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This is what happens when women say "No" - Vermont school ban

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Binglebong · 15/03/2023 00:46

Apologies if this had already been posted - I couldn't see it.

A school in Vermont refused, for reason of fairness and safety, to play against a women's team that had a trans player (presenting female - what is the right word at that age because too young to be transwomen?)

They have now been banned from ALL competitive sports. Because women said no.

It isn't really any wonder athletes are afraid to speak up, is it?

amp.theguardian.com/sport/2023/mar/13/vermont-school-that-boycotted-game-with-trans-player-banned-from-tournaments

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namitynamechange · 17/03/2023 15:18

@SinnerBoy

Oh I agree - it was a principled stance and absolutely the right thing to do in my opinion. Its just so demonstrative that women (or in this case girls) removing themself from a situation is interpreted as a hostile act that must be punished.

ValuePartnership · 17/03/2023 15:09

It is really such a perversion of discourse to claim that trans individuals are entitled to have whatever they want (for whatever reason) because attention to the unreasonableness of their wishes/demands has let to verbal/physical attacks and threats; while at the same time (a) refusing to accept any blame for similar harassment of gender critical commenters, and (b) telling such individuals that it is a result of their wrong-headed opinions, which they only need to change/keep quiet about, in order for the attacks to cease. Of course, not only are all the attacks illegitimate and almost certainly illegal, but allowing them to influence argument is the same as endorsing such behaviour at all levels of debate - from kids in the playground to the relations of states. But, and this is the vital thing, they are only a significant factor when trans women/biological [not cis] women are involved. Why is there no objection to trans men (i.e. biological women) impinging on biological men's perceived areas? Why no fuss along the lines of "trans men are men" or "keep trans men out of men's football teams"?

SinnerBoy · 17/03/2023 13:36

namitynamechange · Today 11:29

One of (its hard to pick) the worst part of this is that they conceded the match - they basically accepted a loss to their team instead of playing. Its unfair that they had to do even that.

Horrible and unfair though it is, I admire their principled stance, which achieved two things.

The school removed the girls from the risk of serious physical harm, by a hulking great male. It prevented them from being humiliated, by having to accept a false loss, by a team which has been allowed to cheat.

It still makes me want to puke.

nilsmousehammer · 17/03/2023 13:26

Gawd. If receiving threats = entitlement, women on this board should be entitled to the moon on a stick by this point.

xJoy · 17/03/2023 13:01

Jeez, even if some trans people have received threats, why does that mean that they get to ruin women's sport. Like, does that make the threats go away? It's just so unfair.

PermanentTemporary · 17/03/2023 12:57

Bloody hell that snopes article. Rare use of the phrase 'she was only 6'5"!'

As I said, I don't like the use of single still pictures in this issue, because ridiculing individuals isn't right, even when the image does illustrate a point, and it's absolutely true that women who aren't pretty or particularly feminine or conformist, or in fact trans like Mack Beggs, suffer. Images get manipulated by all parties too.

It also means we get ludicrous articles like that which deliberately miss the point so completely.

SquidwardBound · 17/03/2023 12:03

namitynamechange · 17/03/2023 11:33

The Snopes (attempted) take down of that basketball story is hilarious. The effort they make is absolutely heroic. www.snopes.com/fact-check/gabrielle-ludwig/

How can it be out of context? The context does’t change the height difference. It can’t. Trying to claim that age somehow means that the huge height difference wasn’t an advantage is disingenuous at best. Nor does when the photo was taken make any difference.

That article is classic ‘the mostest oppressed ever in the history of everything’ TRA stuff. And all from the trans woman’s perspective. Obviously. That’s the only context that could really matter.

namitynamechange · 17/03/2023 11:33

OldCrone · 15/03/2023 16:38

What they say:
The inclusion of transgender athletes, especially in girls’ and women’s sports, has been met with pushback from conservatives, with many arguing that transgender athletes have an advantage over cisgender women.

