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No I don't want a pride sticker thank you, I just want my pint of milk

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AutisticLegoLover · 10/06/2023 22:30

I was asked at my local Co-op earlier if I wanted a pride sticker with my pint of milk. No, I don't. I just want to shop without pride this that and the other. It was the alphabet soup flag version. The overly enthusiastic young man was quite taken aback by my I certainly do not response but I am so fed up of it being everywhere and what does it even mean anymore? I'm all for everyone having equal human rights. That's it.
I've had so many emails from M&S, Waitrose, Co-op, and others all about supporting pride month. Vinted now flashes a rainbow heart before it turns red when I favourite items.
The young man in question above is far too over familiar and needs to tone it đown a bit from scarily wishing my teenager a pleasant existence to just normal pleasant customer service. I could have asked him what the sticker was all about and got into a discussion with him but that's not his job and I don't want to get banned 😁
The heat makes me cranky but I've seriously had enough of this now. Will it ever stop or will more and more be added to that rather full flag of many colours until the original meaning is completely lost? Will we ever be able to shop without identity politics coming into it?

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spurs4ever · 11/06/2023 07:31

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Demonstrating exactly why the Pride movement was founded originally. It's a preference not a kink.

Ijustliveaquietlife · 11/06/2023 07:26

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Wow really? You sound very Homophobic!

Gtsr443 · 11/06/2023 07:21

Maybe they should have given you an "I'm not homophobic but ..." sticker instead.

D1Yer · 11/06/2023 07:16

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What a rude and ignorant post. Homosexuality is not a "kink"

canigetitmyself · 11/06/2023 07:11

I wouldn't want a sticker either because where would i stick it? On my Maths homework book?

55balloons · 11/06/2023 07:10

@ilovesooty no I haven't. Thousands of Lgb people including close friends of mine are boycotting pride as if no longer represents them. Other groups have muscled in & taken over. Let's not pretend otherwise.
There's another thread on here about pride being toned down this year & many lgb posters commented about why they are no longer supporting. Have a read.

Abhannmor · 11/06/2023 06:50

ilovesooty · 11/06/2023 06:02

I hope everyone who has seen that comment as homophobic has reported it as hate speech.

I haven't. If Pride marches were all about gay people I'd have reported it like a shot. But they aren't of course.

Don't be disingenuous Sooty. And stop with this cancelling crap. It's what brought us to this sorry pass in the first place.

CASCASCAS · 11/06/2023 06:38

@MaydinEssex

Dear me
What a poor choice of vocabulary.

Crikeyalmighty · 11/06/2023 06:33

Ok - I may get bashed for this but I do get fed up of the whole LGBT scene constantly being in the news/media. I don't care a monkeys what peoples sexuality is, I'm not remotely homophobic- - and it all seems to be largely about Trans too- it's rarely about two sensible 58 year old women together etc . If the LGBT crowd quite rightly expect normalisation then don't go around constantly expecting to be made a giant fuss of.

littleblackcat27 · 11/06/2023 06:12

AutisticLegoLover · 10/06/2023 22:30

I was asked at my local Co-op earlier if I wanted a pride sticker with my pint of milk. No, I don't. I just want to shop without pride this that and the other. It was the alphabet soup flag version. The overly enthusiastic young man was quite taken aback by my I certainly do not response but I am so fed up of it being everywhere and what does it even mean anymore? I'm all for everyone having equal human rights. That's it.
I've had so many emails from M&S, Waitrose, Co-op, and others all about supporting pride month. Vinted now flashes a rainbow heart before it turns red when I favourite items.
The young man in question above is far too over familiar and needs to tone it đown a bit from scarily wishing my teenager a pleasant existence to just normal pleasant customer service. I could have asked him what the sticker was all about and got into a discussion with him but that's not his job and I don't want to get banned 😁
The heat makes me cranky but I've seriously had enough of this now. Will it ever stop or will more and more be added to that rather full flag of many colours until the original meaning is completely lost? Will we ever be able to shop without identity politics coming into it?

Shock

It is just a sticker - I would suggest get over it as there are a lot of other things that are more concerning in the world.

ilovesooty · 11/06/2023 06:02

ODFODPurlease · 11/06/2023 04:41

Literally this! Blatant homophobia.

I hope everyone who has seen that comment as homophobic has reported it as hate speech.

Abhannmor · 11/06/2023 06:00

oOiluvfriendsOo · 10/06/2023 23:33

Heterosexual people can have kinks too you know.....you do sound homophobic.

I think the point OP was making is just that. Pride has been been taken over by myriad ' identities' that have nothing to do with being gay or bi?

DreamTheMoors · 11/06/2023 05:35

MumblesParty · 11/06/2023 00:54

I’m not homophobic. But why do we have to have a whole month of rainbows everywhere? It’s just annoying. It makes me feel like I'm being told what to think all the time.

It’s just to piss you off.

Smallonesaremorejuicy · 11/06/2023 05:22

MyNameisMathilda · 10/06/2023 23:43

We have a Pride knitted top on the village postbox.

Love those knitted / crochet hats

WordsandSentences · 11/06/2023 04:49

55balloons · 10/06/2023 23:46

@KnitMePurlMe because companies are thinking about their bottom like. Their goal is to make a profit. The tq links have received huge backlash.. Look at Bud lite, Target & Nike in the US.. Innocent smoothies, Oxfam etc.. Because they championed tq ideologies.
That's why lgb need to break away pronto. The TRAs have completely taken over the Pride parade in many towns & cities. My lgb friends avoid the parade for this very reason & don't support Pride.

That is a great typo 🤣

ODFODPurlease · 11/06/2023 04:41

BodegaSushi · 11/06/2023 01:30

Homophobic. Being gay is not a kink

Literally this! Blatant homophobia.

ODFODPurlease · 11/06/2023 04:40

oOiluvfriendsOo · 10/06/2023 23:33

Heterosexual people can have kinks too you know.....you do sound homophobic.

Agree.

TheMurderousGoose · 11/06/2023 04:22

MumblesParty · 11/06/2023 00:54

I’m not homophobic. But why do we have to have a whole month of rainbows everywhere? It’s just annoying. It makes me feel like I'm being told what to think all the time.

'I'm not homophobic but...'

TheMurderousGoose · 11/06/2023 04:20

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being gay is a kink?

yikes.

Startwithamimosa · 11/06/2023 03:44

Maddy70 · 10/06/2023 23:05

You were offered. You declined. Can't see the issue

Exactly

starfishmummy · 11/06/2023 01:59

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I don't want a sticker because I'm not 5!

Exactly this! And that would apply to any sticker, not just a Pride one.

BodegaSushi · 11/06/2023 01:30

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Homophobic. Being gay is not a kink

LifeIsPainHighness · 11/06/2023 01:19

My local Sainsburys has a permanent poster outside that says “We support the LGBTQ+ community”.

HOW?!

By putting a poster up?

It’s so fucking patronising and meaningless. Gay people have spent decades fighting homophobia and lobbying for equality, I highly doubt they ever thought “Wow I just wish a supermarket would have a rainbow poster”

DiscoBeat · 11/06/2023 01:05

Very homophobic post!

55balloons · 11/06/2023 01:03

Two not too!