I have been happy to be re-educated today on the 'It Gets Better' TikTok account (238.3k followers, 162k views of the video) about what it means to be a lesbian.
One of the women behind Couplagoofs (two autistic women in a relationship) talks about how it's a misconception that lesbian = a woman who loves other women.
No! The definition is 'non-men who are attracted to and love other non-men.'
She warns against the women who gatekeep the identity and says there are in fact a zillion different ways to be a lesbian.
So that's me told and I wanted to spread the gospel further. I'm sure none of us non-men on this board would want to be behind the times.
I am so sickened that so many people swallow this ideology whole 😔