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Women's rights general conversations - Thread 4

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Kucinghitam · 09/03/2023 09:19

Continuation of Thread 3.

There is so much excellent information and so many active discussions on FWR that I wondered if it would be useful to have a thread to sort of "cross-fertilise" between them - airing little thoughts or vignettes that wouldn't themselves merit their own thread, to highlight other posts/threads of particular interest or to point to notable developments on fast-moving threads so that casual observers know where to look.

(For example, "the X thread has meandered onto a fascinating discussion of Y" or "Poster P's amazing analysis on thread Z might have relevance to the scenario in thread W" or "Has anybody noticed this recurring theme that keeps coming up??" or even "Random bloke asked me to smile while I was choosing onions, grr"- that sort of thing).

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MavisMcMinty · 17/05/2023 09:16

Well done and thanks, Kuc!

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MmePoppySeedDefage · 17/05/2023 07:25

How to Kill your Family is such fun, and much more worthwhile than Ms Butler.

NotDrowningJustCrowing · 16/05/2023 23:09

Sorry for the wrong alignments. @Kucinghitam please can we have a new thread before I fill this one with too many words to say very little indeed.

NotDrowningJustCrowing · 16/05/2023 23:08

I'm going to read the Gender/spectrum/prison article in full later. I started and I was enjoying it but my head hurt after the Judith Butler article. Two things about Judith Butler from my perspective.

  1. I was confused for a while about all the negative stuff about her and also confused about the whole thing about her allegedly talking about gender. Why? Because, well, she was front and centre for the repeal of the contagious diseases acts, worked for the abolition of prostitution and so on and so on. This was because,
2 I had got her very, very confused with the 19th-century feminist activist Josephine Butler. So, yeah. That. All the more embarrassing because I did a lot of work on 19th-century prostitution and she was very front and centre in my research and a bit of a hero.

Judith. Oh dear, dear me, Judith. I wonder if she's just trolling the world with her absolute bullshit. The sentence that won her worst writing in the world ever award ... if that wasn't written to deliberately mess with people then she is an even worse person than I think she is and I think she's a pretty shitty person. Some of that, to be fair, is not her fault. I'm probably more annoyed with the people who worship at her temple and ignore the work of the women who went before her who were actually articulate, passionate, and had something new and important to say. I am now going to read How to Kill Your Family as a nice mind cleanser after the neverending bullshit of the wrong Butler.

Britinme · 16/05/2023 10:56

@Kucinghitam - I think this general/"summary" thread has been very useful. This is such a huge topic that I can't keep up with all the threads but this one has sent me to a few interesting ones. Please do start another.

Kucinghitam · 16/05/2023 09:32

angelico53 · 15/05/2023 18:59

Just came across this:

“Reality is that which, when you stop believing in it, doesn't go away.” Philip K. Dick

Have we a new thread yet?

I like that quote!

Do we need a new thread quite yet? I can start one in a bit...

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angelico53 · 15/05/2023 18:59

Just came across this:

“Reality is that which, when you stop believing in it, doesn't go away.” Philip K. Dick

Have we a new thread yet?

Kucinghitam · 15/05/2023 13:35

@angelico53
Well, as you know, there's a lot of repetition of old ignorances at the old place.

-old ignorances
+pious frauds

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MmePoppySeedDefage · 15/05/2023 13:18

There was someone in TOP who claimed to understand what Butler was talking about, IIRC. Sadly for us he kept his knowledge to himself.

Winterborne74 · 15/05/2023 11:06

That has been discussed (at the old place) on a few occasions and is 24 years old - but it's always worth a reread. I would say that article and Rebecca Reilly-Cooper's Gender is not a Spectrum probably have probably attained the status of old standards in this debate 😉

MavisMcMinty · 15/05/2023 10:49

Got a link there for us, angelico?

angelico53 · 15/05/2023 10:38

Don'tknow if this has been previously posted. It's a fascinating view of Bulterian feminism. Bottom line: she advocates (according to this author) a sly, sardonic, knowing undermining of norms (including rape and oppresssion) as the best way forward. Yes, completely see that. Fucking not.

IcakethereforeIam · 14/05/2023 15:50

Thank you @Britinme

@CryptoFascistMadameCholet Oh no!

CryptoFascistMadameCholet · 14/05/2023 15:45

Nice!

I’ve developed a proper parasocial friendship with Alasdair Gunn (aka ‘Angus Fox’) of Genspect. His writing on the mothers of new wave of teen boys ‘coming out’ as trans (largely autistic, hugely socially awkward, gamers and weebs) is very supportive be moving. His announcement re: having a terminal illness (hence dropping the nom de plume) made me bawl
my eyes out.

There are a few men working in and/or writing about this subject area who I suspect had really excellent relationships with their mothers - Alasdair is one of them, Brendan O’Neill another.

Makes a good contrast to the intrinsic mother -hating present in trans ideology.

