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KJK opposing fertility treatment for gay couples

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SapphosRock · 22/02/2023 14:10

KJK seems to have an ongoing beef with same sex couples having fertility treatment. Why? How is this benefiting women's rights?

Is is definitely not benefiting lesbian rights.

It also appears to be attracting all the homophobes on Twitter.

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Clymene · 24/02/2023 18:24

Love Julia. And KJK Smile

CryptoFascistMadameCholet · 24/02/2023 18:07

Eyerollcentral · 24/02/2023 17:53

If Dr Long is the first feminist you saw saying trans women are men out loud without apology then you need to brush up on Germaine Greer.

I meant in person! Germaine Greer was (sadly) experiencing her peak cancellation years when I first started paying attention (2017/2018).

Eyerollcentral · 24/02/2023 17:53

CryptoFascistMadameCholet · 24/02/2023 17:02

m.youtube.com/watch?v=NkO5taktmfc

I can’t get ‘live’ videos from YouTube to embed in a MN post, so here’s a link and screen shot.

Ngl - all those ladies singing made my eyes a bit wet.

Lovely to see Dr Julia Long leading the crowd through the loudhailer - Julia has long been my favourite voice in all this, on the trans issue, on the sexual exploitation of women via prostitution and reproductive exploitation via surrogacy.

Dr Long is the first feminist I ever saw say, out loud, matter of factly, without a hint of apology, ‘Transwomen are men’.

objectnow.org/about/

Julia Long is a Radical, Lesbian Feminist so I very much doubt she’d be there, literally cheering for KJK, as she walks into the police station, if she agreed with Sappho’s accusations that KJK is a lesbophobe/homophobe.

Here’s Julia on the Savage Minds podcast:

podtail.com/en/podcast/savage-minds-podcast/julia-long/

If Dr Long is the first feminist you saw saying trans women are men out loud without apology then you need to brush up on Germaine Greer.

Datun · 24/02/2023 17:47

Me too.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 24/02/2023 17:31

Love Dr Julia.

CryptoFascistMadameCholet · 24/02/2023 17:02

m.youtube.com/watch?v=NkO5taktmfc

I can’t get ‘live’ videos from YouTube to embed in a MN post, so here’s a link and screen shot.

Ngl - all those ladies singing made my eyes a bit wet.

Lovely to see Dr Julia Long leading the crowd through the loudhailer - Julia has long been my favourite voice in all this, on the trans issue, on the sexual exploitation of women via prostitution and reproductive exploitation via surrogacy.

Dr Long is the first feminist I ever saw say, out loud, matter of factly, without a hint of apology, ‘Transwomen are men’.

objectnow.org/about/

Julia Long is a Radical, Lesbian Feminist so I very much doubt she’d be there, literally cheering for KJK, as she walks into the police station, if she agreed with Sappho’s accusations that KJK is a lesbophobe/homophobe.

Here’s Julia on the Savage Minds podcast:

podtail.com/en/podcast/savage-minds-podcast/julia-long/

KJK opposing fertility treatment for gay couples
FOJN · 23/02/2023 19:35

It's pretty much the same story with puberty blockers / cross sex hormones and gender reassignment surgeries.

Yes the parallels weren't lost on me. It's easy to claim there is no evidence of detriment if you haven't collected any data.

Signalbox · 23/02/2023 19:10

The section on stem cell research and diabetes treatment is the terrifying part. How long before we see start considering exploitation of the world's most economically disadvantaged women, to cure disease, as a necessary evil?

I'd be amazed if they weren't already doing this.

Signalbox · 23/02/2023 19:09

It's a hard to believe that there are NO long term studies about the effects of donating eggs.

It's incredible isn't it?

Presumably they can get away with this because there is such strong ongoing demand for these treatments and unscrupulous clinicians are prepared to go ahead with them despite the lack of evidence because $$$$$$$$$$.

It's pretty much the same story with puberty blockers / cross sex hormones and gender reassignment surgeries.

FOJN · 23/02/2023 18:57

Thank you to the person who posted the link to the Eggsploitation documentary. In an age of gender affirmation treatment you'd think nothing could shock me about the state of medical ethics but I am shocked and frightened by the documentary.

It's a hard to believe that there are NO long term studies about the effects of donating eggs. I appreciate the documentary is US based and the women who appeared in the documentary MAY represent a tiny proportion of the women who donate eggs but without any long term studies we simply do not know that. When the possible effects include internal bleeding, ovarian torsion, stroke, cancer, future infertility and death we should make knowing how many women are affected a priority. How can anyone give informed consent without this information?

The section on stem cell research and diabetes treatment is the terrifying part. How long before we see start considering exploitation of the world's most economically disadvantaged women, to cure disease, as a necessary evil?

CandlelightGlow · 23/02/2023 18:16

AlisonDonut · 23/02/2023 18:06

Evidently you want KJK to stop having takes though. Weird.

Did I say that? Did I say anyone shouldn't post or have access to their social media accounts? Where please? Quote it.

Or did I say I thought it was BS? Am I not allowed to disagree? Do I need to call the free speech police?

Eyerollcentral · 23/02/2023 18:14

CandlelightGlow · 23/02/2023 18:01

Oh boo hoo no one is impeding anyone's free speech ffs, I'm simply saying if you choose to make ambiguous statements that sound kind of homophobic, it's not surprising that homophobic people will be drawn to it.

Her statement wasn’t ambiguous though. Her meaning was really clear

AlisonDonut · 23/02/2023 18:06

CandlelightGlow · 23/02/2023 18:03

If your patience is wearing thin, turn twitter off for a while! People don't have to stop having takes because it annoys other people

Evidently you want KJK to stop having takes though. Weird.

