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Kathleen Stock on the Moral Maze at 8pm today 31 May 2023 - Cancel Culture

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IwantToRetire · 31/05/2023 19:39

I heard this mentioned earlier today but their web site doesn't mention her https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m001mcgk

But she has now tweeted to confirm https://twitter.com/Docstockk/status/1663963828336435201

(I think its a pretty pretentions radio series, but who knows what they will manage today.)

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IwantToRetire · 01/06/2023 18:15

There are thousands of us who have been cancelled in many ways through questioning this ideology and many, many more who see what happens and keep quiet.

That's what got me so angry and why I dont usually listen to this programme.

I come from a fairly anti-intellectual family and I try to overcome my early up bringing by believing that educated people have something to over!

But seriously what is the point of having a programme where you discuss things in theory (or use it to undermine another academic) but have no idea what is happening in practice.

Its a bit like how a lot of court cases rely on people who have been trained to talk and discuss in a way that has more to do with posh after dinner banter. It may be fun for those who are good at these game and know the rules, but had FA to do with how most of us are living our lives.

So winning a verbal battle on a Radio 4 programme which has no need to look at what is actually happening is just sheer self indulgence.

If they had immediately followed this with a news report looking at the wommen who are suffering in silence.

We need a web site where women can report annonymously what has happened to them.

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TheBiologyStupid · 01/06/2023 15:33

Yes, Carla was particularly pathetic - couldn't say why Kathleen Stock is wrong, but suggested it was traumatising for the little darlings to have her speaking so close to exam time. FFS!

Forwarder · 01/06/2023 12:58

This programme hammered home the BBC's deafening silence on women's rights, in relation to this particular iteration of men's rights. They can skim over the surface of Cancel Culture, but no further.

I noticed that the two men were quite happy to refer to the man Carla as 'she'. Melanie Phillips laboriously avoided using any pronouns for this male person. But this reinforces the low regard with which such men hold women.

Carla, whoever he is, gave the most preposterous justification for cancelling Kathleen Stock. Ie that it might be upsetting for students to know that someone says sex is real. He could give no other justification.

The two women academic troughers, fortunately for them, adhere to the creed. Perhaps they just think Kathleen Stock is a fool for not playing the game.

Well done Rishi Sunak for standing up for some one who I doubt would ever vote for him.

Sausagenbacon · 01/06/2023 11:25

I had forgotten just how much I despise this programme.
This.
And I know I shouldn't, but I laughed when Philips said to the the last 'academic ', the lecturer in philosophy at Essex (who was wilfully wooly in her responses) 'so, if someone said you were thick and a trouble maker that would ok?'

TheBiologyStupid · 01/06/2023 09:51

knittingaddict · 01/06/2023 07:24

Sorry to go off on a tangent, but did the event at Bristol uni not happen in the end?

I told my adult daughter about it a few days before. We disagree on gender issues (surprise, surprise) as she is more on the side of twaw. Having said that we do talk about it sometimes as she's too polite to tell me to shut up.

She's also a bright young woman who I thought might benefit from that debate. Didn't think she would have made it at such short notice, but it's a terrible shame if it never even went ahead.

Anyone know the story?

The University of Bristol made a last-minute decision that the student group organising the discussion would have to pay for security, but also said that members of the public couldn't attend, effectively cutting off the organisers' ability to raise the necessary funds. This made the whole thing unviable. Fortunately, the Free Speech Union stepped in and organised an off-campus venue. So the event did go ahead, but no thanks to the University.

SallyLockheart · 01/06/2023 08:31

Melanie Philips was very clear on the chill effect of the no debate and heckle approach which means women loose jobs and friends etc but had no real support on that

the last speaker - a university professor - basically said it is ok to smear someone if you don’t agree with their view. Ie it’s ok to smear Kathleen Stock. Unbelievable. Even more so since she didn’t see that as problematic

Truthlikeness · 01/06/2023 07:38

People like Stock and Rowling and Forstater are the very tip of this - the most well-known, wealthy, well-connected or just tenacious enough to speak up whatever the cost. There are thousands of us who have been cancelled in many ways through questioning this ideology and many, many more who see what happens and keep quiet.

