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Daughters excluded from peerage due to gender outraged by trans woman standing for Lords seat

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SerendipityJane · 14/05/2023 10:18

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WildishBambino · 17/05/2023 13:09

It's notable that the supposedly-regressive Tories did the right thing that supposedly-progressive Labour failed to do.

I was around and supportive of the Labour campaign on civil partnerships - there is no way on earth they could have introduced gay marriage at the time.

Civil partnerships were an incremental change, yes, but they were the first actual protections gay couples had. Most Labour MPs voted for it, but with a significant back-bench rebellion. The Tories were dead-against, but again with a small minority of their MPs supportive.

At the time, the right-wing press were running front-page stories about Labour being run by a gay-cabal! There was significant public hostility to gay marriage - or even gay rights in general.

Cameron did the right thing, but he was only able to do so because he was building on the changes that Labour started.

haXXor · 16/05/2023 16:17

We should bear in mind that Stonewall was the go-to organisation for advice on all things LGB and did not support the campaign for "equal marriage". All part of the "Smash heteronormativity!" elite LGB political agenda.

That would be the influence of queer theory. Marriage is what "the straights" do, therefore it's automatically bad.

I am cynical about Summerskill's sincerity in using the second-wave feminist argument against marriage to prop up his stance. I don't think he's a feminist and I don't think that he understands the legal and social context of that argument. Two lesbians marrying isn't the same as a woman being railroaded into settling for an unsuitable man to avoid being left on the shelf. Arguments about how the woman becomes the default bangmaid homemaker in a straight pairing don't apply to same-sex couples. For women who stop work to raise children, marriage is the only way that they can safeguard their pensions and share of the family home. The second-wavers were theorising at a time when divorce courts didn't necessarily given women their dues and when not marrying was much more stigmatised than it is now. It was disingenuous to pretend that a social and political theory about 1970's straight women can be applied to same-sex couples.

haXXor · 16/05/2023 16:00

It's notable that the supposedly-regressive Tories did the right thing that supposedly-progressive Labour failed to do.

I recall Cameron saying back then that he supports same-sex marriage because he is a Conservative, which makes sense because marriage is a institution perceived by small-C conservatives as the foundation of the family and building block of society and all the rest of that stuff, and big-C Conservatives tend to like small-C conservative things.

Bosky · 16/05/2023 15:52

We should bear in mind that Stonewall was the go-to organisation for advice on all things LGB and did not support the campaign for "equal marriage". All part of the "Smash heteronormativity!" elite LGB political agenda.

Many MPs and Peers listened to Stonewall rather than the "assimilationists". Eventually, Stonewall was forced to change tack as it became clear that most LGB people felt differently to the politically-motivated elite who were running Stonewall and were seemingly just as worried about the possible financial implications and tax burden.

Stonewall undermines campaign for gay marriage
Peter Tatchell - 21 September 2010

“Every other comparable LGBT organisation in the world is campaigning to end the ban on same-sex marriage, but not Stonewall. It is out of step with the British and global trend towards equal marriage rights,”

The chief executive of LGB lobby group Stonewall, Ben Summerskill, this evening told a fringe meeting at the Liberal Democrats party conference that the group is not actively campaigning for marriage equality because it would cost a staggering £5 billion to implement. The charity have been stonewalling questions on its exact position on marriage equality for some time.

Last year, Mr Summerskill told PinkNews.co.uk “There are lots of lesbians who actually don’t want marriage”.

After the debate, Mr Summerskill told a PinkNews.co.uk contributor who did not want to be named that there was also the risk that straight, same sex, platonic friends might seek to have civil partnerships in order to make tax savings.

Mr Summerskill reportedly also offered the argument that there is a feminist view that the institute of marriage is fundamentally wrong. He also argued that for as long as people are being murdered in homophobic attacks, it is not the right time to campaign for marriage equality.

Last Friday, Stonewall received an open letter signed by hundreds of people including two MEPs, two MPs and a number of human rights academics calling on them to clarify their position on marriage equality.

