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NyanBinaryJohn · 09/06/2023 10:15

Yet the Trans movement wonder why anti trans sentiment is growing.

Haven, it's because of men like you ruining female owned businesses for your own perverted kink. Racist, misogynist and a narcissist, all rolled in a bit of hair dye.

And the Judge? You are no female ally. You are simply a pathetic handmaiden willing to shit on the traditions of generations or Koreans, all for the sake of one pathetic white man in a dress. Racist and misogynist. Not fit to practice.

I hope the business are sensible and simply fold, take whatever money they have, rather than hold on and go bankrupt.

This is an old post from Haven which the DM kindly shared. He really does intensely hate what he can never truly be.

Bearded femme gains legal access to female only nude spa
forgotmyusername1 · 09/06/2023 09:58

Simonlebonbon · 09/06/2023 09:52

I saw this in trending so I didn't realise the actual issue but I rode over on my soapbox ready to defend my PCOS sisters, I've a few friends with this and some have better beards than your average hells angel!

Anyway hairy ladies, you need me to defend you somewhere more relevant, we ride at dawn!

this is you right now

love it

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ginghamstarfish · 09/06/2023 09:53

Disgusting bastard. So he'll be in there alone, as the female customers will hav left, shortly followed by the female staff and then even he won't go anymore because no 'naked ladies' to perv on. Then the business will go bust. What the fuck is wrong with those people who say this is ok, and pass laws to say so?

Simonlebonbon · 09/06/2023 09:52

I saw this in trending so I didn't realise the actual issue but I rode over on my soapbox ready to defend my PCOS sisters, I've a few friends with this and some have better beards than your average hells angel!

Anyway hairy ladies, you need me to defend you somewhere more relevant, we ride at dawn!

PrivateEyeToothpaste · 09/06/2023 09:51

I go to a ‘swimwear optional’ spa in the UK, with alternate male and female sessions. Over half of the women that attend arrive and depart wearing headscarves and modest clothing. If their religion and/or culture means that they don’t show their hair to men I can only assume they certainly wouldn’t want a male to see their naked (or even swimming costume-clad) body. What about their religious rights?

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 09/06/2023 09:51

georgarina · 09/06/2023 08:50

They are common in Asia. I've been to them. They are also common in other cultures ie Judaism. It's a private female-only space based on cultural tradition, not a free spirited nudist thing.

This. It's no different from women feeling able to be naked in a changing room.

DdraigGoch · 09/06/2023 09:47

ShimmeringShirts · 09/06/2023 09:10

He has a full 5 o’clock shadow, something I’ve never seen on any woman alive, not even on real women who are prone to facial hair themselves.

Some photos showed a full beard

Bubblyb00b · 09/06/2023 09:46

I@Littlesprouts I know, this is ridiculous - not "Korean spa", but "naked lady spa", wtf

Amazing how easy it is for these people to shit on any culture they come across.

Littlesprouts · 09/06/2023 09:44

A bit off topic - surprised many here dont know what Korean spa is, its not usually described as "naked lady spa"

That was how the trans litigant described the win on social media if you didn't see that, not my words by the way!

I agree it would be funny if a kid described it as such, or it was an in joke or something. A fully intact male trying to get in - not so much...

Bubblyb00b · 09/06/2023 09:40

BTW - there is a man equivalent, too, they get different kind of treatment there, like massage etc

Bubblyb00b · 09/06/2023 09:39

A bit off topic - surprised many here dont know what Korean spa is, its not usually described as "naked lady spa" - this description is hilarious - but yes, its for ladies and you usually are naked in there - you can wear underpants, but its not very comfortable.

There are usually several steam rooms, like one made of jade, one with charcoal, etc; a couple of jacuzzies, one with herbs; you get all relaxed and steamed up and then you can get a whole body scrub from a professional. After that, some lovely Korean food and you can also have a nap on a raised heated platform, soooo lovely.

Having someone there who would make you feel on edge would definitely ruin the whole experience.

