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Women's rights general conversations - Thread 4

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Kucinghitam · 09/03/2023 09:19

Continuation of Thread 3.

There is so much excellent information and so many active discussions on FWR that I wondered if it would be useful to have a thread to sort of "cross-fertilise" between them - airing little thoughts or vignettes that wouldn't themselves merit their own thread, to highlight other posts/threads of particular interest or to point to notable developments on fast-moving threads so that casual observers know where to look.

(For example, "the X thread has meandered onto a fascinating discussion of Y" or "Poster P's amazing analysis on thread Z might have relevance to the scenario in thread W" or "Has anybody noticed this recurring theme that keeps coming up??" or even "Random bloke asked me to smile while I was choosing onions, grr"- that sort of thing).

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SinnerBoy · 28/03/2023 14:38

Both Sides is the biggest lie since I don't know what.

Kucinghitam · 28/03/2023 14:30

Winterborne74 · 28/03/2023 13:59

Indeed. She's absolutely right.

We've seen it again and again. No matter what/who, TRSOH eagerly paint anybody who doesn't subscribe to their Bundle of Good Beliefs as tainted: sometimes it's just "bad tone" or "incorrect vocabulary" or "not condemning naughty people enough" but sometimes the faux-reasonable mask falls right off and it's "you've always been evil inside." And once they've comfortably painted the Bad People, then anything can be justified or excused. Sometimes followed by a chickenshit chaser of "Oh it does make me sad, you know, Both Sides..."

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Winterborne74 · 28/03/2023 10:59

This is a related but (at least for me) difficult question, prompted in part by Nashville. And to be clear, I have no idea if the shooter in that case was on cross-sex hormones but the event set off the train of thought.

Are there any other "health care" treatments which correlate with an increase in aggression and criminality other than giving healthy females testosterone? The studies that I have seen show an increase in these behaviours relative to the general female population, but I don't know about any other co-morbidities such as pre-existing mental health conditions. But, as they say, testosterone seems one hell of a drug. Where is the evidence that the therapeutic "benefit" outweighs the harm either on the individual level or the social level? I'm fairly sure that I've seen evidence that rates of attempted suicide do not decrease when cross sex hormones are introduced. I've read a lot about the feelings of euphoria when girls are given testosterone. I'm very aware that I'm not a doctor, a scientist, a therapist etc. but this is all such a mess. Why are we experimenting on children and young women? etc

beastlyslumber · 28/03/2023 10:13

I wish we could just accept that women are allowed to have any opinions they like. We seem to always have to designate some women as "beyond the pale." Look what that led to with KJK. It's not any different just because it happens to be a woman you dislike this time. The name calling and the monstering is wrong and puts women in danger. Let's stop trying to discredit women we don't like and instead start debating them. E.g. If you don't like JHB's comments on Andrew Tate then take them on, articulate your disagreement and invite discussion. It's bullshit to just say that she's vile because of such comments. Explain why you disagree and what you think would be a better approach. I know JHB is capable of listening to others and changing her mind. We all should strive to be as robust.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/03/2023 09:40

It's usually monthly. The next one at the moment is set for Sunday 30 April.

@NotDrowningJustCrowing apologies I hadn't yet seen Venice Allan's announcement about going weekly from now on. You are right.

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Kucinghitam · 28/03/2023 08:46

Me personally, I got sick and tired of what I now see as purity-spiralling, in the run-up to the Great Departure. And as all FWR regulars know, there's a never-ending dribbling of "so-and-so associated with Bad People/ reported by Bad Media/ bundles of Bad Beliefs" verbal diarrhoea all over the topic.

If I happen to share the factual understanding that the Earth orbits the Sun, that water is wet, and that humans are a gonochoric species in which sex is immutable with a Bad Person, that is because these things are REAL.

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Kucinghitam · 28/03/2023 08:42

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AFAICS from the many confused reports, the shooter was female.

