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Fuck Oxfam

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DismantledKing · 05/06/2023 21:55

Anyone seen the tweet by Maya tonight about this little animation by Oxfam? Here’s the link:

https://twitter.com/mforstater/status/1665817901327085568?s=46&t=U7-xooKExwmFQ8mivn72lw

as I said, fuck Oxfam.

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Musomama1 · 06/06/2023 07:49

PotteringPondering · 05/06/2023 22:36

I know everybody bangs on about Nazis, and it's usually a ludicrous overreaction.

But that image really is in the style of Nazi caricatures of 'evil' Jews. The evil, scheming, hateful TERF.

FFS.

That comparison spring to my mind too

DrBlackbird · 06/06/2023 07:47

It really is hard to believe that Oxfam, as one of the biggest uk based charities, has created this content. First, it looks so childish and the tone of the message is childish on what is a serious topic. Second, it is so utterly racist with the skin colouring of ‘black’ and ‘yellow’ (!!) men and those faces.

As if created by some very young, very uninformed teenagers. I can hardly believe that this had the sign off from Oxfam head office. I assumed lessons had been learned after Haiti, but, all told, and going by the additional information provided on this thread, I won’t be donating to or buying from them anymore.

Jantlet · 06/06/2023 07:44

Just peeling my gift aid label off a box of nice stuff which was headed their way this morning.

Never again.

MurielThrockmorton · 06/06/2023 07:41

Oxfam UK has suspended their Twitter account. Someone said the film is from Oxfam International, although I presume Oxfam UK shared it. Anyway they are obviously worried, whether it will make any difference though who knows….

Fuck Oxfam
inamarina · 06/06/2023 07:33

ResisterRex · 05/06/2023 22:25

Oxfam is a lost cause. This was June 2021:

www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2021/06/09/oxfam-training-guide-blames-privileged-white-women-root-causes/

"An Oxfam staff training document says “privileged white women” are supporting the root causes of sexual violence by wanting "bad men" imprisoned.
In the wake of sex scandals that have rocked the charity, Oxfam has produced guidance which states that: “Mainstream feminism centres on privileged white women and demands that ‘bad men’ be fired or imprisoned”.
Accompanied by a cartoon of a crying white woman, it adds that this “legitimises criminal punishment, harming black and other marginalised people”.
It advises staff to read a controversial book which concludes: “Mainstream feminism is supporting, not undoing, the root causes of sexual violence.”
Oxfam said that the training was voluntary, and the views are not presented as its own but designed to help staff understand the issues.
However, the charity was warned on Wednesday night that the document, compiled by its LGBT network and seen by The Telegraph, could breach equality laws as it suggests reporting rape is "contemptible".
The four-week “learning journey” recommends that staff read Me Not You: The Trouble with Mainstream Feminism, a book by Alison Phipps, a professor of gender studies at the University of Sussex.
Summarising the book’s central premise, the Oxfam document says white feminists need to ask themselves whether they are causing harm when they fight sexual violence.
It then links to Prof Phipps’s Twitter account and a thread which summarises the main themes of the book, including: “White feminist tears deploy white woundedness, and the sympathy it generates, to hide the harms we perpetuate through white supremacy.”
Naomi Cunningham, a discrimination and employment law barrister, says the document may breach the Equality Actt_, which bans harassment in the workplace on the basis of sex.
“The message seems to be that a woman who reports a rape or sexual assault to the police and presses charges is a contemptible ‘white feminist’,” said Ms Cunningham. “I think any woman could make an arguable case that this has created or contributed to ‘an intimidating, hostile, degrading, humiliating or offensive environment’, which is how the Equality Act defines harassment.”
Learning About Trans Rights and Inclusion was drawn up in 2020, whilst Oxfam was still reeling from sexual exploitation scandals in Haiti and Chad.
The charity suffered further blows in April this year, when a female aid worker quit alleging that there was a “toxic culture” and her sexual harassment complaint had been ignored, and it faced separate allegations of sexual misconduct in the Democratic Republic of Congo."

"An Oxfam staff training document says “privileged white women” are supporting the root causes of sexual violence by wanting "bad men" imprisoned.
“Mainstream feminism is supporting, not undoing, the root causes of sexual violence.”
“legitimises criminal punishment, harming black and other marginalised people”.

🤯

How do people come up with this?
How can someone write it down, and someone else (presumably) sign it off to be published?
How can anyone look at this twisted drivel and think ‘Yep, that’s exactly how it is. Let’s put it out there.’

WomanIsEnough · 06/06/2023 07:26

Please find your local small charity dealing with poverty or similar and volunteer with them instead they are likely to be struggling as most of the money from trusts goes to the big charities with their big fundraising teams.

My heart hurts for the recipients of international aid as money donated in good faith gets spent producing hate material like this instead. Angry

WarriorN · 06/06/2023 07:26

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 06/06/2023 06:50

Apologies if I’ve missed someone else posting this

I'm really not surprised by that given what I know of oxfam employees.

