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Clear distinction between DQ performances for consenting adults and inappropriate sexualised performances in front of children.

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Brisland · 16/05/2023 00:47

While scrolling through, I happened upon this clip - Megyn Kelly discussing why drag performers are inappropriate and unacceptable around children.

I wish all those who think it is harmless, creative and joyful fun for children would listen, as she sums up the motive, result and reality of the damage to children very starkly.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=X-_fAOaQuZg

Megyn Kelly Fires Back at Those Critical of Her Drag Queen Comments, and the Reality of "Grooming"

Megyn Kelly begins the show by discussing the backlash she’s receiving for comments made on Friday’s show about Charlize Theron and drag queens, the differen...

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=X-_fAOaQuZg

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FrancescaContini · 18/05/2023 21:04

@OldCrone @YetAnotherSpartacus
Those photos are horrific. Gob-smackingly so.

SirChenjins · 18/05/2023 20:46

Revolting men - we see them for exactly what they are.
I hope the latter was charged with indecency offences and the former takes his razor sharp glitter and fucks off to the far side of fuck.

OldCrone · 18/05/2023 18:18

SirChenjins · 18/05/2023 14:12

I know. Where did that happen and what happened to those men?

The one in the stripy outfit is Aida H Dee who does DQSH events in the UK.

I think the one who forgot his underwear was in the US.

YetAnotherSpartacus · 18/05/2023 14:21

This one freaks me out.

SirChenjins · 18/05/2023 14:12

I know. Where did that happen and what happened to those men?

StephanieSuperpowers · 18/05/2023 14:10

It's two men taking different routes to display their genitals to children.

SirChenjins · 18/05/2023 14:06

Wtaf is that? @OldCrone 😲

OldCrone · 18/05/2023 13:40

BabyStopCryin · 17/05/2023 19:46

It’s about normalising drag. Nothing to do with LGB.

It's not for the children. It's for the benefit of the performers. Why else would a man want to wear a skin-tight costume, or 'forget' to put any underwear on when reading a story to children?

Clear distinction between DQ performances for consenting adults and inappropriate sexualised performances in front of children.
tellmewhentheLangshiplandscoz · 18/05/2023 12:50

JaneBeyre · 16/05/2023 12:54

In Melbourne councils are holding an emergency meeting on far-right protestors to drag story time.

The wilful blindness is incredible. It's also mothers, far right or otherwise, that don't like it, but no one seems to be capable of recognising that.

I have actually attended many storytimes, and while I agree that drag queens are sexualised by definition and they mock women, I also fail think they completely take away from what storytime is about, which is stories.

I have never seen a male librarian do storytime. It was women's work. It's so absolutely boring and predictable than when a man deigns to read to children he has to make it all about him.

The reader is conveying the story. Any decent author or reader or listener will know that. Story time is about developing children's love of literacy, which will in turn develop their empathy and open mindedness.

These people are narcissists and grifters and attention seekers and they just want an audience. It's boring.

This

I also used to run a story time session at our library - all voluntary and not plastered all over SM coz y know, it wasn't all about me - and I'm quite sure if I'd rocked up dressed as some individuals who do DQ StoryTime I'd have been challenged by library staff and parents

But when a man does it hey! It's all glittery inclusivity Confused

YetAnotherSpartacus · 18/05/2023 12:42

I'm wondering if there is a verified and fact-checked list of drag queen storytime presenters (in any country) who have been convicted of sexual offences anywhere?

Abhannmor · 18/05/2023 12:06

PoorOldHorse · 16/05/2023 18:03

How come drag performers aren't clamouring to perform in care homes and retirement villages? Always places with children, oddly enough...

This X 1000 !

Actually it's even more surprising when you consider some OAPs would be quite into burlesque. They'd have a good old cackle. And it's a captive audience.

Mystery isn't it?

MarkWithaC · 18/05/2023 10:56

DemiColon · 17/05/2023 18:29

I have a hard time envisioning that. Come on down to Lesbian Story Time?

Lots of people, men and women, working in libraries are gay or lesbian, and that's not new.

But it's not really something they particularly are going to announce to the kids. It's generally not appropriate, it does nothing to make a better story time, and more than that, the kids don't care, and probably won't remember.

I think sometimes people have an unrealistic sense of how much kids at that age have organized thinking about social topics.

I don't disagree that it's not particularly necessary or appropriate to make this sort of stuff formal, but I do think kids will notice and assimilate things like, for example, Lauren the librarian being met from work by her girlfriend/wife Sarah. The more they see this sort of diversity and realise that it's all normal/equal/OK, the better, I think.

BabyStopCryin · 17/05/2023 19:46

Grimchmas · 17/05/2023 16:42

If it's about encouraging LGBT acceptance where is the carefully thought out programme of gay, lesbian, bisexual and yes trans identifying people, who have been CRB checked and actually had some training in how to be engaging with children?

It’s about normalising drag. Nothing to do with LGB.