Full story:
https://www.petertatchell.net/lgbt_rights/partnerships/stonewall-undermines-campaign-for-gay-marriage/

Opinion: What does Stonewall want if it isn’t gay marriage?
Andrew Reeves - 28 Sept 2010

For those that don’t know, Ben Summerskill the Chief Executive of Stonewall have said that they won’t be “jumped into” making a decision and are consulting widely on the issue – who with remains to be seen as Ben Summerskill told Pink News only on Monday, “Stonewall has never pretended to be a democratic member organisation. We have never said we speak for all lesbian, gay and bisexual people.”

Full story:
https://www.libdemvoice.org/stonewall-gay-marriage-21378.htmlwww.libdemvoice.org/stonewall-gay-marriage-21378.html

Stonewall is split by row about same-sex marriages
Independent - 2 Oct 2010

Stonewall, which has 20,000 supporters and has been at the forefront of Britain's gay-rights movement for more than 20 years, has publicly stated it has no formal position on gay-marriage equality because it is consulting lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender (LGBT) people on how to approach the issue.

Mr Summerskill – who led Stonewall's successful campaigns for the repeal of the Section 28 law banning "promoting homosexuality" and the establishment of civil partnerships – told The Independent it was wrong to say that the charity was against gay-marriage equality, and that Stonewall was obliged to take into account a diversity of views among its supporters.

The charity will finish its consultation exercise later this month. He said: "There is a range of views on this subject, from those who very much want gay marriages and for them to be mandatory in churches, to those who reject civil partnerships as 'hetero-normative'. We are determined to achieve as broad a consensus on this as possible and to that end we are consulting our supporters on what issues they want us to prioritise.

Full Story:
https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/stonewall-is-split-by-row-about-samesex-marriages-2095468.html

Up Against the Stonewall on Equal Marriage
Peter Tatchell - 17 March 2014

Former Stonewall chief Ben Summerskill has made astonishing allegations against the Liberal Democrats, claiming they never sincerely supported same-sex marriage. He suggested they acted with "cynical and opportunistic" motives. This is outrageous. I don't support the Lib Dems, but they backed equal marriage at a time when Summerskill and the gay lobby group, Stonewall, refused to do so.

Full story:
https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/peter-g-tatchell/stonewall-equal-marriage_b_4979549.html

SquidwardBound · 16/05/2023 08:58

I’m going to guess cowardly, homophobic and with a side order of misogynistic.

ResisterRex · 16/05/2023 08:48

Cowardly or homophobic. I think we can now see how the GRA has paved the way for rank homophobia (and misogyny).

SquidwardBound · 16/05/2023 08:04

ResisterRex · 15/05/2023 22:30

I understand the point, Rayon and funny enough, I'm able to grasp what happens in a registry office but having different lanes because you're homosexual isn't equality! If Labour had brought in same-sex marriage then that would have been equality. Not "ooh sorry, you'll need THIS" instead. Which was only made equal in the Cameron era.

The labour government at the time was simply too cowardly to have the conversation that needed to be had. Civil partnerships were, like the GRA, a means of properly addressing equal rights for gay and lesbian people.

Terrible legislation is written in these situations. And the effects of that ripple out in all sorts of ways. As we are all seeing now.

I guess it’s another way that Tony Blair let us down in the early 21st century.

Bosky · 16/05/2023 03:13

Yep.

The EHRC Guidance "Separate and single-sex service providers: a guide on the Equality Act sex and gender reassignment exceptions April 2022" is a lot better than the 2010 EHRC Statutory Code of Practice though. That was blatantly misogynistic, disgustingly so given that EHRC Commissioners are appointed by the Minister for Women and Equalities.

Separate and single-sex service providers: a guide on the Equality Act sex and gender reassignment provisions - EHRC 2022
https://www.equalityhumanrights.com/en/advice-and-guidance/separate-and-single-sex-service-providers-guide-equality-act-sex-and-gender

Sex Matters Statement on the EHRC 2022 Guidance
https://sex-matters.org/posts/updates/statement-on-ehrc-guidance/

ResisterRex · 15/05/2023 22:31

Bosky · 15/05/2023 19:08

Lady Simon does not have a GRC so in this case it is not just the GRA at fault.