What they mean:
The inclusion of male athletes in girls’ and women’s sports has been met with pushback from rational people, with many arguing that male athletes have an advantage over women.

Does the Guardian actually understand why we have separate male and female sporting categories?

This is what a male trans player on a women's basketball team looks like.

The Snopes (attempted) take down of that basketball story is hilarious. The effort they make is absolutely heroic. www.snopes.com/fact-check/gabrielle-ludwig/

namitynamechange · 17/03/2023 11:29

One of (its hard to pick) the worst part of this is that they conceded the match - they basically accepted a loss to their team instead of playing. Its unfair that they had to do even that. But the fact that the reaction was so petty and vindictive - preventing every single girl in the school participating in sports with other schools is awful.

Grammarnut · 17/03/2023 11:14

NotBadConsidering · 15/03/2023 08:37

One of these cases inevitably has to end up in SCOTUS to determine whether sex or gender is the important part of Title IX.

Under Biden the decision is highly likely to be in favour of gender being the important part of Title IX - he is totally sold on gender woo woo.

SinnerBoy · 16/03/2023 14:23

Oh, I must have said the wrong thing about the trans relay runner from Massachusetts....

SerafinasGoose · 16/03/2023 12:05

SquidwardBound · 15/03/2023 07:14

It’s dreadful reporting.

It does illustrate how polarised things are in the USA. You are either a liberal who is all about gender ideology or on the Christian right it seems. This sort of rhetoric leaves little space for any debate at all. So all the people who aren’t in either category stay silent and even blame themselves for not being pure enough of thought and intention.

This makes sense.

These days, even British GC feminists are accused of being aligned with and funded by the alt-right, including Christian fundamentalist groups in the US; groups which bear little resemblance to any similar hard-of-thinking movement currently existing in the UK. The Ideology is quite sufficiently lacking in criticality and nuance to reason that an actual British feminist would align herself with the kind of GOP, pro-life aligned cult which conservatively thinks a woman's place is in the kitchen, subservient to her menfolk, happily propagates the Trad Wife in true southern style and denies women autonomy over our own bodies.

Who knew feminism had turned so hard to the right, eh?

(And who recognises anything MRAs are peddling about Difficult Women Who Say No as emanating in any way from the Left? Their kind of rhetoric seems far more aligned with the kinds of sentiments outlined above, which they seem so keen to attribute to the feminists of today).

Top-level DARVO, or what?

SinnerBoy · 16/03/2023 09:29

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OneMorePlant · 16/03/2023 00:25

I hope more schools will stand up for girls. It's so ridiculous this is happening

Binglebong · 16/03/2023 00:23

SquidwardBound · 15/03/2023 22:00

TRAs always claim ‘threats to trans lives’. But there’s no evidence that trans people are at increased risk of murder. Any increased risk there might be seems to be from suicide.

Threats of suicide are a pretty standard tool of abuse. People repeating this stuff are encouraging this.

It’s unacceptable how the TRAs uses suicide in its rhetoric. And how politicians and various other people just repeat it - rather than questioning it and condemning it as irresponsible.

Maybe a threat to the lives they want- where they can have everything, including unlimited access to women.

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MrGHardy · 15/03/2023 22:17

“The VPA again reiterates its ongoing support of transgender student-athletes as not only a part of building an inclusive community for each student to grow and thrive, but also as a clear expectation by Vermont state law(s) in the Agency of Education Best Practices, and in VPA Policy regarding transgender student athletes,” the association said in a statement.

As usual, all students "thrive" except girls.

SquidwardBound · 15/03/2023 22:00

TRAs always claim ‘threats to trans lives’. But there’s no evidence that trans people are at increased risk of murder. Any increased risk there might be seems to be from suicide.

Threats of suicide are a pretty standard tool of abuse. People repeating this stuff are encouraging this.

It’s unacceptable how the TRAs uses suicide in its rhetoric. And how politicians and various other people just repeat it - rather than questioning it and condemning it as irresponsible.