Helleofabore · 01/06/2023 07:35

Woman2023 · 01/06/2023 07:03

One comment that I found interesting was towards end. A woman said (paraphrasing) that as long as some academics/significant people could express these views then there wasn't anything to worry about.

I found that pretty shocking, as so many women who are academics or teachers or nhs staff feel their job will be at risk if they express these views. It's kind of like saying you don't need to mention you are gay at work because there are a few gay pop stars.

I can't believe people are so willing to give up freedom of speech.

What is also not being said is the number of academics who don’t cover any gender topics now in their courses.

I have a friend who has told me they dropped a unit discussing it a couple of years ago, and her colleagues all have been doing so since. All from fear of complaints that will lose them their tenures.

This was covered in a news article recently too as becoming common.

So, the toxicity of students not able to engage with a topic without ‘cancelling’ the lecturers careers is having this impact on the student’s education. It is a dangerous self fulfilling cycle.

knittingaddict · 01/06/2023 07:24

TheBiologyStupid · 31/05/2023 21:26

Yes, it was Melanie Phillips.

There are so many other examples that didn't get mentioned - Jo Phoenix hounded out of the Open University and, along with Rosa Freedman, cancelled by the University of Essex; the two failures to screen Adult Human Female at the University of Edinburgh; the de facto cancellation by the University of Bristol of a discussion by prominent lawyers and criminologists, including Jo Phoenix (again) and Akua Reindorf who wrote the independent review that prompted the University of Essex to apologise to her, FFS... But yes, cancellation doesn't happen on British university campuses!

Sorry to go off on a tangent, but did the event at Bristol uni not happen in the end?

I told my adult daughter about it a few days before. We disagree on gender issues (surprise, surprise) as she is more on the side of twaw. Having said that we do talk about it sometimes as she's too polite to tell me to shut up.

She's also a bright young woman who I thought might benefit from that debate. Didn't think she would have made it at such short notice, but it's a terrible shame if it never even went ahead.

Anyone know the story?

nettie434 · 01/06/2023 07:14

Iwanttoretire makes a key point about cancel culture:
Its a great shame that those newspapers and journalists who are willing to write about gender critical views dont do more to protect the unknown women who are being cancelled and intimidated.

Julie Bindel and Suzanne Moore have years of media knowledge and contacts that help them find alternative ways of sharing their views when newspapers won't publish their articles. It's the women who post here about being scared to refuse to add pronouns to emails, the athletes who are worried about losing sponsorship who are being cancelled. Just as one swallow doesn't make a summer, so one prominent GC commentator doesn't mean cancellation doesn't exist.

There was a telling sentence in the Janice Turner article about being in a broom cupboard in the Oxford Union with Kathleen Stock. Earlier Monroe Bergdorf had been invited to speak at another Oxford Union debate. However, she had not needed to arrive with security guards or hide in a cupboard.

literalviolence · 01/06/2023 07:09

MerlinsLostMarbles · 01/06/2023 02:59

Think of all the times the media/radio/TV reports on the trans/gender-critical discussion. How often do Gender Criticals get platformed, and how often do actual transpeople get platformed?

Everything you read from the media is all from the perspective of Gender Criticals innit?

No.

Woman2023 · 01/06/2023 07:03

One comment that I found interesting was towards end. A woman said (paraphrasing) that as long as some academics/significant people could express these views then there wasn't anything to worry about.

I found that pretty shocking, as so many women who are academics or teachers or nhs staff feel their job will be at risk if they express these views. It's kind of like saying you don't need to mention you are gay at work because there are a few gay pop stars.

I can't believe people are so willing to give up freedom of speech.

TheGreatATuin · 01/06/2023 06:38

MerlinsLostMarbles · 01/06/2023 02:59

Think of all the times the media/radio/TV reports on the trans/gender-critical discussion. How often do Gender Criticals get platformed, and how often do actual transpeople get platformed?