The lunacy exposed here is also with the Equality Act 2010, which relies on the definition of "gender reassignment" in the GRA2004 (which pre-GRC is basically Self-ID) and then presumes in favour of "self-identified women" being included in single-sex provision for women unless an organisation chooses to exclude them as "proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim" - and feels it could justify that in a court of law if a discrimination claim were made.

https://www.equalityhumanrights.com/en/advice-and-guidance/gender-reassignment-discrimination#lawful

So Lady Simon (legally male because no GRC) can still expect to treated like a Lady in most circumstances (EA2010) but chooses to be treated like a Lord when it comes to the peerage - because legally male.

The only difference if Lady Simon had a GRC, in terms of the peerage, is that Lady Simon would automatically be given a "male ticket" (meal ticket?) to entry despite being "legally female" - because GRA 2004 actual male privilege in law.

Lady Simon could also choose to relinquish the right to the peerage and let big sister put her name forward for the ballot, whether or not Lady Simon had a GRC.

Well, well, well. Almost like having your cake and eating it, too.

ResisterRex · 15/05/2023 22:30

I understand the point, Rayon and funny enough, I'm able to grasp what happens in a registry office but having different lanes because you're homosexual isn't equality! If Labour had brought in same-sex marriage then that would have been equality. Not "ooh sorry, you'll need THIS" instead. Which was only made equal in the Cameron era.

haXXor · 15/05/2023 20:39

Ofcourseshecan · 14/05/2023 11:25

Yes. Protecting male privilege is a feature of genderism, not a bug.

I read that ‘feature, not bug’ expression on Mumsnet, and loved the way it summed the whole damn thing up so neatly.

Thanks. It's not my invention though, it's in wide use in my field.

Bosky · 15/05/2023 19:08

Lady Simon does not have a GRC so in this case it is not just the GRA at fault.

The lunacy exposed here is also with the Equality Act 2010, which relies on the definition of "gender reassignment" in the GRA2004 (which pre-GRC is basically Self-ID) and then presumes in favour of "self-identified women" being included in single-sex provision for women unless an organisation chooses to exclude them as "proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim" - and feels it could justify that in a court of law if a discrimination claim were made.

https://www.equalityhumanrights.com/en/advice-and-guidance/gender-reassignment-discrimination#lawful

So Lady Simon (legally male because no GRC) can still expect to treated like a Lady in most circumstances (EA2010) but chooses to be treated like a Lord when it comes to the peerage - because legally male.

The only difference if Lady Simon had a GRC, in terms of the peerage, is that Lady Simon would automatically be given a "male ticket" (meal ticket?) to entry despite being "legally female" - because GRA 2004 actual male privilege in law.

Lady Simon could also choose to relinquish the right to the peerage and let big sister put her name forward for the ballot, whether or not Lady Simon had a GRC.

nilsmousehammer · 15/05/2023 18:46

happydappy2 · 15/05/2023 18:01

It’s ridiculous situations like this that make the only answer repealing the GRA. Males simply cannot have legal status as women. (Especially when in some instances they retain a privilege only men have access to!)

This.

It was a ridiculous law in the first place, badly made and for the wrong reasons. No one should be able to be legally recognised as something they in fact are not, and the unintended negative consequences of experimenting with it have proved that.

Not to mention the baked in misogyny of a male dominated government voting in something that saves them problems and serenely ignores all the impact on women as unimportant, while adding exemptions to make sure that men are not inconvenienced.

happydappy2 · 15/05/2023 18:01

It’s ridiculous situations like this that make the only answer repealing the GRA. Males simply cannot have legal status as women. (Especially when in some instances they retain a privilege only men have access to!)

jellyfrizz · 15/05/2023 17:53

Hagosaurus · 14/05/2023 10:44

Strange how it’s so triggering to be expected to play sport/use spaces & services for your own sex, but taking a privilege which is only extended to men is…..absolutely fine
Why on earth would that be?

Yes, doesn't this law mean that trans women are 'banned' from standing? Just like all those poor trans women 'banned' from taking part in the sports they love.

Bosky · 15/05/2023 17:37

Interesting. I wonder what happened with this case? Obviously failed but why?