PriamFarrl · 15/03/2023 21:27

EfingNora · 15/03/2023 06:56

Quote from the article "Trans rights advocates argue for the inclusion of an already marginalized group that has faced historic discrimination, and threats to their lives."
Threats to their lives? Bit like that "decapitate terfs" sign threatening women then. Don't they realise that threats of death and other violence are just a normal part of being a woman?

And women haven’t suffered all of those things, for all of history, and are still suffering them today in every single town, village and city in the world?

Truthlikeness · 15/03/2023 21:24

This story was really distressing. I've experienced a not dissimilar situation in this country - we're not even allowed to question men in women's sports. It's industrial-scale gaslighting. I completely despair for women's sports.
Many women go along with it because they are utterly terrified of being branded transphobic or they have convinced themselves transwomen are a vulnerable minority who must have everything opened up to them.

SinnerBoy · 15/03/2023 18:59

EfingNora · Today 06:56

Quote from the article "Trans rights advocates argue for the inclusion of an already marginalized group that has faced historic discrimination, and threats to their lives."

Threats to their lives? Bit like that "decapitate terfs" sign threatening women then. Don't they realise that threats of death and other violence are just a normal part of being a woman?

That's also the part of the article I felt was most salient, I thought, "What? Women?"

If you are allowed and supported in being allowed into a sport, in a category in which you shouldn't have any entitlement, it doesn't really shout marginalised, does it? Or being allowed to make the most disturbing threats online and to rarely be sanctioned. Or to stand next to politicians, with signs calling for murder and to get away with it. Or to assault women, as the Police spectate and threaten to arrest the victim.

No, to me, that doesn't say marginalised, or discriminated against; it says "Allowed to discriminate, with powerful support."

Binglebong · 15/03/2023 18:46

Their*. Oh the shame!

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Binglebong · 15/03/2023 18:44

Sorry it was a very biased Guardian article - I saw it late last night and just wanted to stop it getting buried so didn't have time to search for a better one. Also why I dropped and ran!

I think this will be quite a useful one to respond with whenever there are the inevitable comments about how women should just boycott if they don't like it. Poor girls, so unfair to them.

One of these days I'm going to ask these people who feel you have to think identically on all point what colour the sky is. There minds will be blown when we both say blue!

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nilsmousehammer · 15/03/2023 18:38

ValuePartnership · 15/03/2023 17:32

All this vicious discrimination against women (in this case women who want to play sports against other women, and not be overwhelmed and injured playing men) is done in the name of the "LGBTQ+ community". Well I am a gay man and it is certainly not a community to which I belong.

That. LGBTWhatever no longer means a widely diverse group of people with only homosexuality in common. It now means a group of people of any sexuality with a political belief in common.

Hence the endless attempts to redefine homophobia into being a sin committed by homosexuals against male people by saying that sex exists and they are not homogenderal.

SquidwardBound · 15/03/2023 18:17

howmanybicycles · 15/03/2023 17:40

Trans people should not be excluded from sport. Sport is segregated by sex not gender. This transgirl (AKA boy) should not be prevented from playing on the boy's team. If they excluded them from that then we'd have a true case of transphobia. They didn't so this is clearly a case of misogyny

Yes. This is always the thing. They’re not being excluded. They’re just not getting to choose to compete in the category of their choice. it’s just the same as deciding you identify as under 10 so you can compete against the little kids rather than other 15 year olds.

That’s not exclusion. Exclusion is when you can’t do something, not when you don’t like the rules much.

howmanybicycles · 15/03/2023 17:41

ValuePartnership · 15/03/2023 17:32

All this vicious discrimination against women (in this case women who want to play sports against other women, and not be overwhelmed and injured playing men) is done in the name of the "LGBTQ+ community". Well I am a gay man and it is certainly not a community to which I belong.

Thank you. We need more to stand up against this discrimination against women and to reject the false teaming with homosexuality.