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The Lib Dem candidate has just been round, and guess what...

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FetchezLaVache · 14/03/2023 17:03

He couldn't say what a woman is.

He is a biochemist by training and doesn't believe it's as simple as XX or XY.

He believes that some people are born into the wrong bodies.

He personally doesn't mind who is in the next cubicle, but does accept that some women might not feel equally comfortable.

He believes that the issue with men using female changing rooms is not that men might try to spy on women getting changed, because some women do that too and it's a crime that should be punished regardless of the sex of the person committing it - he clearly thought that was an absolutely unanswerable point, despite conceding he's not aware of any cases of biological women being caught spying on other changing room users.

He's not bothered that I won't be voting him because of his and his ridiculous party's views.

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TheBiologyStupid · 14/03/2023 20:20

Crouton19 · 14/03/2023 20:08

The “it’s going to happen anyway”/“some women do that too” is one of the LD scripted responses.

https://lgbt.libdems.org.uk/en/page/debunking-transphobic-talking-points-longer-version#predatory

The rest of that link should give you an idea what will come up, and how ridiculous their position is. Absolutely no compassion for women and children, a total Us v Them approach and nothing like the pragmatic approach of the party of 10 yrs ago.

Thanks, Crouton - Lib Dems are the only ones who bother canvassing here (safe Tory seat and Labour seem to be too weak locally to bother). I'll be ready and waiting!

StephanieSuperpowers · 14/03/2023 20:19

I'm at the point where I'm going to say that I'll vote for whichever party isn't in favour of this nonsense. Don't come to my door any lie to me about what we both know, and worse, try to tell me that you reckon men and women have the same offending patterns and expect my vote, you absolute canary.

I wouldn't leave someone that thick I'm charge of a cat, let alone policy. Lacking even that basic competence, don't look for my vote.

PegasusReturns · 14/03/2023 20:14

The trouble is that saying you won’t vote, not voting or spoiling your vote doesn’t have an impact.

you have to vote for the opposition and that is a difficult to ask.

Crouton19 · 14/03/2023 20:08

The “it’s going to happen anyway”/“some women do that too” is one of the LD scripted responses.

https://lgbt.libdems.org.uk/en/page/debunking-transphobic-talking-points-longer-version#predatory

The rest of that link should give you an idea what will come up, and how ridiculous their position is. Absolutely no compassion for women and children, a total Us v Them approach and nothing like the pragmatic approach of the party of 10 yrs ago.

Forester1 · 14/03/2023 19:48

As said on another thread the SDP know what a woman is

howmanybicycles · 14/03/2023 19:47

FetchezLaVache · 14/03/2023 19:37

He thinks unisex is fine, as long as there are also 'gendered' (sic) facilities for those who feel uncomfortable in unisex ones. But he ferreted slightly totally when asked if he would support TW being allowed to use the women's. I think we know what that means.

He thinks there should be 100 categories of changing room? Or he thinks agender females (aka woman FFS) should share their facilities with men who believe their gender is 'woman'. I would have liked him to share his 'logic' about this. Why does he think people are any more comfortable in 'gendered' ones than they are in unisex ones? The only people who largely appear to feel more comfortable in his proposed set-up are trans identifying men.

AmuseBish · 14/03/2023 19:44

It almost by definition requires a religious belief, or a belief in something metaphysical. I'd be uneasy about voting for someone who believes in a flawed supernatural power who determines bodies - at least, not without a really clear elaboration of what their belief entails and whether it would interfere in, e.g, abortion rights.

AmuseBish · 14/03/2023 19:40

He couldn't say what a woman is.

It's actually really bloody offensive to go round saying TWAW then saying you have no idea what it is you are saying TW are. If I came across a word I didn't know what it meant I wouldn't go round saying a group of people are it! I'd feel a right idiot!

By what mechanism are people born into the wrong body? Where is the right body?

FetchezLaVache · 14/03/2023 19:37

howmanybicycles · 14/03/2023 19:22

"He believes that the issue with men using female changing rooms is not that men might try to spy on women getting changed, because some women do that too and it's a crime that should be punished regardless of the sex of the person committing it"

so does he think we should just have unisex changing rooms? If not, why not?

He thinks unisex is fine, as long as there are also 'gendered' (sic) facilities for those who feel uncomfortable in unisex ones. But he ferreted slightly totally when asked if he would support TW being allowed to use the women's. I think we know what that means.

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Igneococcus · 14/03/2023 19:30

Green parties worldwide typically do not whip their MPs.

Somebody needs to tell the Scottish Green Party.

howmanybicycles · 14/03/2023 19:22

"He believes that the issue with men using female changing rooms is not that men might try to spy on women getting changed, because some women do that too and it's a crime that should be punished regardless of the sex of the person committing it"

so does he think we should just have unisex changing rooms? If not, why not?