CandlelightGlow · 23/02/2023 18:03

If your patience is wearing thin, turn twitter off for a while! People don't have to stop having takes because it annoys other people

AlisonDonut · 23/02/2023 18:02

CandlelightGlow · 23/02/2023 17:50

So how is the tweet to be taken in isolation a commentary about surrogacy?

If you're going to write stuff that can easily be construed as homophobic, it's not surprising that it's going to appeal to homophobes. I imagine most non homophobic people who were genuinely interested in conversations about women's rights and surrogacy would be actually speaking on that. But I don't know who this person is so maybe there is a different context.

I thought it was in relation to Paris Hilton?

She's not a gay man is she?

People are so quick to shout 'phobia' at every fucking conversation these days people's patience with the thought police is wearing so, so thin.

CandlelightGlow · 23/02/2023 18:01

Eyerollcentral · 23/02/2023 17:54

I think you are determined to see homophobia where there is none. People are allowed to speak on any subject they want. They don’t have to do it in a way you think you be proper and it’s really odd that you would think that it would be appropriate.

Oh boo hoo no one is impeding anyone's free speech ffs, I'm simply saying if you choose to make ambiguous statements that sound kind of homophobic, it's not surprising that homophobic people will be drawn to it.

Eyerollcentral · 23/02/2023 17:57

CandlelightGlow · 23/02/2023 17:53

Again though, this is semantics. Same sex couples are part of the group of people which would also include people with fertility issues, who cannot conceive naturally.

So as I said, if discussing surrogacy I'm not focusing on the reasons why someone can't have a baby, I don't really care to differentiate as that's not the focus of the conversation. So to me it's telling that someone would feel the need to do so.

No it’s not semantics. Words have meaning. Two fertile people of the same sex do not need infertility treatment. They are fertile. They need assisted reproduction to have a baby. That’s a totally different thing. Trying to call it a fertility issue is dishonest.

Eyerollcentral · 23/02/2023 17:54

CandlelightGlow · 23/02/2023 17:50

So how is the tweet to be taken in isolation a commentary about surrogacy?

If you're going to write stuff that can easily be construed as homophobic, it's not surprising that it's going to appeal to homophobes. I imagine most non homophobic people who were genuinely interested in conversations about women's rights and surrogacy would be actually speaking on that. But I don't know who this person is so maybe there is a different context.

I think you are determined to see homophobia where there is none. People are allowed to speak on any subject they want. They don’t have to do it in a way you think you be proper and it’s really odd that you would think that it would be appropriate.

CandlelightGlow · 23/02/2023 17:53

Eyerollcentral · 23/02/2023 17:37

‘Have no idea what the benefit of telling gay men and women that their inability to naturally have a family doesn't matter’ But the tweet related to fertility treatment. Unless one or both of the gay couple have fertility issues then their inability to have a child together doesn’t matter to treatment for infertility?

Again though, this is semantics. Same sex couples are part of the group of people which would also include people with fertility issues, who cannot conceive naturally.

So as I said, if discussing surrogacy I'm not focusing on the reasons why someone can't have a baby, I don't really care to differentiate as that's not the focus of the conversation. So to me it's telling that someone would feel the need to do so.

CandlelightGlow · 23/02/2023 17:50

Eyerollcentral · 23/02/2023 17:39

It’s not a fertility problem for gay couples, it’s a biology problem. It would be incorrect to label it as a fertility problem. Two people of the same sex cannot conceive. No one has a right to have a baby.

So how is the tweet to be taken in isolation a commentary about surrogacy?

If you're going to write stuff that can easily be construed as homophobic, it's not surprising that it's going to appeal to homophobes. I imagine most non homophobic people who were genuinely interested in conversations about women's rights and surrogacy would be actually speaking on that. But I don't know who this person is so maybe there is a different context.

Eyerollcentral · 23/02/2023 17:48

Tbf a good deal of people even in the past didn’t come in to the world as a result of a lifelong partnership between loving parents. The difference is the advances in fertility technology and the £££ that can be made from it.

Reddahlias · 23/02/2023 17:43

Where does this recent 'right' to have a baby come from?

A baby used to be considered a happy byproduct of a lifelong partnership between two parents.

Reddahlias · 23/02/2023 17:41

Thing is when we talk about people have any kind of “right” to be a parent or have a baby, it’s very difficult if the only way they can do so is by use of someone else’s body or body parts.

When you consider it that way it does seem dubious...

Eyerollcentral · 23/02/2023 17:39

CandlelightGlow · 23/02/2023 17:34

As in, the argument against surrogacy is that anybody's fertility issues, regardless of cause, while very sad, is not a justification to use surrogacy because surrogacy is the commodification of women's bodies and of babies.

What is the reasoning behind focusing on same sex couples? Why the need to label their fertility issues as irrelevant?

It’s not a fertility problem for gay couples, it’s a biology problem. It would be incorrect to label it as a fertility problem. Two people of the same sex cannot conceive. No one has a right to have a baby.

AlisonDonut · 23/02/2023 17:38

CandlelightGlow · 23/02/2023 17:32

I mean to be fair the first tweet is still full of the same implications. I've had conversations around surrogacy and it's perfectly possible to focus on just that, without needing to pass judgement on the reasons why people use it.

I have a problem with the process and so discuss that. Have no idea what the benefit of telling gay men and women that their inability to naturally have a family doesn't matter. There was nothing in that tweet about surrogacy, it sounds like an assumption made on your part in order to justify it, but it's not necessarily what this KJK person is saying.

She didn't did she? She said that it wasn't a fertility issue. Which it isn't because fertile women or men don't need investigating for the causes of non ability to conceive. The issue is lack of the opposite gamete.

Which is not a fertility issue.

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