces with very deep pockets pushing much of this agenda. Most propaganda isn't effective because it convinces people. It's effective because it intimidates people. When the symbols and the message is everywhere and powerful people keep trumpeting it, that's a challenge to people to dare to oppose it and be punished as an example, and if not feel quietly powerless. The former is of course just a means of achieving the latter. If there's a single point in my post that is most important it is this. Being unconvinced by propaganda doesn't mean it hasn't worked. It's purpose is to silence dissent.

I honestly haven't seen anything in the Daily Mail that tells me that its readership are terrible people and it's some kind of devil's bargain that will bring a lot of terrible things along with criticizing the current trans lobby. Your criticism seems to be largely along the lines of it being generally pro-nuclear family and having women writing in it who (rather fortunately) seem to be able to espouse raising kids.

Wholly agree with everything here, first paragraph is very much the impression I got from reading through this thread - you've put it far better than I did though!

SunnyEgg · 15/06/2023 19:50

SerafinasGoose · 15/06/2023 19:32

Both fair points. It's interesting that feminists have been referred to by this lobby as 'fascists' (and worse). It's a two-edged sword, with the argument about 'radical' feminists supposedly being tainted by association with the likes of the US Christian alt-right. The idea of myself, for one, as a pro-lifer who seeks the denial of abortion and women's bodily autonomy is particularly left of field (forgive the expression).

But because the left's traditionally been the ground on which battles for the marginalized have been fought, a betrayal from that direction somehow stings so much more than when it comes from the right.

On reflection, you're right. They need to be made answerable, and shouldn't be given an easy out.

Language is a battle ground and apart from pointless insults it’s a tactic by TRAs to try to silence women

Fascist has no more meaning than ‘cis’ or ‘assigned at birth’ or ‘non men’

All designed to attack women and remove their voice and reality

SerafinasGoose · 15/06/2023 19:32

SunnyEgg · 15/06/2023 19:17

It really does. There’s a reason the media on the centre left are not being linked or quoted on this but the Telegraph to the DM are

Add in politicians and left wing organisations and it’s massively taken hold

Pp can’t berate others for reading right wing press at the same time as claiming it’s not a left wing issue - it’s only one side of the media for a reason

Both fair points. It's interesting that feminists have been referred to by this lobby as 'fascists' (and worse). It's a two-edged sword, with the argument about 'radical' feminists supposedly being tainted by association with the likes of the US Christian alt-right. The idea of myself, for one, as a pro-lifer who seeks the denial of abortion and women's bodily autonomy is particularly left of field (forgive the expression).

But because the left's traditionally been the ground on which battles for the marginalized have been fought, a betrayal from that direction somehow stings so much more than when it comes from the right.

On reflection, you're right. They need to be made answerable, and shouldn't be given an easy out.

SunnyEgg · 15/06/2023 19:17

HareRaising · 15/06/2023 19:14

We'll leave aside whether TRA falls under the banner of 'progressive left'. To my mind this is old-school, right-wing, male rights activism

Your post was not aimed at me but I really disagree with you on this point. Transactivism is not 'falling under the banner' of the progressive left - it is actively championed at every turn by the Left. So much so that the Left see the 'what is a woman' question as bigotry in itself and refuse to answer.

Yes there are right wing misogynists of course but I think that the Left needs to own this shit.

It really does. There’s a reason the media on the centre left are not being linked or quoted on this but the Telegraph to the DM are

Add in politicians and left wing organisations and it’s massively taken hold

Pp can’t berate others for reading right wing press at the same time as claiming it’s not a left wing issue - it’s only one side of the media for a reason

HareRaising · 15/06/2023 19:14

We'll leave aside whether TRA falls under the banner of 'progressive left'. To my mind this is old-school, right-wing, male rights activism

Your post was not aimed at me but I really disagree with you on this point. Transactivism is not 'falling under the banner' of the progressive left - it is actively championed at every turn by the Left. So much so that the Left see the 'what is a woman' question as bigotry in itself and refuse to answer.

Yes there are right wing misogynists of course but I think that the Left needs to own this shit.