I think I might get it now.
Historically women in the 'free' world had to fight for the right to choose their own clothing. Many chose the comfort and practicality of styles previously reserved for men.
Because of the hard work of previous generations, it is now widely accepted that women can wear trousers, shirts, whatever, and still be women. We had our 'clothing' revolution. We won our rights.
Now there are men in the 'free' world who also want to the right to choose their own clothing. But instead of fighting for that right, they have introduced a fiction that allows them to stealth their way into a group which they previously were excluded from.
Their success with this tactic depends upon them convincing that group that their fiction is fact. That by wearing 'women's' clothing, they actually become women.
If women accept this, the men will not need a revolution. They will not need to convince other men, for whom this has little or no impact. They only have to convince the women.
This is why they go after women.
Have I cracked it?