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It’s another non binary person helping women to not feel bad about their periods

86 replies

Shallysally · 11/02/2023 23:40

Jeffrey Marsh on tik tok

And hurrah, he is going to help us against the patriarchy 🙄

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MillicentTrilbyHiggins · 12/02/2023 18:09

ShireWifeofNigelFarage · 12/02/2023 17:34

He said men find you (and me and all the other women in the world) disgusting.
That our bodily functions are ‘gross, disgusting, a joke’

And then he tried to pretend he was insulting us for our own benefit, and then he added in transmen and NB AFAB people (because obvs, they are also female, and thus are also disgusting to Jeffrey)

And finally he implied that we think we’re better than him, but really we should remember our proper place, which is as second class citizens.

Remember when your big sibling used to hit you with your own arm whilst saying ‘why are you hitting yourself? WHY ARE YOU HITTING YOURSELF?’ over and over again?

Jeffrey just did the online equivalent of that to all of us, just substitute the word ‘hit’ for the word ‘hate’.

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FOJN · 12/02/2023 18:01

Jeffery Marsh is the patriarchy, you can't get much more patriarchal than paying a man to promote tampons. He's vile and creepy.

ValerieDoonican · 12/02/2023 17:59

Haven't clicked, but I assume he is using his usual repulsive "non-binary" voice and beyond-creepy head tilt. He's utterly vile, absolutely turns my stomach. Actually,worse than vile, he's quite frightening IMO.

corlan · 12/02/2023 17:44

Jeffrey is the living embodiment of the phrase 'creepy as fuck.'

louderthan · 12/02/2023 17:40

I don't hate myself mate. I hate having periods because as someone who is child-free by choice they are a messy painful inconvenience, but I definitely don't hate myself.
But thank you for the faux-concern.

ShireWifeofNigelFarage · 12/02/2023 17:34

MillicentTrilbyHiggins · 12/02/2023 17:02

I don't actually understand what he was trying to say.

I shouldn't feel "bad" about my periods (whatever the fuck that means) because what exactly ? Transmen... non binary... something something... patriarchy... cis men...

If he had a point it got lost in translation.

He said men find you (and me and all the other women in the world) disgusting.
That our bodily functions are ‘gross, disgusting, a joke’

And then he tried to pretend he was insulting us for our own benefit, and then he added in transmen and NB AFAB people (because obvs, they are also female, and thus are also disgusting to Jeffrey)

And finally he implied that we think we’re better than him, but really we should remember our proper place, which is as second class citizens.

Remember when your big sibling used to hit you with your own arm whilst saying ‘why are you hitting yourself? WHY ARE YOU HITTING YOURSELF?’ over and over again?

Jeffrey just did the online equivalent of that to all of us, just substitute the word ‘hit’ for the word ‘hate’.

EpicChaos · 12/02/2023 17:29

I wouldn't trust Jeffrey within a 100 miles of kids!
I think it's way past time, that a few adults took jeffrey behind the bike sheds sat the bloke down and had a kindly word or two with him about the child catcher vibes he gives off.
He seriously creeps me out!

BirdyBoop · 12/02/2023 17:28

You're a man you silly plonker.

Non-binary is very very tedious.

nepeta · 12/02/2023 17:26

Mansplaining does seem to be built-in. Or lecturing at women about something they know a zillion times more about than the lecturer.

MillicentTrilbyHiggins · 12/02/2023 17:02

I don't actually understand what he was trying to say.

I shouldn't feel "bad" about my periods (whatever the fuck that means) because what exactly ? Transmen... non binary... something something... patriarchy... cis men...

If he had a point it got lost in translation.

bellinisurge · 12/02/2023 16:57

That bloke needs a fucking hard drive check

ShireWifeofNigelFarage · 12/02/2023 16:52

Blanketunderstars · 12/02/2023 16:35

The comments on the jeffery TikTok are outstanding- never thought I’d see anything other than ‘be kind’ on that app.

Screenshot a few good ones? If you don’t have the app you can only see two comments!

Blanketunderstars · 12/02/2023 16:35

The comments on the jeffery TikTok are outstanding- never thought I’d see anything other than ‘be kind’ on that app.

viques · 12/02/2023 12:52

WarriorNun · 12/02/2023 10:21

Omfg, room for a packer and covered in rainbows

Would you want to wear a packer on days you are having your period! How to confuse your brain.

Boiledbeetle · 12/02/2023 12:01

JustStopOilyPoshKids · 12/02/2023 10:59

Ugh! Does everyone watch this fella and get the creeps?

The creeps and then some.

This guy is seriously not right!

WarriorNun · 12/02/2023 11:50

And this is even more concerning about him:

twitter.com/mummabeeblu/status/1624723637214257156?s=46&t=DxQbS3arLWiAv8KqdmUM9g

It’s another non binary person helping women to not feel bad about their periods
mydogsteppedonabee · 12/02/2023 11:33

I usually lie low on this debate but he has fucking triggered me!!!
People who menstruate
Pregnant people
Chest feeding
Get the fuck outta here you creep.

ShireWifeofNigelFarage · 12/02/2023 11:18

While I agree that grey rock is usually a good strategy, with Marsh we want to feed the algorithm with clicks and get him into more people’s feeds…

He does the rest of our job for us!

ChungusBoi · 12/02/2023 11:17

People like Dylan Mulvaney and Jeffrey Marsh are making a much more hostile environment out in the real world for ordinary trans people, who just want to live their lives in peace. It isn’t necessary for trans women to give out tampons, or mansplain about periods and if it’s done with a genuine ethos, they should just do it without putting it on social media.

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Shallysally · 12/02/2023 11:04

SLS500 · 12/02/2023 10:54

I wish it were satire but sadly it's not.

Why encourage this nonsense by giving it so much attention.

Ignore

Surely if we ignore it, people with their “inclusive” views, such as Jeffrey, will see our apathy as a green light to push for their perceived rights as non binary people.

Until I saw this video, I thought Jeffrey was a person who was posting helpful, supportive information. Now I’ve dug a little deeper, and am disturbed by his other content.

The Jesus YouTube is particularly disturbing.

As women we need to continue to call this bullshit out.

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DarkDayforMN · 12/02/2023 11:03

I don’t have the app, so can’t see full comments, but I just saw the top two comments on TikTok are calling Marsh out! And the video has way more comments than likes.

I’ve never seen that with a “trans influencer” type before. Mulvaney’s comments are always fawning cringe shit afaik.

I’m heartened by this. 😊 even the TikTok kids are seeing through it.

JustStopOilyPoshKids · 12/02/2023 10:59

Ugh! Does everyone watch this fella and get the creeps?

SLS500 · 12/02/2023 10:54

I wish it were satire but sadly it's not.

Why encourage this nonsense by giving it so much attention.

Ignore

whatyoulookingfor · 12/02/2023 10:38

What brand paid him? I need to make sure I never buy that brand.

Koicrap · 12/02/2023 10:38

So instead of using their funds for something good and useful, like help end period poverty, they paid a bloke to patronise us.