"In 2018, five daughters of hereditary peers took the Government to the European Court of Human Rights, arguing they were being discriminated against by being blocked from the Lords."

Then there is this, also failed:

Let daughters inherit peerages, says MP vowing to end sexism in the Lords
Harriett Baldwin will present her proposals to MPs this week as she calls for abolition of the ‘last bastion of constitutional sexism’
16 January 2023
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/politics/2023/01/16/let-daughters-inherit-peerages-says-mp-vowing-end-sexism-lords/

Looking on the bright side, maybe Lady Simon's bare-faced cheek will help expose the sham of "gender identity"?

It looks from the Telegraph article as if Lady Simon does not have a GRC so remains legally male and the GRA is not relevant anyway in this case.

"Matilda Simon, the 3rd Baron of Wythenshawe, is tipped to stand in a by-election to replace the Liberal Democrat Viscount Falkland, voted on by all sitting peers, with entries closing on May 15.

If successful, they would become the only woman, self-identified, among the chamber’s 92 hereditary peers, despite holding a title because they were born a man."
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2023/05/13/daughters-shunned-from-peerage-angry-as-trans-tory-allowed/

RayonSunrise · 15/05/2023 12:34

ResisterRex · 15/05/2023 08:26

I don't think it is overstating it. Marriages can take place in a registry office and that was denied to same-sex couples. Equal marriage didn't happen until the Cameron era.

Civil partnerships and marriages both happened in registry offices. (I attended civil partnerships in registry offices!) If you look at a side-by-side explanation of what they actually meant in law, it was the same thing. The whole point was to keep traditionalists quiet because it "wasn't really marriage," except it was. This seems to have been lost on a lot of people, including the straight couple who made out that being civil partners somehow made their union different from a marriage in something other than name.

ResisterRex · 15/05/2023 08:26

I don't think it is overstating it. Marriages can take place in a registry office and that was denied to same-sex couples. Equal marriage didn't happen until the Cameron era.

RayonSunrise · 15/05/2023 08:19

ResisterRex · 14/05/2023 12:04

I'm always surprised that civil partnerships are looked back on with no negativity. IIRC, Stonewall pushed them a lot, and ignored dissenting LGB views (L in particular) who didn't want them - or marriage.

But even if you did want equality, CPs were not equality. They were like apartheid for homosexuals.

Between the GRA and CPs, it stuns me that these were Labour "party of equality" actions.

"Apartheid for homosexuals" is overstating the difference between a civil partnership and marriage by some margin. In practice they are exactly the same thing, only marriages could happen in churches but civil partnerships couldn't. A bit tough if you were gay and deeply religious, but in terms of legal rights and protections there was barely a sliver of light between civil partnership and marriage. (Which was why I regarded the heterosexual couple fighting for their right to a civil partnership as a couple of numpties - they could get married in a registrar's office anyway, so they were taking up all that court time over a tiny semantic difference.)

Both the civil partnership/GRA stuff was a fudge to support gay rights without risking up the traditionalists. We have been dealing with the fallout of the latter ever since.

dcbc1234 · 15/05/2023 02:08

Wenfy · 14/05/2023 22:33

This man has an elder sister. If they changed the law he should, quite rightly, lose his peerage to her.

Such changes are unlikely to be retrospective.

Wenfy · 14/05/2023 22:33

This man has an elder sister. If they changed the law he should, quite rightly, lose his peerage to her.

FigRollsAlly · 14/05/2023 22:29

MargotBamborough · 14/05/2023 21:01

Because there's an exemption for that in the Gender Recognition Act. A person with a gender recognition certificate has changed sex legally for all purposes except for the purposes of inheriting titles and property in accordance with male primogeniture.

David Lammy fought for that exemption in parliament in 2003.

Yes, the same David Lammy who called women who need single sex spaces "dinosaurs who hoard rights".

David Lammy?? I didn’t think he could go any further down in my estimation but he just has. Was he identifying as Jacob Rees Mogg that day?

BaseDrops · 14/05/2023 22:28

Nicola Sturgeon said she believes trans women are women ("except... er... in the... er... prison context")

AKA trans women are women except in cases where violent crimes against female employees were facilitated by trans women prisoners being placed in female prisons.