Twoshoesnewshoes · 09/06/2023 09:32

This is sickening, and scary, the implications in law are really worrying.

Alltheprettyseahorses · 09/06/2023 09:31

I can't believe a man has won in court for the right to access non-consenting naked women. It is state-mandated sex abuse. But then I heard Biden's deranged trans-obsessed rant yesterday, if Sunak had any gumption he'd have pulled him up. How on earth do these idiots get allowed near power?

Bubblyb00b · 09/06/2023 09:30

TBH I really hope this is just a stunt. Why would anyone want to use a place where you clearly will not be welcomed, especially after the court case? I doubt Korean ladies working it the spa (and most of them, from my experience, are middle aged, old fashioned and speak little to no English) will be going out of their way to be polite.

Also, I think (or at least I hope) once this "lady" gets an erection or makes any other sexual moves towards other customers the spa will have a legitimate reason to ban.

feebeecat · 09/06/2023 09:25

WTF?? When will this madness end.
As an “incidental female”, I guess I should know my incidental place and just shut up. Bet his mother is proud of him

Littlesprouts · 09/06/2023 09:23

georgarina · 09/06/2023 08:52

And again, a 'woman' whose only move is to oppress women and invade their spaces, not caring about the discomfort this causes. Not very sisterly.

This has really made my skin crawl. As if any woman would announce they were off to the "naked lady spa". Just alarm bells all the way. I feel so sorry for the spa.

dimorphism · 09/06/2023 09:16

dreamonlucid · 09/06/2023 07:59

I've been to a nude spa in Austria, one in Amsterdam. Not really common in the Uk, but elsewhere they exist.

I've been to mixed sex ones, but if I'd booked to a female only and a man walked in I'd be seriously pissed off.

This is such a big issue and I can't believe they're allowed to advertise something as 'woman only' when it's obviously not. It's fraudulent, it's deception.

Even if you personally believe 'woman' relates to gender not sex, it's obvious that a large majority of the population uses a sex-based definition (the only definition until 5 minutes ago) so it should be a responsibility of the business to make it clear what they mean e.g. 'woman only' (by this we mean anyone with a gender identity of 'woman', not female only) or something.

If they don't do that, they're exposing women to what they may consider sexual assault.

forgotmyusername1 · 09/06/2023 09:13

feel sorry for the spa here

They will lose a lot of business over this. By plastering it on facebook his 'female' friends will probably all decide to join as they know they can't be stopped. He will probably end up wondering around with his 'female' friends going - dude, where's the dickless chicks?

ShimmeringShirts · 09/06/2023 09:10

He has a full 5 o’clock shadow, something I’ve never seen on any woman alive, not even on real women who are prone to facial hair themselves.

PriOn1 · 09/06/2023 09:00

I hope this gets lots of publicity. The reality is that the spa may have to close. The staff refuse to work with men and few women will want to use it. These men are sickening.

Nicecow · 09/06/2023 08:57

Cakencookieobsessed · 09/06/2023 07:56

It's wrong they're allowing it but anyone getting nude in a public spa probably doesn't care. Who even goes to these places??

Not my thing, but lots of doggerel cultures have this

georgarina · 09/06/2023 08:52

And again, a 'woman' whose only move is to oppress women and invade their spaces, not caring about the discomfort this causes. Not very sisterly.

georgarina · 09/06/2023 08:50

Cakencookieobsessed · 09/06/2023 07:56

It's wrong they're allowing it but anyone getting nude in a public spa probably doesn't care. Who even goes to these places??

They are common in Asia. I've been to them. They are also common in other cultures ie Judaism. It's a private female-only space based on cultural tradition, not a free spirited nudist thing.

Bubblyb00b · 09/06/2023 08:35

WTF, I have used traditional Korean spa while living in LA - they are very intimate spaces, you are literally sitting in the jacuzzi, lying in sauna, standing in the shower very close to other women, this is not a nude beach scenario, how can you relax when there is a man there?!