You didn't mention the material reality of a dead 28 week baby in both scenarios.
The reality of this is not dependent on the women's emotions about the baby.
You judge the whole debate based on women's feelings only, this is the only reality for you.
It is the same as Trans ideology where only their feelings matter and must be elevated above all else regardless of consequences for others.
They're sacrificing kids fertility in the purity of the 'my feelings & lived experience trump all' ideology. But at least they're not killing babies.
You are underpinned by the same epistemology.