That places responsibility on Scot Gov due to inadequate failure to prevent harm. Which also puts employees and members of the prison boards in the frame for prosecution.

Private companies however - well it’s their risk innit. ScotGov publicly affirm “trans women are women”, achieving trans support and good press while ensuring their own services are becoming um, more risk averse. The hypocrisy is quite something.

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JacquelinePot · 14/05/2023 22:26

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 14/05/2023 10:54

We've said this before, but it bears repetition. Way back in the early 2000s a UK national went all the way through the courts and ended up at the European Court of Human Rights seeking the legal right to marry their partner, and won. The person concerned was male, identified as a woman, and wanted to marry a man. This was impossible at the time because birth certificates were required and same sex marriage was not allowed in law.

One way round this would have been to introduce same-sex marriage, but the Labour government felt the UK public was not ready to accept that. (A mistake, I think. Civil partnerships were very readily accepted a few years later when the Tories introduced them.)

Instead, they drew up the Gender Recognition Act, making it possible for people with a psychiatric diagnosis of gender dysphoria to apply to a panel for permission to get a new birth certificate showing the sex they identified with, not their actual biological sex as recorded on their original birth certificate.

Like most British people, I was barely aware this was happening at the time. The House of Commons and the House of Lords had to debate the proposed new law but they weren't given a lot of time to do it, because the government had a big majority at the time and knew they could get this through with minimal opposition. Some MPs and Lords did raise concerns, all recorded in Hansard, but the government's response was (more or less) that this was scaremongering. They were doing this to be kind to a tiny minority of people. Their own experts said there were unlikely to be more than 5000 people in the whole of the UK who would qualify for a gender recognition certificate. They were spot on there, as in nearly 20 years it's been barely more than that issued altogether, I believe.

However, what the government had totally failed to grasp was that activists regarded the GRA as a foot in the door and never intended to stop there, and of course they didn't, as we have seen in the last few years. Self-ID was always the goal, and if you take away the safeguards of panel, psychiatric reports, gender dysphoria diagnosis and so on, and the effect of social media and social contagion, suddenly there are hundreds of thousands of people who don't identify as their birth sex.

Anyway, going back to the debates - having waved aside all concerns about single-sex services and spaces, women's sport, integrity of birth records etc etc - Parliament did make at least one amendment to the GRA before it passed into law. Getting a GRC would have no effect whatsoever on the individual's right to inherit a peerage.

Suppose Lord Marmaduke Bloggs has three children: daughter Araminta, son Josiah, son Ebenezer, born in that order. Josiah is the one in line to inherit the title, as the elder son. If Josiah predeceased Marmaduke, Ebenezer would inherit. Araminta has no chance, because she is a girl. Ludicrous system all round, but that's what we have.

Now suppose in adult life Josiah identifies as trans and takes the name Josie Bloggs. Josie gets a GRC and has a new birth certificate showing that Josie Bloggs is female. Marmaduke dies. It might have been expected that the title would now pass to Ebenezer. Josiah is legally female for all purposes now, after all - but no! Legally female for all purposes, except inheritance of a title! So the title that couldn't pass to Araminta still goes to Josie.

And naturally enough, if Araminta also got a GRC and became Aramis Bloggs, certified male - yes, you've guessed it. Still not entitled to inherit a title, in spite of being legally male and older than Josie.

What a farce.

I was early 20s when Labour introduced the GRA, and like most people had no idea. I found out about it in about 2018 and just about fell off my chair. It's absurd and it has lead to obscene situations like men in women's prisons and sports and women being gaslight by the NHS to believe that man in their ward/performing their intimate procedure is female. It needs repealling, urgently.

Here's an eye-popping thread on how the debates went at the time

https://twitter.com/HairyLeggdHarpy/status/1177699186361458688?cxt=HHwWgIC79fLKg9ggAAAA

https://twitter.com/HairyLeggdHarpy/status/1177699186361458688?cxt=HHwWgIC79fLKg9ggAAAA

Musomama1 · 14/05/2023 21:27

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