Everything you read from the media is all from the perspective of Gender Criticals innit?

If that's your definition, then I'd say that trans people are cancelling themselves. There have been endless examples of trans activists refusing to speak or go on a platform, or pulling out of a documentary or programme.
Think of the outcry on Gender Wars, or on the JKK witch podcast. I remember the producer of the Stella o'Malley documentary on trans children saying he'd never encountered such resistance and pushback in getting people to talk to him and he'd done documentaries on the Israel/Palestine conflicts.
I'm very, very keen to platform trans activists on main stream media. Let's hear Grace Lavery define woman on ITV or Ch4 as the person who gets fucked or Andrea Long Chu explain how being female is about having an expectant asshole and blank eyes.
Even better let's hear from Susie Green and have her to tell everyone how putting children on hormones is a good idea if they're gender nonconforming.
Trans activists avoid the limelight because they know that if the general public heard what what they're saying, support for them would drop overnight. That's not being cancelled. It's them avoiding incriminating themselves.

WarriorN · 01/06/2023 06:36

Stock was a hero on this - brilliant forensic answers. I only got through half.

Who ever was speaking for the tra side didn't half go round in circles and then when pushed conceded it was reasonable for Stock to talk at the union. Wouldn't say WHAT it was they disagreed with, as it is the "man can't be woman" and the optics of that of the radio don't work. That was a hoot Grin

Yes there could have been more but to the uninitiated it was a good intro to the lunacy.

Merlin clearly didn't listen as those points were covered so Merlin's contributions to this thread are BS. It's also a weak argument.

Datun · 01/06/2023 06:10

MerlinsLostMarbles · 01/06/2023 02:59

Think of all the times the media/radio/TV reports on the trans/gender-critical discussion. How often do Gender Criticals get platformed, and how often do actual transpeople get platformed?

Everything you read from the media is all from the perspective of Gender Criticals innit?

Everything you read from the media is all from the perspective of Gender Criticals innit?

Only because, despite you writing it, no-body reads it.

Codlingmoths · 01/06/2023 03:56

MerlinsLostMarbles · 01/06/2023 02:59

Think of all the times the media/radio/TV reports on the trans/gender-critical discussion. How often do Gender Criticals get platformed, and how often do actual transpeople get platformed?

Everything you read from the media is all from the perspective of Gender Criticals innit?

I’d love to hear your answer to my question actually.

@Boomboom22 I’d be surprised if a decapitated terf counted. For an example, @MerlinsLostMarbles would you say sir Thomas More was cancelled? He had been raised to the exalted position of lord chancellor, but then he refused to sign a letter to the pope or the oath to Henry viii although did not dare to speak out in public against them. Long story short, Nonetheless various accusations were raised against him until one succeeded, and a jury with a number of members of Anne Boleyns family found him guilty in 15 minutes, to be executed via decapitation. His papers as chancellor I believe were not archived in the usual manner due to his disgrace and I also think his book utopia banned at one point. But, everyone knows his name today and many libraries have his books which are widely available so a mere beheading presumably does not a cancellation make? Interested in your take 😊

dropthevipers · 01/06/2023 03:06

MerlinsLostMarbles · 01/06/2023 02:59

Think of all the times the media/radio/TV reports on the trans/gender-critical discussion. How often do Gender Criticals get platformed, and how often do actual transpeople get platformed?

Everything you read from the media is all from the perspective of Gender Criticals innit?

do you actually believe the rubbish you write or do you say these things for a laugh/bet? (delete as appropriate)

MerlinsLostMarbles · 01/06/2023 02:59

Codlingmoths · 01/06/2023 01:29

Could @MerlinsLostMarbles give an example of someone who in their view has been cancelled?

Think of all the times the media/radio/TV reports on the trans/gender-critical discussion. How often do Gender Criticals get platformed, and how often do actual transpeople get platformed?

Everything you read from the media is all from the perspective of Gender Criticals innit?

