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Brighton NHS trust recommends drug-induced male breastfeeding in their maternity protocols

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zibzibara · 20/05/2023 08:58

https://www.bsuh.nhs.uk/maternity/wp-content/uploads/sites/7/2021/01/MP005-Perinatal-Care-for-Trans-and-Non-Binary-People.pdf

This is part of their maternity protocols for perinatal care. In the Infant feeding section:

"5.5.7 Non-gestational parents may wish to participate in feeding their
infants using their own bodies. Cis women who have previously breastfed may have the most success in relactating. Trans women and cis women who have not been pregnant may also be able to induce lactation to some extent. Methods for inducing lactation include using galactagoues and physical stimulation. Alternatively, some families choose to use supplemental nursing systems with expressed milk or formula."

They cite this website in the reference list: http://www.milkjunkies.net/2013/05/trans-women-and-breastfeeding-personal.html

Notably they do not cite any source which has tested the composition of any such male secretions for safety and nutritional value.

https://www.bsuh.nhs.uk/maternity/wp-content/uploads/sites/7/2021/01/MP005-Perinatal-Care-for-Trans-and-Non-Binary-People.pdf

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RoseslnTheHospital · 20/05/2023 14:23

I don't see why logically, if transwomen are being encouraged or supported to attempt to directly feed a baby with their secretions, that other men could do it too. With NHS Brighton's full support. Surely it's discriminatory for them not to?? Never mind about the baby of course. That's not the important thing here, male validation is!

This endocrinologist who has apparently done this with 5 male people. Where's the research paper? The peer reviewing? The examination of methodology and risk? The evidence that it is in the best interest of the baby, which is what must take priority given the baby is the most vulnerable person in this scenario?

Frankly I just don't believe it, unless there is direct evidence that it is possible, that any liquid produced is adequate and that volume is sufficient to actually be of any use.

I've had to start off breastfeeding twice by exclusively expressing due to poorly babies. It's hard hard work, and that's with a body that's producing the right cascade of hormones and with the ability to respond correctly to the expressing regime.

neilyoungismyhero · 20/05/2023 14:15

This genuinely makes me want to vomit.

endofthelinefinally · 20/05/2023 14:12

JellySaurus · 20/05/2023 14:03

Have you read the article I linked?

'A day and a half after she came home, Sandi was still trying to breastfeed. A lot of it was left to me going through my stored supply and whatever I was expressing.'
While at home Ms Honnery-Buckley suffered severe abdominal pain and an elevated heart rate. An ambulance took her to hospital and it was discovered she had retained placenta products, which meant she was not producing milk.
'Apart from the milk he was getting from me he was essentially starving,' Ms Buckley said of the couple's hungry son.
'I genuinely believe had I not brought my breast milk into the hospital he could have become very sick with liver and kidney issues from lack of nutrition.'

I am not saying you have made it up!
I am saying that drug induced secretions produced by a man are not IMO life saving. The man claiming his secretions are life saving is deluded.
Who knows whether those secretions are safe to give a baby that is not getting any other supply of milk.

JellySaurus · 20/05/2023 14:03

endofthelinefinally · 20/05/2023 13:15

"This person claims that the fluid they produced from their breasts was lifesaving for their infant, because the infant's mother was struggling to breastfeed due to retained placenta".

That statement makes absolutely no sense at all. Complete made up nonsense.

Have you read the article I linked?

'A day and a half after she came home, Sandi was still trying to breastfeed. A lot of it was left to me going through my stored supply and whatever I was expressing.'
While at home Ms Honnery-Buckley suffered severe abdominal pain and an elevated heart rate. An ambulance took her to hospital and it was discovered she had retained placenta products, which meant she was not producing milk.
'Apart from the milk he was getting from me he was essentially starving,' Ms Buckley said of the couple's hungry son.
'I genuinely believe had I not brought my breast milk into the hospital he could have become very sick with liver and kidney issues from lack of nutrition.'

zibzibara · 20/05/2023 13:58

Potentially worse still, this protocol may be being used more widely in the NHS than just Brighton.

