“Trans women are not the enemy. Trans women are women, and face many of the same discriminations that cis-women face with the added discrimination that comes with being trans in a society that thrives on inequality.
If there's an insistence on finding an 'enemy' it's the sexism that believes the indulgence of a man's self image should be valued and nurtured while ignoring and belittling women and telling them the bullshit that their wish for privacy, dignity, safety and equality of consideration is naughty and wrong and their concerns aren't real and don't matter.
TW are male. It's the necessary characteristic: they are not women. They are male and identify as trans. They wish to have privileges not extended to any other males.
They do not face the same issues that women as adult human females do - I don't know about 'cis women', that's a political group of those who self identify with that label, and I assume from speakers like Willoughby they can be of either sex. They are not the sex class female. Male people are not female people and have no idea what the issues and needs of female people are - and do not care either, they are loud and clear on that. Particularly needs and issues that are inconvenient to male freedoms and not titillating.
The needs of TQ+ identified males are no less than an other groups, and nor are they the same. It is not necessary to meet TQ+ male needs by stomping on, ignoring and erasing female needs and realities. TQ+ male needs can be met without ever interfering with female people's rights, needs and spaces.
Which proves that all of this endless waffle is merely about trying to force male people's access to non consenting female people's bodies (no other part of the female is of any interest) and making it sound.... somehow.... ok instead of abhorrent.