DemiColon · 17/05/2023 18:29

Grimchmas · 17/05/2023 16:42

If it's about encouraging LGBT acceptance where is the carefully thought out programme of gay, lesbian, bisexual and yes trans identifying people, who have been CRB checked and actually had some training in how to be engaging with children?

I have a hard time envisioning that. Come on down to Lesbian Story Time?

Lots of people, men and women, working in libraries are gay or lesbian, and that's not new.

But it's not really something they particularly are going to announce to the kids. It's generally not appropriate, it does nothing to make a better story time, and more than that, the kids don't care, and probably won't remember.

I think sometimes people have an unrealistic sense of how much kids at that age have organized thinking about social topics.

StephanieSuperpowers · 17/05/2023 16:44

Buried under a pile of glitter shed from the jumpsuit of a drag queen who's knackers are visible.

If you haven't seen it, you can still save yourself.

Grimchmas · 17/05/2023 16:42

If it's about encouraging LGBT acceptance where is the carefully thought out programme of gay, lesbian, bisexual and yes trans identifying people, who have been CRB checked and actually had some training in how to be engaging with children?

MarkWithaC · 17/05/2023 14:03

How do kids exposed to this, even if it’s not a twerking predator getting dollar bills stuffed in his G string, but a nice pleasant story from a normal person in drag, gain any education other than “some men dress funny to read stories”?

I am sick to the back teeth of/opposed to the kind of drag acts we're talking about here doing kids' storytime; but I have to say that I think having, say, a person who's obviously a man but is wearing a dress or make-up doing it is fine. Not AMAZING, or brave, or any of the other usual breathless accolades; I just think it's fine – healthy in fact – for kids to see and learn that people don't have to dress or present in a certain way because of their sex.

Having said that, I do concur with others' experiences and opinions that we still have a lot of ground to make up when it comes to just a man, in male-coded clothes and appearance, quietly getting on with storytime just as women do.

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NotBadConsidering · 17/05/2023 10:41

I still remember the man who read stories at the local library in the small town we were living in when oldest two DC were toddlers, so 14 years ago. His name was Tim, he was lovely, so sweet and calm and the kids loved him. It was a great little weekly outing.

I’m still waiting to hear from any of the defenders of DQSH what the actual benefits are for children.

JaneBeyre · 17/05/2023 10:37

It's so narcissistic.

I'd love to see a librarian with 20 years of experience getting kids into books and doing the Tuesday morning rhyme time be given the amount of fanfare and fawning these men are given.

Yawn.

BabyStopCryin · 17/05/2023 10:32

And they ought to be educators or at the very least very child-friendly.

I’m not sure how an adult ‘act’ (because let’s face it, I’ve never seen a drag Queen on the tills at Tesco or doing my taxes) - and probably without experience of wrangling their own kids or trained to work with kids (looking at some of the safeguarding fails I have heard about) can engage fully with children and actually teach them anything. It’s all about them isn’t it?

JaneBeyre · 17/05/2023 10:16

BabyStopCryin
Oh that's good to hear - some men are so well suited to working with small kids, it's a shame it's traditionally such a female-dominated field. And yes, it's about the reading and the delivery and the KIDS, not the reader's outfit or makeup or identity. Kids don't care about any of that. They just want to hear a good story. This is so much about other people's needs it's ridiculous.

BabyStopCryin · 17/05/2023 10:12

JaneBeyre · 16/05/2023 12:54

In Melbourne councils are holding an emergency meeting on far-right protestors to drag story time.

The wilful blindness is incredible. It's also mothers, far right or otherwise, that don't like it, but no one seems to be capable of recognising that.

I have actually attended many storytimes, and while I agree that drag queens are sexualised by definition and they mock women, I also fail think they completely take away from what storytime is about, which is stories.

I have never seen a male librarian do storytime. It was women's work. It's so absolutely boring and predictable than when a man deigns to read to children he has to make it all about him.

The reader is conveying the story. Any decent author or reader or listener will know that. Story time is about developing children's love of literacy, which will in turn develop their empathy and open mindedness.

These people are narcissists and grifters and attention seekers and they just want an audience. It's boring.

I saw a male nursery assistant do a brilliant story time with an enthralled group of 2-4 year olds. He was brilliant - he had trained as an actor before going into childcare, and I’m sure the children learned more from his animal impressions, his accents, sound effects… than some scary person in sparkly clothes and a beard encouraging them to twerk…

I would have been equally terrified and outraged if I was a child having an obvious man saying he was ‘Miss Story time’ or whatever. I - like a lot of small kids - had absolutely no trick with ‘fibbers’ when I was little, and would call people out very loudly.

Zodfa · 17/05/2023 10:04

I don't particularly see how presenting gay men as weirdos with ridiculous clothing and bizarrely exaggerated mannerisms is supposed to foster inclusive attitudes towards homosexuality, personally.

SirChenjins · 17/05/2023 08:30

razor sharp glitter and deadly death drops

Oh dear, such a lot of self-righteous male anger - they’re getting very upset that we see right through them, aren’t they. Glitter just hoovers up and goes straight in the bin.