Re: calling people "vile" I would say that as long as it is equal-opportunity applied to either sex, it isn't misogynistic in itself. But I do think it's helpful to clarify why they consider the person vile (e.g. what JHB said about Thunberg, or the eleventy-billion things LOJ says about women, etc) otherwise it's not exactly a useful comment... also then sets off a chain of further arguments (c.f. this thread overnight Grin).

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SinnerBoy · 28/03/2023 04:28

I think that the TRA have already shown just how tone deaf they are, only exultant stuff about how they won in NZ.

Boiledbeetle · 28/03/2023 03:19

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I can't imagine they would be that tone deaf as to still go ahead with a trans day of vengeance with firearm training after a transman killed six people, including three 9(?) year olds in a school with two guns.

If they do they may just bring their own cause to a crashing end in one day.

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NotDrowningJustCrowing · 28/03/2023 02:20

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NotDrowningJustCrowing · 28/03/2023 02:13

Re JHB, yes she's right wing but that's not what makes her "vile", if she is vile. She plays the man/woman, not the ball and I find this problematic whoever is doing it. There are many but they all seem to squish together. Recently she said she'd choose Andrew Tate's life every single time over the life of a half-educated , autistic, doom mongering eco-cultist. This was in response to the small dick energy comeback by Thunberg to Tate. She deleted the tweet then put it back without "autistic" because people had been "offended". She found this boring.

She is of course entitled to not like Greta Thunberg and what she stands for. She's also entitled to getting in some false equivalence with the whole small dick energy, and to be fair this was before the full truth about Tate came out, but it was the way she decided to word it. This is generally her modus operandi. It's not pleasant.

Unfortunately for the right, the columnists most guilty of this sort of interaction tend to be on "their side", although the likes of Owen Jones are giving them a run for their money. It's lazy and pandering to the lowest common denominator.

I have heard shit about KJK too but no evidence of it. As far as I know she's right wing and from a working class background. I know that she doesn't consider herself a feminist. That doesn't make her "vile". I think that a lot of people don't like working class women with a voice. I have no doubt that she has views I wouldn't agree with but when it comes to speaking up for women in this war on our rights she's with the angels as far as I'm concerned. There is no comparison between her and JHB. None JHB trolls for cash. KJK fights for our rights. She is a fine human being. JHB is not.

Boiledbeetle · 28/03/2023 00:44

IcakethereforeIam · 28/03/2023 00:39

Or this one! Somewhere to keep my keys. Just keep muttering twaw.

That reminds me of something....something from my dim and distant past

IcakethereforeIam · 28/03/2023 00:43

Trans firearms🤞

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Boiledbeetle · 28/03/2023 00:42

IcakethereforeIam · 28/03/2023 00:41

Do they have April fools day in the states?

I did wonder when the first few articles came up as 1st April... But it seems to be true!

SinnerBoy · 28/03/2023 00:42

They have now.

IcakethereforeIam · 28/03/2023 00:41

Do they have April fools day in the states?

SinnerBoy · 28/03/2023 00:41

How are they going to stop something non-existent?

IcakethereforeIam · 28/03/2023 00:39

Or this one! Somewhere to keep my keys. Just keep muttering twaw.

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Boiledbeetle · 28/03/2023 00:39

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Boiledbeetle · 28/03/2023 00:37

Or borrow his?

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IcakethereforeIam · 28/03/2023 00:36

Perhaps I've fallen for a piss take, I hope so.

Boiledbeetle · 28/03/2023 00:34

Do i want to Google TDOV?? I don't do i!

Just identify as having 20/20 vision then!

IcakethereforeIam · 28/03/2023 00:32

I'm perfect, but have trouble keeping my glasses on. Keep sliding down my face for some reason.

So, newspapers will correctly sex criminals but only when they're actually women.

Wonder if Transgender Day of Vengeance is still on in DC on the 1st. I hope not it could be a bloodbath. I'm genuinely horrified at what might happen.