WarningToTheCurious · 14/03/2023 19:21

My Lib Dem councillor is very much GC (she made a point of coming round to chat to people and I specifically asked her) and I’m happy to vote for her based on the LD local policies.

But nationally … no way.

Signalbox · 14/03/2023 19:21

because some women do that too and it's a crime that should be punished regardless of the sex of the person committing it

Presumably he’s under the misapprehension that crimes like this usually result in a conviction. And “women do it too” is such a load of gaslighting bullshit. The cases of women being abusive in women’s spaces must be miniscule.

MrGHardy · 14/03/2023 19:11

"He's not bothered that I won't be voting him because of his and his ridiculous party's views."

I think this is very telling and more common with the 'progressives'. Either with me 100% or not at all and if you are not at all you are scum and I don't care.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 14/03/2023 18:55

I live in a super safe Labour seat and in a borough with almost no councillors who aren't Labour so was amazed to have a councillor knock on the door the other day. Nice man. I told him I couldn't vote for Labour as I am very concerned about women's rights and safeguarding of children and other vulnerable people and I feel Labour has lost its way with gender issues. He said he would feed this back. I didn't ask his own views, though, and it could all have been flannel.

Better than the Green chap who canvassed last year to whom I said the same thing. He said he totally supported the party line on gender issues. He looked very disappointed in me Grin but he didn't get my vote. Neither did the WEP woman a couple of years ago who also made sympathetic noises but could provide no substantive reassurance to allay my concerns.

DemiColon · 14/03/2023 18:35

DiscoBoots · 14/03/2023 17:51

I got doorstopped by a local Green candidate yesterday.

We discussed local issues then she asked if she might get my vote. I replied that I couldn't vote for the Green party due to their stance on trans issues and the loss of women's rights

She took a deep breath and replied that she wouldn't be whipped to vote a specific way on issues (implied that was Green policy) and told me that she personally was very concerned about these issues and the implications for women, and she wouldn't feel comfortable using the loo with a man next door and certainly didn't want to see any males in women's prisons.

All very sensible and common sense.

I asked her to pass on that this was a huge issue for me and many people I knew and she gave me a clear indication I was not the only person to mention this

Green parties worldwide typically do not whip their MPs. That's part of the philosophy of the parties which says that MPs should be responsible to the desires of the people they represent.

In practice they have other ways of ensuring they toe the line.

Shelefttheweb · 14/03/2023 18:29

The worry is they will think people vote for them because of their gender ideology not despite it.

TodayInahurry · 14/03/2023 18:23

MintJulia I will not vote for Labour until they stand up for women, and Starmer says what a woman is.

MintJulia · 14/03/2023 18:20

@Shelefttheweb I hope there is a change. I really do. The election next year is Labour's to lose.

But they are unfortunately, so stupid, I suspect they may still throw it away.

And I can't bring myself to vote for a party who denies my very identity.

Shelefttheweb · 14/03/2023 18:16

HedwigIsMyDemon · 14/03/2023 18:12

@Shelefttheweb im utterly confused - Labour will win or won’t win?

Probably win. But they could still mess up.

Shelefttheweb · 14/03/2023 18:12

As a centrist, I think political change is overdue, so ordinarily would be voting labour or Lib Dem next time. But I won’t.

HedwigIsMyDemon · 14/03/2023 18:12

@Shelefttheweb im utterly confused - Labour will win or won’t win?

Shelefttheweb · 14/03/2023 18:09

Florissant · 14/03/2023 18:07

That's a lot of words to say that Labour seem to be inelectable.

Yes, but may still win. Unfortunately they will put it down to their ideas being attractive to voters rather than the Tories.

Florissant · 14/03/2023 18:07

Shelefttheweb · 14/03/2023 18:05

The Tories have been in power too long so too many negative things have been attached to them. Many their own fault, others (like cost of living crisis and pandemic) not but regardless of whether actually managed well or not will still be a negative for them. Despite labours best efforts, they are likely to win. An advantage of being out of power is it is pretty hard for you to do anything wrong and as the party in power does more wrong things the opposition find it harder to counteract that with idiot beliefs and speeches.

That's a lot of words to say that Labour seem to be inelectable.

Shelefttheweb · 14/03/2023 18:05

MintJulia · 14/03/2023 17:54

Well, that's the LDs off my list. 🙄 What a bunch of idiots.

The Tories are going to win again, aren't they.

The Tories have been in power too long so too many negative things have been attached to them. Many their own fault, others (like cost of living crisis and pandemic) not but regardless of whether actually managed well or not will still be a negative for them. Despite labours best efforts, they are likely to win. An advantage of being out of power is it is pretty hard for you to do anything wrong and as the party in power does more wrong things the opposition find it harder to counteract that with idiot beliefs and speeches.