York and Scarborough Trust reference it in their Board of Directors Meeting minutes from April 2023: https://www.yorkhospitals.nhs.uk/seecmsfile/?id=7152

"The Perinatal care for trans and non-binary people maternity guideline has been adapted with permissions from Brighton and East Sussex for use within the LMNS by the Transformation Lead Midwife and Equity and Equality lead at the LMNS and is currently being reviewed within the governance process. Work is ongoing to co-produce a patient information leaflet and embed the new guideline across the LMNS."
(Section 6, page 138)

Though it doesn't give any more details than that, so it's unclear if they're adopting the guidelines on feeding infants with male nipple discharge.

https://www.yorkhospitals.nhs.uk/seecmsfile?id=7152

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TheSandgroper · 20/05/2023 13:58

I’m jumping in to appeal to any Western Australians to please have your say on this. https://www.facebook.com/photo?fbid=796862405135940&set=a.263657845123068. I have no trust in what our government is trying to do.

This thread is timely for me. I will be using some of the links.

Facebook

https://www.facebook.com/photo?fbid=796862405135940&set=a.263657845123068

itsmylife7 · 20/05/2023 13:50

My real concern is who in power is allowing and agreeing that this is normal ?

Hiding in very plain sight. as for the Mothers who allow this shit to happen 😡

Unsure33 · 20/05/2023 13:49

medianewbie · 20/05/2023 11:48

My Autistic Ds was born with tongue tie. Not dx by NHS. We struggled with b/f. I was given no help or advice at ALL. He ended up severely jaundiced. I bought a pump, did all I could, but when he became 'failure to thrive' issue I put him onto formula, was then given omeprazole etc as he couldn't tolerate it (GERD, query surgery for pylohric stenosis). Eventually he was on goats milk, then weaned early. Awful time. And NO HELP. Yet, NHS funds for This?
It is utterly wrong headed.

I totally agree . I had problems as my son was premature and I desperately wanted to breast feed . I got given a milking machine and no other help. This sounds like discrimination against women to me .

Needapadlockonmyfridge · 20/05/2023 13:42

How the fuck is this in the baby's best interests?
The world is going mad.

piedbeauty · 20/05/2023 13:37

Fucking HELL. The NHS is actually promoting this absolute shit?? It would be Brighton.

Has nobody thought of the welfare of the baby here?

bellinisurge · 20/05/2023 13:33

There's a reason why they didn't say to my baby's dad "here, have some drugs and you do it".

bellinisurge · 20/05/2023 13:32

I was treated like a failed mother by the NHS because I struggled to breastfeed. The psychological scars of that lasted for years. I got an "I'm sorry you feel like that " letter when I complained. This shit disgusts me. I hate to think of other new mothers in my position now being treated like that and then seeing this bollocks.

Faffertea · 20/05/2023 13:20

Men do produce a sort of milk type discharge from their nipples. It is always pathological but sometimes a side effect of necessary medical treatment. It will not have nutritional value to an infant and will not give the baby the passive immunity it gets from breastfeeding from its actual mother.

Domperidone used to be available to buy over the counter but concerns raised by the MHRA mean it is now prescription only and when prescribed dire warnings pop up about not using it longer than 3 days. Including when used to treat chemotherapy related nausea/vomiting.

For actual women, there are better ways to try an induce lactation than Domperidone because our bodies naturally produce more oxytocin when we see, smell and hear our babies. Men, of course, don’t.

endofthelinefinally · 20/05/2023 13:16

These men are just in a complete fantasy land that just gets more and more sinister.

endofthelinefinally · 20/05/2023 13:15

"This person claims that the fluid they produced from their breasts was lifesaving for their infant, because the infant's mother was struggling to breastfeed due to retained placenta".

That statement makes absolutely no sense at all. Complete made up nonsense.