Britinme · 14/05/2023 15:34

There are three letters under that heading. Unlike articles, there's no copyright issue with publicly printed letters so I think it's OK to paste them here:

Hadley Freeman spoke to doctors concerned that the word “woman” had been deleted from some NHS website pages about women’s health (“Welcome to the doctors’ resistance”, Comment, last week). Curious, I checked out the site’s section on ovarian cancer. Sure enough, there is no mention of women or even females on the first page; only a note that “anyone with ovaries” can get ovarian cancer. If you click through to page 3, this is eventually spelt out as “women, trans men, non-binary people and intersex people with ovaries”.
I then looked at the section on prostate cancer. By contrast, this acknowledges on the first page that it is a disease of the male reproductive system. Men are mentioned repeatedly on that page and throughout the following pages. Trans women, who also have a prostate gland, are never mentioned.
Why is there no need to talk about “anyone with a prostate” in discussing prostate cancer? Why don’t men need to be inclusive? The whole thing is simply misogyny.
Rebecca Chandler-Wilde, Henley-on-Thames, Oxfordshire

Captured college
Freeman writes that the Royal College of Psychiatrists (RCP) rebuked its members for questioning the statement that biological sex was “socially contrived”. She goes on to report that the RCP has received a gold award from the destructive organisation Stonewall. This makes me proud to say I am not a member of the RCP.

Having qualified as a doctor in England but trained as a psychiatrist in the US, I remain a distinguished life member of the American Psychiatric Organisation. However, this is having its own internal conflicts over gender ideology.

Those of us who have worked in clinical practice throughout our careers in psychotherapy have been aware for a long time that the public, and those in authority, are being badly misled by highly prejudiced, ideologically driven, non-scientific sources.
Joseph Berger, psychiatrist, Netanya, Israel

Medics’ intervention
I was heartened by Freeman’s piece about the medical professionals group the Clinical Advisory Network on Sex and Gender (CAN-SG). It’s good to see this thorny subject tackled with compassion and heart.

Like CAN-SG, we are concerned about the culture of fear created by spurious accusations of transphobia. The fact is, the medicalised approach to gender care is not working. It is time to consider alternatives. This group can bring experience and integrity to a sector in crisis. We’re lucky to have it.
Alasdair Gunn, vice-director, Genspect, Tipperary

Medical evidence over trans ideology: welcome to the doctors’ resistance

I was at a talk in London recently when I noticed a man waiting to meet me. He was an inner-city GP, he said, and there was a group that wished to speak to me — had I heard of CAN-SG

https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/welcome-to-the-doctors-resistance-trans-ideology-comment-brhqfn373

NotDrowningJustCrowing · 14/05/2023 04:27

I read the Lemkin piece too and I am really disappointed that they are conflating the views of Michael Knowles with gender critical ideas. One could argue that he was talking in good faith because there is a radical element to transgenderism and while I doubt they want to wipe out individuals who identify as trans, it's dodgy language. The gender critical movement, if in fact there is a movement, is not transphobic and going back to faith, it is a bad faith move to pretend otherwise.

@Kucinghitam is spot on with the thinking of TRSOH people. More and more I have to remind myself that they truly believe what they read, hear, say. They're generally not bastards, they're just wrong and a lot of them will one day, when the tide turns, pretend that they never believed it at all. My own personal "cognitive dissonance" (although that is the wrong phrase) is developing more understanding and empathy for the misguided but decent TRSOH types, whilst becoming ever angrier with the radicals. It's quite hard when you are being personally verbally attacked and called a fascist (or fascist adjacent, which is sort of amusing), to hold onto understanding.

I'm so thankful for this small safe place to not only speak freely but to learn more.

BinturongsSmellOfPopcorn · 13/05/2023 23:21

Well that was unexpected. Man announcing the Eurovision Austrian jury vote added a call for equal pay for women.

IcakethereforeIam · 13/05/2023 12:27

Was going to put this on the SFW Australia tour thread but it's full, so

https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2023/may/13/neo-nazis-clash-with-police-and-counter-protesters-at-anti-immigration-rally-in-melbourne

The only reason I'm bothering is because of this bit, if anyone knows how to complain to the Guardian (and can be arsed) please do. And ask them if there are no conflicts between women's rights and trans privileges right, why do they always call women's rights talks 'anti-trans'?

Women's rights general conversations - Thread 4
Winterborne74 · 13/05/2023 08:14

Ditto!

dunBle · 13/05/2023 07:37

IcakethereforeIam · 13/05/2023 01:34

Amazon are selling Victoria Smith's book Hags for 99p today (Saturday 13th).

Thanks for the heads up!

Kucinghitam · 13/05/2023 06:19

Exactly that energy @SinnerBoy! I first encountered the phenomenon back when the Internet was all fields, and part of being on TRSOH was defending the facts of Darwinian evolution and biological reality, against the YEC lot. The YECs made an art of Gish galloping, whataboutery and "lies for Jesus."

Now that Darwinian evolution and biological reality have been ejected from the Bundle of Good Beliefs, it's notable to me how TRSOH have eagerly and non-ironically adopted the tactics of the YECs, including the pious fraud.

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