Boomboom22 · 01/06/2023 02:38

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Codlingmoths · 01/06/2023 01:29

Could @MerlinsLostMarbles give an example of someone who in their view has been cancelled?

TheBiologyStupid · 01/06/2023 01:12

MerlinsLostMarbles · 31/05/2023 23:49

How can she be cancelled when she's been giving talks and been in the tabloids, radio and TV every day for the past year?

Same with Bindel and Rowling. Despite what they say, these people are definitely not "cancelled".

If you listened to the programme that this thread is about, you would know that that was one of the topics that was discussed.

IwantToRetire · 01/06/2023 00:28

On the other thread someone has share the link to an article about being with Kathleen Stock during the day. https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/5d0fec18-ffd6-11ed-a364-04e704863f75?shareToken=6ed61f87cb9b430f34b4c8de49eb8133

And apart from all the drama the most signifgant thing was this, and its a great shames the academics on the Moral Maze weren't discussing this reality.

The most thoughtful is from a young woman I’m later told is a lesbian who, having written a student newspaper article defending Stock’s right to speak, has been banned from Oxford LGBTQ+ meetings.

Its a great shame that those newspapers and journalists who are willing to write about gender critical views dont do more to protect the unknown women who are being cancelled and intimidated.

Without disrespecting Kathleen Stock who has experienced that, now she is more of a public figure she is less likely to be ignored.

This young woman will probably never be able to enjoy her time at Oxford after this.

Just shocking, and when the TRAs try to say that GC views are like Section 28 and yet they are the ones who are silencing and intimidating gay men and lesbians.

We hid in a broom cupboard: my mad day at Oxford with Kathleen Stock

It took police and three security guards to get her there — but this week the gender-critical academic Kathleen Stock spoke at the Oxford Union. Janice Turner went with her

https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/5d0fec18-ffd6-11ed-a364-04e704863f75?shareToken=6ed61f87cb9b430f34b4c8de49eb8133

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IwantToRetire · 01/06/2023 00:25

I had forgotten just how much I despise this programme.

All too often it is academics discussing issues without any notion of the real life impact of an issue can be.

The pathetically childish aren't I being clever with words about well she's invited to speak so she isn't cancelled just illustrates that either they have no notion what is going on in the real world, or think word play is the height of sophistication.

And having to rely on Melanie Philips to point out how innane they are is just infurriating.

That Mathew Taylor has for reasons I cant understand is always being asked to give his views, as though he has insight. Really his comments were more in line with the Billy Bragg type of arguement. So sure that his view of the world is the right one and trying to imply that the trans issue is just the further journey of L&G rights. Again is he just ignorant of those who contest this, or is he so secure in his rightness that imagines by saying something it becomes right. And the arrogant disregard for women's rights. Unfortunately under Blair patronage he has sailed through any number of influential jobs, and (heaven help us) is now CE of the NHS Federation.

I thought the male academic was really good at cutting through the whataboutery and the academic worried about students being upset just before exams was pitiful.

But mainly not only am I angry at myself for wasting my time listening, but also angry that the BBC has spent an hour allowing people to gush totally irrelevant opinions based on how to interpret the phrase cancel culture. Abstract self indulgence.

I also think day time tv is full of loud mouths who know nothing, but seems evenings on Radio 4 are the same, but of course everone spoke very nicely!

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Boomboom22 · 01/06/2023 00:14

I think they must be stupid as well as violent. I feel sorry for people who actually have identity issues, this lot would jump on any bandwagon that allowed them to be violent to women.

Datun · 01/06/2023 00:09

TRAs keep saying this. How can you be cancelled? You're still talking.

It's so stupid it's almost painful to have to address it.

If you have been invited, or arranged, to speak somewhere, and the venue or organisers cancel it due to pressure or threats from transactivists, you've been cancelled.

That's it.

You might subsequently be able to speak somewhere else, but again, you might get cancelled from there too. It doesn't mean they've actually ripped your tongue out and put you in a cell.

Honestly, these people. It's so painful