PronounssheRa · 06/06/2023 07:05

Misogynistic and racist. Well done oxfam.

I can't boycott because I haven't give them a penny since I found out about the sexual abuse in Haiti.

Floisme · 06/06/2023 07:03

I wonder where Oxfam shops would be without the middle aged and elderly women they so clearly despise?

I know students volunteer too but they're only about two thirds of the year. Retired women are their backbone, at least round here.

(Sorry if that's been said a zillion times already but I'm too cross to read the whole thread first.)

OldGardinia · 06/06/2023 06:50

Years back I fundrose for Oxfam. Raised over £50,000. I remember someone coming up to me and telling me how corrupt the people running Oxfam were. I was a younger gardinia then and I'm afraid it all just bounced off my arrogant assurance that he was some xenophobic bigot. I don't recall actually engaging with his arguments at all - just repeating the Oxfam lines. He walked off and I'm afraid I probably had a smug smile on my face.

It's amazing how arrogantly certain of our moral superiority we can be when we are young. And how easily we can be used because of it.

This is everywhere. Universities are churning out people whose main skill set is to support each other into getting into leadership positions and then repurposing the organization to other ends. It will take active organization to stop it.

Motnight · 06/06/2023 06:20

That is awful.

BarleySugars · 06/06/2023 06:02

Wow. That article about reporting rape being contemptible! Oxfam should be shut down!

Xoxoxoxoxoxox · 06/06/2023 05:55

Who do they think supports charities and buys from their shops?
They are certainly living in a bubble.

EpicChaos · 06/06/2023 01:32

For anyone stopping their direct debits/standing orders, make sure you check if you need to do so directly from your bank, not just expecting oxfam to stop taking the money.

IcakethereforeIam · 06/06/2023 01:31

Seems to be from OxfamIndia, would that explain it. The person got mixed up with the country.

I nearly went in an Oxfam on Sunday, then I remembered I wasn't spending my money there because of their previous misogyny. I'm glad I didn't because this...this is off the charts.

EasterBreak · 06/06/2023 01:28

I work in a sector where many of my colleagues have worked for Oxfam in the past and some of the stuff that went on and was covered up is awful. Not very charity focused. More money making.

HeddaGarbled · 06/06/2023 01:17

I’ve just emailed to cancel my subscription and the automatic reply says they’re “experiencing higher volumes”.

Toxicityofourcity · 06/06/2023 01:10

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 05/06/2023 22:43

I don't normally do boycotting, but I think it's safe to say that I'm now done with Oxfam

they can get to fuck

Likewise

BlueIbex · 06/06/2023 00:58

It feels like we've fallen down the rabbit hole. I don't understand how everyone isn't completely outraged. How can anyone nod away and support all of this?

EdithStourton · 06/06/2023 00:42

They're being ratioed to fuck in the comments below the YouTube video

Good.

dimorphism · 06/06/2023 00:27

On a practical point, I seriously doubt that Oxfam is effective in channelling money raised to disasters. They've shown they're untrustworthy and I bet that's financial as well as moral. There are other charities who operate more effectively in disaster situations, where more of the money gets to the people in need. Even on that narrow metric alone, Oxfam is not the best bet. A lot of the big charities have lots of staff on big salaries and high overheads - smaller charities seem to be a lot better at getting money to people in need as well as being transparent, and also tend not to patronise and bully the people they're supposed to be helping (what if the people in disaster zones believe in biological reality i.e. are 'terfs'? Will they check their thinking before helping them?).

Onjali Rauf has a charity helping refugees. They have a form you can fill in if you wish to volunteer. Might be worth giving that a go.

Litterpicking · 06/06/2023 00:16

thesociologicalreview.org/reviews/me-not-you-by-alison-phipps/

A book by a white, middle class female professor reviewed by another white, middle class, female professor! It's a dog-eat-dog world in the humanities departments in universities! "Please don't hate us for our white privilege. Look we hate ourselves too!" I wonder if white, male academics have to engage in similar self-immolation?

EpicChaos · 06/06/2023 00:14

@GulesMeansRed I fully agree with @dimorphism and @Clymene , i certainly wouldn't give my time and labour free, gratis and for nothing, to a charity that thinks you're scum! You're doing them a favour, meanwhile, they are being paid a fortune for doing sod all other than walking all over you as if you're some sort of worthless doormat.
There are plenty of other charities that are crying out for help where you might find that you are valued and appreciated. If you continue to put up with being treat in that manner by oxfam, they'll take it as tacit support and will continue to stamp and walk all over you, with their big, dirty jackboots.
From what i can tell, the ceo earns??? almost £120K per year, not much poverty in his house is there?! And you put up with that treatment for nothing?

SinisterBumFacedCat · 06/06/2023 00:06

I get the impression Oxfam aren’t that interested in their shops, my local high street is teeming with quality charity shops that have each found their own niche (designer handbags/books/mountains of shoes) and are always busy, apart from the Oxfam shop which is sparse, rarely open and smells terrible (is that the damp?).