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Complaining about 'assigned female at birth'

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howmanybicycles · 08/03/2023 19:17

My son (year 9) attended a presentation at school today offered by an external organisation. The woman used the term 'assigned female at birth' which I consider to be a slur. I'm tempted to complain but wanted to get my facts behind me first. Has this, in our current anti-female dystopia, become an 'accepted term'? Is there anything I can quote which shows the damage this sort of obfuscating language does?

She also told the kids that what you were 'assigned' was what the 'doctor' said when you were born which is quite a micro-aggression towards women, I thought, given that the baby's sex is actually recognised by the (usually female) midwife and not the (often male) doctors!

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Retractable · 08/03/2023 19:24

Sex is observed at birth.

MillicentTrilbyHiggins · 08/03/2023 19:24

Myalternate · 08/03/2023 19:21

What would the outcome be if the midwife and the Doctor disagreed on the sex?
or, does there need to be a third independent witness that has a casting vote?

Maybe the parents could get the deciding vote.
It could potentially solve 'gender disappointment' issues too. You could just choose whichever it was that you wanted.

QueenHippolyta · 08/03/2023 19:23

I used 'observed in utero' when a transman ,aka a girl ,tried that language with me.
She had no reply...

Myalternate · 08/03/2023 19:21

What would the outcome be if the midwife and the Doctor disagreed on the sex?
or, does there need to be a third independent witness that has a casting vote?

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