Forester1 · 20/05/2023 13:15

This is the most depressing thing to read. I know that it’s been said multiple times but there’s just no focus on what’s best for the baby.

JellySaurus · 20/05/2023 13:12

Why would a transwoman want to breastfeed? Validation.

This person claims that the fluid they produced from their breasts was lifesaving for their infant, because the infant's mother was struggling to breastfeed due to retained placenta.

But to be told I could have the opportunity to breastfeed, it was something that was nice to be able to experience as a trans woman.'

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10859287

dimorphism · 20/05/2023 13:02

crew2022 · 20/05/2023 12:50

The NHS is in tatters.
Old people are lying on the floor waiting eight hours for an ambulance to take them in with a fractured femur.
There are countless delays and waiting lists.
You can't see a GP.
But money is being spent on this!!!!!!!!
I'm disgusted.
Who makes these decisions

This.

I'm afraid this sort of shit will hasten the end of the NHS.

Because yes, it's underfunded but when the funds that are available instead of being used for more nurses, paramedics, or to help new Mums are spent on this and the 'diversity' managers then no-one can really argue that there is mismanagement of the funding. Insane, absurd, anti-science mismanagement on a colossal scale.

TheShellBeach · 20/05/2023 12:59

RemainAtHome · 20/05/2023 11:00

Er…. It’s the guidelines they’ve always had for women who adopt or use a surrogate mother. I’ve never seen people being so up in arms about it.

They’ve just added transwomen to the lot. I have health concerns around that (due to the high level of hormones etc….) but seriously, how many transwomen do you think are going to bf like this ever? As described, it’s hard enough for a woman who has lactated before. But a transwoman?

And you're okay with this.
Wow.

Lorrymum · 20/05/2023 12:57

Who on earth made this decision? Why was it agreed? Is it being implemented?
The NHS has provided zero support to my niece and her new baby. No health visitor visits, only telephone consultations etc.
I can't believe what Im reading!

crew2022 · 20/05/2023 12:50

The NHS is in tatters.
Old people are lying on the floor waiting eight hours for an ambulance to take them in with a fractured femur.
There are countless delays and waiting lists.
You can't see a GP.
But money is being spent on this!!!!!!!!
I'm disgusted.
Who makes these decisions

dimorphism · 20/05/2023 12:46

Gettingbysomehow · 20/05/2023 09:44

I worked for that trust for a short while, they are absolutely bat shit crazy.

Note to self - never move to Brighton. Encourage friends in that vicinity to move away.

Madamecastafiore · 20/05/2023 12:42

It would be child abuse in my book. Both parents should be prosecuted if this ever happens.

turbonerd · 20/05/2023 12:37

medianewbie · 20/05/2023 11:48

My Autistic Ds was born with tongue tie. Not dx by NHS. We struggled with b/f. I was given no help or advice at ALL. He ended up severely jaundiced. I bought a pump, did all I could, but when he became 'failure to thrive' issue I put him onto formula, was then given omeprazole etc as he couldn't tolerate it (GERD, query surgery for pylohric stenosis). Eventually he was on goats milk, then weaned early. Awful time. And NO HELP. Yet, NHS funds for This?
It is utterly wrong headed.

It is extra outrageous when there sadly are so many stories like yours.

Where is the magic money tree that suddenly exists to fund shit like this but NOT help in situations like yours?

My eldest had jaundice after being born by emergency caesaerean. I had no help in getting up and to his cot when I had to feed him every 2. hour to establish routine and flow for 4 days. I had a few midwives yell at me for pulling the cord to have some help when I was crying with exhaustion. Major surgery just had to be coped with 🤷🏽‍♀️
This was 20 years ago, mind.

Still, so many stories and then this fuckery pops up and there’s mountains of dosh.
Makes me proper cross.

Sallyh87 · 20/05/2023 12:13

Not mention thought given to the babies in this situation. This is just so creepy! Weird men.